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Reasoning for questions - 5/18/2011 5:48:40 PM   
falccon


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Status: offline 		A few years ago, a Domme asked me questions about sex. She asked "when was the last time I had intercourse." She went on to ask "how often do you masturbate." In your opinion, what were her reasons for asking these questions?
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RE: Reasoning for questions - 5/18/2011 5:50:53 PM   
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Status: offline 		Because she wanted to know.  She doesn't need any other reason.

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RE: Reasoning for questions - 5/18/2011 5:56:30 PM   
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Because she wanted to know.  She doesn't need any other reason.


That and it's a way of getting to know if you're thinking with the brain on your neck or driven by the brain in your pants. Little brain thinking would take those questions as an invitation to unload your list of kinks and how EXACTLY she should perform them.

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RE: Reasoning for questions - 5/18/2011 6:33:17 PM   
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Status: offline 		In My opinion, which doesn't mean a darn thing because I know nothing about her personal motivations, she was curious.

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RE: Reasoning for questions - 5/18/2011 6:50:09 PM   
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Status: offline 		Well, if the Domme was someone you had never met or talked to on the phone how do you even know she was a she?  Could have been some guy getting off from your answers. 

If you know for sure she was a woman then perhaps she asked because she wanted to know the answers and you were willing to supply the answers. 

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RE: Reasoning for questions - 5/18/2011 7:47:55 PM   
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Status: offline 		Beats hell out of me.  She may have been a foreigner learning English from a dirty book, and using its vocabulary with you for all I know.

And as peppermint hinted, I may be using an incorrect pronoun.

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RE: Reasoning for questions - 5/18/2011 8:24:01 PM   
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Beats hell out of me.  She may have been a foreigner learning English from a dirty book, and using its vocabulary with you for all I know.


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RE: Reasoning for questions - 5/18/2011 8:25:40 PM   
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RE: Reasoning for questions - 5/18/2011 8:26:29 PM   
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RE: Reasoning for questions - 5/19/2011 12:28:48 AM   
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My hovercraft is full of eels!!


So is the kiddie pool that the llama is drinking from ;-)

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RE: Reasoning for questions - 5/19/2011 1:22:41 AM   
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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

My hovercraft is full of eels!!


So is the kiddie pool that the llama is drinking from ;-)


giggles. and to keep on topic, I have no idea, ask her

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RE: Reasoning for questions - 5/19/2011 2:12:10 AM   
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Possibly wanted to know about your sex drive and if you are willing to be submissive even when not horny. Just a guess...

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RE: Reasoning for questions - 5/19/2011 5:09:54 PM   
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A few years ago, a Domme asked me questions about sex. She asked "when was the last time I had intercourse." She went on to ask "how often do you masturbate." In your opinion, what were her reasons for asking these questions?


Some dominants like to control people by controlling their sex drives. I knew one once who did that. If I were a dominant of that sort, I would need to know something about your sex drive before I could control it well.

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RE: Reasoning for questions - 5/20/2011 2:35:37 PM   
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"when was the last time I had intercourse."
Maybe to see how much you played the field?

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"how often do you masturbate."
Maybe to see if you were open enough to give a sensible honest answer, or maybe to see just how horny a slutboy you were?

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RE: Reasoning for questions - 5/20/2011 4:00:19 PM   
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Status: offline 		Maybe she asked to see if you knew how to do either...

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