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WhiteRadiance -> How does fetish become submission? (5/12/2006 6:13:18 PM)
I have some question for all the sub males... or females- with fetishes. (please forgive my ignorance and the length of this querry)... Did your fetish lead you to the lifestyle, and if so, how? Do you have any idea why you have such strong desires towards the object(s)? When did these feelings manifest themselves? Is your desire directed towards a certain person, or is it towards certain objects? And finally... How does your fetish enter into your need to submit? I REALLY would appreciate some input, as I do have some confusion of sorts concerning fetishists. I do adore CD's and foot sluts, but find myself wondering about many things, and the more I learn, the more I wonder... Just hoping for some insight. Thanks in advance!

Rumtiger -> RE: How does fetish become submission? (5/12/2006 6:19:00 PM)
My fetish is leather, latex or vinyl clothing on a woman, it started when I was just a little kid, and I saw Batman Returns with Nicole Kidman in that skintight catwoman outfit, since that day, I have the immediate inclination too worship any woman who is wearing any such thing, i'm like a moth to a flame, give me two women, lets say one is a 10, the other is lets say...a 7 or 8. Dress the 7 or 8 in tight leather pants or latex ect, and I will walk right by the 10 every single time, thats how powerful it is. I guess since in fantasy mainly, dommes wear such clothing regularly, that amde me drawn to them, and thus the lifestyle, and i've been in it ever since. ...That and I always had a fantasy since I was a little kid about actually fighting catwoman too...which would explain how I always liked primal play too lol.

mixielicous -> RE: How does fetish become submission? (5/12/2006 7:34:01 PM)
most of my fetishes were exposed after i entered the lifestyle. the one i had previously did not lead me here.

BiteGirl -> RE: How does fetish become submission? (5/12/2006 7:37:24 PM)
^^ Same here.

WhiteRadiance -> RE: How does fetish become submission? (5/12/2006 8:04:51 PM)
Thanks for the HONEST and in depth reply, Rummy! ;) so when you choose a Domme, do/will you take into account her personality or is it mainly directed towards her wardrobe? Believe me I know what you mean about the catwoman suit, it is hot. so please don't take offense... I am just curious.

WhiteRadiance -> RE: How does fetish become submission? (5/12/2006 8:07:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mixielicous most of my fetishes were exposed after i entered the lifestyle. the one i had previously did not lead me here. AND?

mixielicous -> RE: How does fetish become submission? (5/12/2006 8:16:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WhiteRadiance Do you have any idea why you have such strong desires towards the object(s)? When did these feelings manifest themselves? Is your desire directed towards a certain person, or is it towards certain objects? And finally... How does your fetish enter into your need to submit? AND ... ok, well the fetish i had pre M/s/D/s, i discovered in the 8th grade. its a hand fetish. i am obsessed. perfect hands make me wet [bone structure, complexion, smoothness of nails, moons etc] and it lead into a mild arm/shoulder fetish, but nothing will match getting my mouth finger fucked [yep, fetish. lol] it was a specific person who evoked this fetish [a crush] but soon it moved past him. it does not change the way i serve [besides the fact that Master has a thing for my teeth, so lucky me His hands are in my mouth allllll the time] i prefer not to disclose the others b/c i am still discovering at what depth the are.

Rumtiger -> RE: How does fetish become submission? (5/12/2006 8:28:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WhiteRadiance Thanks for the HONEST and in depth reply, Rummy! ;) so when you choose a Domme, do/will you take into account her personality or is it mainly directed towards her wardrobe? Believe me I know what you mean about the catwoman suit, it is hot. so please don't take offense... I am just curious. The wardrobe is more of an optional thing since for some reason it's actually sorta rare to find playmates who like to wear such things [Tiger sad...] so thats why I always have to look at the person herself instead of what she is wearing. I still wont let that fetish die though...shiny and tight...yummy.

Rumtiger -> RE: How does fetish become submission? (5/12/2006 8:34:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mixielicous AND ... ok, well the fetish i had pre M/s/D/s, i discovered in the 8th grade. its a hand fetish. i am obsessed. perfect hands make me wet [bone structure, complexion, smoothness of nails, moons etc] and it lead into a mild arm/shoulder fetish, but nothing will match getting my mouth finger fucked [yep, fetish. lol] ...hm..so I take it hands that are sunned, callous, rough with tough skin, knuckle scars and markings and scratches, with rough but cut nails toughened to steel like consitency because of increased calcium intake, plus some light hair here and there.....arent your thing? lol dont worry not hitting on you, it's Friday and Pepsi just tastes so good with a shot of cap'n.

mixielicous -> RE: How does fetish become submission? (5/12/2006 8:43:10 PM)
while i have encounteredc hands like that, and would never push you away b/c of it [as a landscaper myself] it is not the kind of hand i am likely to put in my mouth [:D] lol Master is a computer programmer and has softer hands than i [until i worked very hard to rectify that, on my behalf] scars are ok, i dont mind them. scars on/through lips? fetish worthy

Rumtiger -> RE: How does fetish become submission? (5/12/2006 8:46:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mixielicous scars on/through lips? fetish worthy Guilty

SweetEscravo -> RE: How does fetish become submission? (5/12/2006 8:49:11 PM)
The only "fetish" I would I say I have is for the catholic school girl. It drives me wild on myself or another girl. The costume, for me, really ooses of submission, because of the good, sweet, loving girl a csg is supposed to be. Plus, it fits very very well into the daddy scenes, which I love.

twicehappy -> RE: How does fetish become submission? (5/13/2006 4:36:31 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: WhiteRadiance Did your fetish lead you to the lifestyle, and if so, how? Maybe in an indirect manner, my hugest turn on as always been(goddess help me after all these years still is)a long haired tattooed biker in leather, i was snared by one in the lifestyle who became my 1st Master. quote: Do you have any idea why you have such strong desires towards the object(s)? When did these feelings manifest themselves? Is your desire directed towards a certain person, or is it towards certain objects? I think the power, the smell, the badass image. As soon as i saw my 1st biker on an HD, i was done. Generally all of them get a rise from me, all bikes and almost all bikers, but the ultimate lust is reserved for that One. quote: How does your fetish enter into your need to submit? I will only submit to one who is definitely all biker.

Mercnbeth -> RE: How does fetish become submission? (5/13/2006 5:03:49 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Rumtiger ...Batman Returns with Nicole Kidman in that skintight catwoman outfit... hope this doesn't "burst your bubble", but it wasn't Nicole Kidman, it was Michelle Pfeiffer in that outfit, except for the fight scenes, they were done by an un-credited Kathy Long, a 5 time world champion women's kick-boxer! http://www.worldblackbelt.com/Founding_Members/Long_Kathy.asp?SID=

fastlane -> RE: How does fetish become submission? (5/13/2006 5:23:14 AM)
Mixie has a hand fetish? Fastlane looks at his favorite one..that being the right...and sez "me too" Michelle Pfeiffer was the super Heroine, yes Beth, but I'd love to see Nicole Kidman in that suit, with those long legs of hers....Dayum and what about Halle Barry in the Catwoman outfit.....meeeeeooooooowwwww puddy cat! I think you just identified another fetish that I never knew I had? C'mon right hand, we got to get busy! Kevin

bandit25 -> RE: How does fetish become submission? (5/13/2006 5:30:18 AM)
LOL...I was wondering if I "missed" one of the Batman movies...it was Michelle Pfiffer.

sabswife -> RE: How does fetish become submission? (5/13/2006 6:39:45 AM)
i am quite the reverse.. i believe its more my submissiveness that led me to the "fetish". i am submissive so i enjoy being in a submissive sitation :)

Rumtiger -> RE: How does fetish become submission? (5/13/2006 8:33:48 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth hope this doesn't "burst your bubble", but it wasn't Nicole Kidman, it was Michelle Pfeiffer in that outfit, except for the fight scenes, they were done by an un-credited Kathy Long, a 5 time world champion women's kick-boxer! http://www.worldblackbelt.com/Founding_Members/Long_Kathy.asp?SID= Hey I was a kid, all I saw was hot blonde + skintight latex, and Michelle Pfeiffer back in the day was alot higher on the scale than Kidman. And 5 time champ huh?.....anyone know if shes on CM? hehe.

mixielicous -> RE: How does fetish become submission? (5/13/2006 9:41:53 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: fastlane Mixie has a hand fetish? Fastlane looks at his favorite one..that being the right...and sez "me too" Michelle Pfeiffer was the super Heroine, yes Beth, but I'd love to see Nicole Kidman in that suit, with those long legs of hers....Dayum and what about Halle Barry in the Catwoman outfit.....meeeeeooooooowwwww puddy cat! I think you just identified another fetish that I never knew I had? C'mon right hand, we got to get busy! Kevin you always make me laugh

WhiteRadiance -> RE: How does fetish become submission? (5/13/2006 3:10:31 PM)
I am guilty of being attracted to the bad boy image...But difinitely not ALL bikers, or all bad boys... lol If everything that excites me or attracts me qualifies as a fetish I am in trouble! quote: ORIGINAL: twicehappy quote: ORIGINAL: WhiteRadiance Did your fetish lead you to the lifestyle, and if so, how? Maybe in an indirect manner, my hugest turn on as always been(goddess help me after all these years still is)a long haired tattooed biker in leather, i was snared by one in the lifestyle who became my 1st Master. quote: Do you have any idea why you have such strong desires towards the object(s)? When did these feelings manifest themselves? Is your desire directed towards a certain person, or is it towards certain objects? I think the power, the smell, the badass image. As soon as i saw my 1st biker on an HD, i was done. Generally all of them get a rise from me, all bikes and almost all bikers, but the ultimate lust is reserved for that One. quote: How does your fetish enter into your need to submit? I will only submit to one who is definitely all biker.

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