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RE: Any s's ever respond to those first 'Dom you right ... - 9/22/2011 1:45:56 PM

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Did once, down to my inexperience with the site and lack of understanding that it wouldn't be fun. Felt like i was just being dragged along for a cheap wank on the other side which I wasn't getting the benefit of.
Was a waste of time and a disapointment. Ah well, live and learn :)

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RE: Any s's ever respond to those first 'Dom you right ... - 10/2/2011 3:09:29 PM

mysouldesire

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quote:

So my question is:

Is there anyone out there who has responded to any of those kinds of messages? And I mean of any kind- once on a lark, a couple times, 'there's a certain type that can get me to do that', online, went-and-met, etc.

I'd be curious to hear as much of the who's/when's/why's as you'd care to share.

LOLOL

I have and gone on for quite some time. Because I was in the mood to be a brat. Or mostly in the mind of giving the writer a peice of their own crap. LOLOLOL

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RE: Any s's ever respond to those first 'Dom you right ... - 10/2/2011 3:30:30 PM

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What amazes me, is that people would respond to these at all.

I dont understand that kind of "desperate" or "need of attention".

I dont see these people as Doms or Masters. They can claim to be a Dom or Master all they want. A lot of people claim to be Jesus Christ - this doesnt make it so.

What they indeed are - are strangers. And internet strangers at that.

What ive also been seeing a lot of lately, is someone asking me right off the bat: I live in timbucktoo - will this be a problem?
- and Im like: why would it be a problem? You are on your computer there, and I am on my computer here, and we are chatting ...so how is that a problem?

this is also classic: when within a few minutes of chatting they say they are going to be coming to TEXAS and would I like to meet.
Im like : Im really not into meeting strange men off a BDSM website that I know NADA about. ( it tells me right away that this person has ZERO common sense )

I really dont understand the complete lack of thought process these people are on. Im like thinking----> what fucking planet are YOU on anyways?

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RE: Any s's ever respond to those first 'Dom you right ... - 10/21/2011 8:44:44 AM

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I occasionally do if I'm in the mood to wind them up! It states quite clearly on my profile that I'm in a loving D/s relationship and that I'm happily owned and collared. It staggers me how often they'll not read that or they do and figure they'll try anyway. I also get a lot of messages from them getting angry with me because I'm in a relationship. If I'm not in the mood I'll just delete their messages. If I'm in a mischevious mood then I'll definitely have fun with them!

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RE: Any s's ever respond to those first 'Dom you right ... - 10/21/2011 8:54:28 AM

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I will respond with some over the top sarcastic remark which sadly just seems to entice them even more but I consider it training for my sharp wit. If the mail is overly crude/vulgar I ignore it most times.

More often I will ignore a stupid email before a crude one. If it's vague and does not require a response such as what I deem a rhetorical question then I don't respond. I prefer someone to spark my intelligence. I get approximately 60 emails a day and there have been a few sparks lately. I like them funny and thought provoking.

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RE: Any s's ever respond to those first 'Dom you right ... - 10/21/2011 8:59:36 AM

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I've gotten a couple. I generally reply to them "You stupid fuck. I'm a Dominant"

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RE: Any s's ever respond to those first 'Dom you right ... - 10/21/2011 11:03:08 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Hillwilliam

I've gotten a couple. I generally reply to them "You stupid fuck. I'm a Dominant"

And after that, it's so quiet you hear crickets chirping?

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RE: Any s's ever respond to those first 'Dom you right ... - 10/21/2011 11:06:44 AM

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You got it.

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RE: Any s's ever respond to those first 'Dom you right ... - 10/21/2011 12:14:25 PM

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I've gotten a couple and honestly just rolled my eyes at them. I tell them straight off the bat that my respect AND submission is something I do not give easily, and they have just lost all chances of it. Then I move on to the next one.

Also, mail filters, they're friends to us.

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