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DarkSteven -> RE: Interpreting His Comments (5/23/2011 3:55:59 PM)
The fun was vanilla. It was at a hotel, when he stopped by. What he couldn't teach you about was sex, not BDSM. Sounds to me like he was a vanilla in Dom's clothing. To be blunt, I wouldn't dwell on his words. If someone with fifteen years of experience had used them, I'd consider them. But from a pretend Dom... Nah.

Zoe61 -> RE: Interpreting His Comments (5/23/2011 4:56:46 PM)
I want to most hubly apologize for upsetting the kind hearted sensibilitiies of you all,who took the time to answer mme. I hope that this doesn't ruin our serious relationship with each other. Love to all..Zoe

juliaoceania -> RE: Interpreting His Comments (5/23/2011 4:59:48 PM)
Oh fuck it, never mind

sunshinemiss -> RE: Interpreting His Comments (5/23/2011 6:08:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Zoe61 I want to most hubly apologize for upsetting the kind hearted sensibilitiies of you all,who took the time to answer mme. blink blink Say what?

juliaoceania -> RE: Interpreting His Comments (5/23/2011 6:28:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss quote: ORIGINAL: Zoe61 I want to most hubly apologize for upsetting the kind hearted sensibilitiies of you all,who took the time to answer mme. blink blink Say what? Its called "sarcasm".... and it reads real tacky from my vantage point.

sunshinemiss -> RE: Interpreting His Comments (5/23/2011 7:39:32 PM)
Thank you. <<< gullible.

LafayetteLady -> RE: Interpreting His Comments (5/23/2011 8:14:44 PM)
~FAST REPLY~ "Can't teach you anything about sex." Hmmmm. You admit you are an attractive, sexual 61 year old lady. Maybe the guy had it in his head that you were a nice older lady who had never experienced the joys of orgasm. Maybe he was an old fart who realized he could never keep up with you. Maybe he already knew he sucked in the sack, but you made it obvious. No matter how you look at it, you got a nice dinner and you got laid. He probably meant it as an insult, but take it as a compliment that he thought you were a great lay and move on.

poise -> RE: Interpreting His Comments (5/23/2011 8:27:39 PM)
Or maybe he expected the sex to be much better than it was, and he believes in the adage that you can't teach an old dog new tricks?

LafayetteLady -> RE: Interpreting His Comments (5/23/2011 9:31:42 PM)
I thought taking the high road would be a nicer approach, without the need of the term "old dog." I've never felt the need to reach for the joke at someone's expense. Shows a lack of taste, class and poise.

tazzygirl -> RE: Interpreting His Comments (5/23/2011 9:36:05 PM)
Out of all the Doms I have known, I dont recall a single one backing down from a challenge... and this would have been a huge challenge to any man who had an ego.

HannahLynHeather -> RE: Interpreting His Comments (5/24/2011 12:55:58 AM)
quote: Some responses here make me sound like the "poor widdle sub who didn't know what getting fucked is"...yikes and why the fuck do you think that might be, sugar? maybe because that's the way you presented it in the first place? you provided a very sketchy outline that implied one thing and asked for our interpretations and then when you didn't like the answers you got all snarky and bitchy. and then, only after snapping at the other posters' replies, you provided the missing details that gave the whole picture. cheap assed high school debating bullshit if you ask me. quote: why the judgemental stuff here in what should be an open forum? shit babe, they weren't judgmental at all. after reading your posts on this thread i went and got real fucking judgmental on your ass honey-cuddle-buns, and trust me you wouldn't like to know what my judgment of you is. hannah lynn

ranja -> RE: Interpreting His Comments (5/24/2011 2:23:57 AM)
FR i think the man was talking bollocks... it did not mean anything...just something to say on his way out of the door i am glad you had a good time and i agree with Aynne that when you find someone really interesting and possible long term relationship material: do not fuck them on the first date... it is so oldfashioned... but so true

Aileen1968 -> RE: Interpreting His Comments (5/24/2011 5:03:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Zoe61 Hi Hello I am confused. I met up with a great Dom from here. We had dinner and great conversation. After some rather vanilla fun back at his hotel, he tells me.."I can't teach you anything about sex"..and I haven't heard from him. I know that not hearing means forget it. (duh) but I was confused by that comment. He had said nothing previously about "teaching about sex" . Was it a compliment or a slam?.. It means he met you for a one night stand and you were a beat lay.

theRose4U -> RE: Interpreting His Comments (5/24/2011 9:45:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Zoe61 Well, if that wasn't what he was looking for, the date should not have begun two weeks earlier with assignments to write erotic stories for him, and phone sex...also, he could have stopped it..But the real important thing here is he just wasn't that into me..lol.lliterally and figuratively...:) Ty Just not that into you is likely but at least he doesn't have to put any effort into new wank fodder to find your replacement. [:'(]

DesFIP -> RE: Interpreting His Comments (5/25/2011 3:06:10 AM)
Surprise, surprise, her profile's gone.

juliaoceania -> RE: Interpreting His Comments (5/25/2011 7:39:58 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DesFIP Surprise, surprise, her profile's gone. Why close a profile unless it bothered her much more than she let on. I doubt she closed it because of us.

Arpig -> RE: Interpreting His Comments (5/25/2011 12:47:58 PM)
I guess we were expected to tell her that she is obviously a sexual marvel, and that we wished she'd teach us all just a fraction of what she obviously knows.

masterlink65 -> RE: Interpreting His Comments (6/8/2011 9:39:05 PM)
i think its time to look for another date for this weekend

kalikshama -> RE: Interpreting His Comments (6/13/2011 6:24:40 PM)
quote: when you find someone really interesting and possible long term relationship material: do not fuck them on the first date... it is so oldfashioned... but so true Bah, I'm not interested in a man who thinks that way about female sexuality. I fucked my future husband on the first night and we were married 18 years. And it wasn't even a date - I saw him walking by and I asked him to help me fix a light. He fixed the light and fucked me all night long - my kinda guy!

Mainman661 -> RE: Interpreting His Comments (6/16/2011 12:46:22 PM)
That seems terribly vague and he disappeared pretty quickly. Honestly it's in your best interest to just let the comment go. I don't think he was as dedicated to BDSM as he was just to get off.

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