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chastity device help - 5/24/2011 10:12:08 AM   
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I have looked at and tryed a couple of defernt chastity devices such as CB6000,the curve
and have found that I can't really use them as my balls do not hang low enough.
my balls are very close to my body and the few times I tryed a cuff type chastity device
it ended up being very painfull when my balls pulled themselves out of it.
I had everything as far as spacers and smallest ring so to make smallest gap
as possible but balls still pulled themselves through the gap and out
and belive me that was very painfull as they crushed themselves through
the gap.
so is there any other kind of chastity device that might work
that would be afordable?
I know there are full belts avaiable but I can not aford
the $800-$1000 or more that they cost
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RE: chastity device help - 5/24/2011 10:43:52 AM   
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I wish I could answer this for you but your post made my balls hurt. 

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RE: chastity device help - 5/24/2011 11:07:41 AM   
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Have you tried using a small elastic hair scrunchy to wrap around your balls and pull them away from your body before putting the device on?

Once you get it on, you can take the scrunchy off.  Just a suggestion, as I've had this work for other types of cock and ball containment devices.






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RE: chastity device help - 5/24/2011 11:35:08 AM   
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I have tryed that but still have the problem in that balls still pull them selves out of the device back to my body and that hurts like hell when they
pull themselves through that small space between the ring and cage.


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Have you tried using a small elastic hair scrunchy to wrap around your balls and pull them away from your body before putting the device on?

Once you get it on, you can take the scrunchy off.  Just a suggestion, as I've had this work for other types of cock and ball containment devices.









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RE: chastity device help - 5/24/2011 11:44:10 AM   
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Are you using a metal fixed size device? In other words, the ring that goes around your balls isn't stretching in any way? And if this is true, are you sure you are buying the correct size for you?

My male sub has perhaps a dozen cock ball devices (one of which he just bought last weekend), 90% do not work b/c they do not fit properly.

The one he bought last weekend is leather with rows of metal snaps that are adjustable so you can get a good fit around the balls. Even with the scrunchy, I had to snap it for him, it had to be on VERY tight. (The cock part of this device didn't fit quite as well, but it didn't matter, as the ball part did not come off, and it had what *I* wanted, which was a ring so I could hook up to clamps on his nipples.)

I'm not sure what to say other than keep looking, unless someone else can chime in here. It is a (rather) common problem.



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RE: chastity device help - 5/24/2011 11:59:55 AM   
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I have tryed plastic and I have tryed metal devices
and defernt size rings and spacers but still
have the problem no matter what size I would use.
I had a CB 6000 and tryed every possible combonation
of ring and spacer sizes and still balls would pull out

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RE: chastity device help - 5/24/2011 12:06:50 PM   
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That sucks, and not in a good way. Hopefully you will get some helpful responses when people start coming home from work.




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RE: chastity device help - 5/24/2011 12:27:26 PM   
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I agree that it sucks and not in a good way
especally since I now have a couple of masters that want
me to wear a chastity device,need to find one that works
and is afordable.
I am sure that a full belt type chastity device would
work but who can aford one as the prices I'v seen are $600+
on them

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That sucks, and not in a good way. Hopefully you will get some helpful responses when people start coming home from work.






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RE: chastity device help - 5/24/2011 1:06:53 PM   
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Get a genital piercing, once healed there are some chastity devices that are locked on by the cross piercing.


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RE: chastity device help - 5/24/2011 3:08:16 PM   
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yes genital piercings would possibly be another chioce
if there is a place that does them here in Central Wisconsin.
are genital photos allowed here? if so it would
give a better idea of what I have to work with

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Get a genital piercing, once healed there are some chastity devices that are locked on by the cross piercing.



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RE: chastity device help - 5/24/2011 3:12:49 PM   
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Yes there are places in WI that do them.  You can set a link here for photos.

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RE: chastity device help - 5/24/2011 3:17:24 PM   
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Ok, I will have to do some checking around then.
if I can't derictly up load photos here
were can I put x-rated photos
to link them here?


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Yes there are places in WI that do them.  You can set a link here for photos.


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RE: chastity device help - 5/24/2011 3:20:12 PM   
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I would talk to Mr S in San Francisco. They are some of the most knowledgeable people in the country, and super nice. I think when a M/M leather shop is super nice to the naive girl(when I was younger) who walks into boy town, then they have to be nice to all people. http://www.mr-s-leather.com

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RE: chastity device help - 5/24/2011 3:25:48 PM   
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yes I do know of Mr S and I do have there site bookmarked.
I also posted on there forum asking the same thing about
chastity devices,the more info I can get the better.
btw I also just orderd some clover nip clamps from them

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I would talk to Mr S in San Francisco. They are some of the most knowledgeable people in the country, and super nice. I think when a M/M leather shop is super nice to the naive girl(when I was younger) who walks into boy town, then they have to be nice to all people. http://www.mr-s-leather.com


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RE: chastity device help - 5/24/2011 3:26:55 PM   
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You can link it to a photo on your CM account.

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RE: chastity device help - 5/24/2011 3:47:08 PM   
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Ok,let's see if it works
if it does here are a couple of pic's



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RE: chastity device help - 5/24/2011 5:42:15 PM   
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You might try the 6000 with NO spacers at all and the largest ring. You are obviously a shrinker/grower. But the tighness of the sac can change. Testicles are not square, and if prevented from moving through a space completely will not hurt. It is when they pass partway through that this happens. This is like nipping it in the bud. Don't let it get started in the first place.

Being totally lubed (inside the sac) once it gets started it is almost like osmosis. But if you never let it get sarted that does not happen. I found out. The smallest spacer and the biggest ring on a 3000 conversion from the 2000 with a harness I found wearable for SEVEN WEEKS. Cleaning was a real bitch, but I got through it. God damn, it took me a week to get a decent hardon after that. I mean this was no off for any reason. Showers were out, I had to take baths.

You might think it will cut off the circultion, but it probably won't. That's what I thought at first. And with extended wear it might stretch your sac, ummm "naturally". Testes are egg shaped. I am pretty much an engineer and can tell you, the pressure is minimal when a round object tries to go through. When it gets partway through the pressure increases because of the incident angle of the pressure. As little as three eighths of an inch can allow full blood flow, unless you are very fleshy down there.

So tighten it up and watch VERY carefully for problems like pain, edema, swelling AND ESPECIALLY NUMBNESS. For that seven weeks EVERY day I would play with my balls, and they were not numb. Now that it is over, I now get a hardon like a teenager again.

That's one thing to realize about a chastity device, it does come off sooner or later. If not just cut your dick off.

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RE: chastity device help - 5/24/2011 7:37:11 PM   
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I tryed that too but still ended up
with a lot of pain as if it is cold out my balls
pull up even more than what you see in the pic's

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RE: chastity device help - 5/25/2011 2:09:40 AM   
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Well then I guess there are only a few options. If a ball trapper won't work because of that, and being a shrinker doesn't help there is only ne way. A florentine style belt with a curved tube which is pressed against the body. I am also a shrinker/grower and I found that with the CB3000 (convert) it didn't shrink as much. I had a nice little harness but knowing that cutting it would get me nowhere it was actual chastity. But I also had a Waterhole.

Now a florentine with a straight tube would never work of course, but then there is a place called Home Depot. My Waterhole broke at one of the "ultrasonically" welded joints. In the past it was joined by small nylon nuts and bolts. This "new" process was wonderful, except for the fact that it broke.

Tools that can cut plastic will get you out but the same is true of a CB XXXX. And with your weiner shrinking like the, you won't HAVE to pull out of a florentine. So you need the curved tube, and you need it mounted right.

The only other alternative is a piercing. Well, that might be interesting. Some guy whose been in and out of of the joint, been run through the car wash and all that, some would not call that fun. If you got the balls for it fine, and I'll throw down on that for  a sec. Balls does have a very not descriptive meaning. When you mean guts, chutzpah, perhaps even courage ? That's what balls means in this context.

But on topic here, part of the problem here is not just the tight sac or whatever, we have a fiber or something hooked up to muscles which are connected to the testes. These tend to contract when it is cold or we exert ourselves physically. If I carry a car transmission across the street in the winter, my balls are fucking gone. One thing though, that's the way I was made and I never wanted to tear those fibers.

The same type of tension seems to suck our dicks in. I think it is a sign of youth, and maybe ironically even virility. When it is cold out and I have to take a walk, like if I get a flat or they tow my car or something, my dick turns into an inny. But still even mornng wood is frequently hard as a rock and plenty big, a hair over six inches. Or was that under ?????? But fuck those motherfuckers with the eight inch flaccid dick that doesn't get much harder than a hard boiled egg. If you don't get kickass hardons that should be looked into, no matter your age. I'm not saying to start taking Grandma's pills, but it's something that's better to know.

What I can't tell by the pics is how your body fat is. If you are obese that is a different story. But if your shit is shrinking like that and you are otherwise in good shape, you might want to count yourself among the lucky. If you do get those rock-hard-ons, that complicates the chastity issue quite a bit. The penis must slide freely or else you are in bad trouble. I know when I'm hard trying to bend it, well in the middle it is futile but the whole thing bending at the base is excruciatingly painful. Also with my little rig, it MUST be positioned exactly so that my penis enters without a bend, otherwise OUCH.

The major problem here is if you can't use a ball trap type device, you're looking at a special made florentine. In that case get prepared to blow a grand and get fucked around for a year, and that's the best of circumstances. Making those things is no fun, and every turn you need something and it will be sixteen weeks out of bumfukt Egypt somewhere. But the customer wants it now. Those are the facts of life, and that place in NH is barraged with complaints because of it. But then I know that type of businessperson and if asked they will say " How the fuck can I tell my customers that it will really be about six months ". building  florentine belt is no walk in the garden.

However there is another option for the shrinker/grower. It amounts to temporary infibulation. Fuck, I bet now none of the betties on this site will want me...... oh well fuck it. A conical piece on the head, while flaccid. The foreskin runs over the outside and the glans pokes through. This can be secured to the body a few different ways, but the tighter the better. Alignment is critical, you wanna shrink ? SHRINK ! Take it all the way in. If the alignment is right, there can be no expansion therefore no erection at all. Any error causes pain. But, you can still piss standing up and you can play with the head, for what it's worth. You will not get off. Not the right way anyway.

More later, there is some uncaused trouble out there. But really give this some thought. I would say take it to mail, but fuck that. I am really trying to care less about if people think I'm a pervert or something but I just can't seem to achieve that. In fact I just tell them. People have talked about "what if my boss found out" and all that shit. Fuck, I'd probably convert him. Like if they even think of trying to throw me in rehab, there is more of a chance that I will DEhabilitate the REhabilitators ! Put it out here. You already have putz pics.. Oh, and just so you know, this site is viewable by anyone on the internet.

If I get to it and there is a reason I might send you some pics of my rig in Cmail. I won't put them right out here, I guess I'm just shy. It would be legal though. It's just that anything you post here, you can't take it back.

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RE: chastity device help - 5/25/2011 7:57:58 AM   
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my dick shrinking or growing is no problem
it's when my balls want to go and
hide up in my body is when I run into
problems
yes I am considering getting piercings
with all the tattoos that I have and
pierced ears,nose and lip I'm no stranger
to getting poked

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