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LadyConstanze -> RE: Male vs. Female Dominance (My 1st thread) (5/30/2011 7:02:07 AM)


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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

And the only quote I know......

Dammit Jim! I'm a doctor not a rocket scientist!


I prefer "I'm a doctor not a brick layer"

And I confess I had this and other Star Trek soundbites on my answering machine....



hlen5 -> RE: Male vs. Female Dominance (My 1st thread) (5/30/2011 7:23:48 AM)


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ORIGINAL: DeviantlyD

This.
[image]http://www.frontroomcinema.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/04/khal-drogo.jpeg[/image]

Edited to add: Oh dear...I didn't realize it was going to be so...big. :)


And we thank you for it!!!!!!!



HeatherMcLeather -> RE: Male vs. Female Dominance (My 1st thread) (5/30/2011 8:13:48 AM)

Thanks for getting back on track Awareness. ignoring the off topic things, What I'm getting is it comes down to penetration with a penis=dominance. Is that a fair summing up of your basic position?



tazzygirl -> RE: Male vs. Female Dominance (My 1st thread) (5/30/2011 8:17:40 AM)

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So simplistic and self absorbed. Some truth in a little of it though.


Whats so funny is that you both are on these boards looking for female companions, and wondering why you cant find any!



tazzygirl -> RE: Male vs. Female Dominance (My 1st thread) (5/30/2011 8:20:42 AM)


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ORIGINAL: HeatherMcLeather

Thanks for getting back on track Awareness. ignoring the off topic things, What I'm getting is it comes down to penetration with a penis=dominance. Is that a fair summing up of your basic position?


Didnt strap-ons level that playing field?



HeatherMcLeather -> RE: Male vs. Female Dominance (My 1st thread) (5/30/2011 8:33:31 AM)

Aderious and PhilSlave. thank you both for contributing, but please, you've had your say, please don't spend pages reiterating it or just telling eachother how right each other is.

Also please note that the focus of this thread is in fact on two different fundamental  styles or philosophies of dominance, and why one style seems to be more prevalent in one gender, and the other in the other. If you really want to discuss how women are innately inferior to men, then by all means start a thread on it, and I'll pop in and have my 2 cents worth there.



Arpig -> RE: Male vs. Female Dominance (My 1st thread) (5/30/2011 8:34:05 AM)

Just some general replies.
**RedMagic1
It wasn't an attack, personal or otherwise. It was a response to your stated positions, with a bit of advice thrown in at the end based on a perception of you drawn from various of your posts. That was me being considerate, sorry man, I spent 3 years down in P&R, sometimes I forget to put on the velvet gloves for the rest of the boards.

**Awareness
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Any woman who asserts that a man who feels emasculated by losing his job has severe issues is not only ignorant when it comes to the opposite sex, but also clearly harbours a degree of hatred for them. 
It wasn't a woman that made that statement. I've known a lot of men who've lost their jobs over the last half century, and funnily enough not one of them felt like he'd become less of a man because of it.




PhilSlave -> RE: Male vs. Female Dominance (My 1st thread) (5/30/2011 8:35:49 AM)


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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

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So simplistic and self absorbed. Some truth in a little of it though.


Whats so funny is that you both are on these boards looking for female companions, and wondering why you cant find any!


I'm not looking for anyone..... Weird.



sexyred1 -> RE: Male vs. Female Dominance (My 1st thread) (5/30/2011 8:41:19 AM)

No one should feel sorry for Heather; I am sure she totally understands the positions of those who "contributed" to her thread.

It is interesting amazing that only the men here took a fun thread and infused it with their own insecurities combined with false political statements.

I thought this kind of drivel was only prevalent on the Politics and Religion section which is why I never go there, too many lunatics.

The men here who have posted their inflammatory comments and photos have only made the "female clique" laugh their asses off.

I also find it terribly amusing that some of the people who get disagreed with, think it is because they are personally disliked or attacked.

No, you are being disagreed with because of what you say and how you say it. Nothing more and nothing less. You could be the greatest guy in the world, but if you say something something disagrees with they can ignore you or reply.

Again I say DEAL WITH IT.




LadyConstanze -> RE: Male vs. Female Dominance (My 1st thread) (5/30/2011 8:43:00 AM)


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ORIGINAL: PhilSlave


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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

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So simplistic and self absorbed. Some truth in a little of it though.


Whats so funny is that you both are on these boards looking for female companions, and wondering why you cant find any!


I'm not looking for anyone..... Weird.


Funny, up until a few minutes ago you were actively seeking Dominant Women, Switch Women, Femdom Couples and joining a Poly Household...

Would you like a screen shot of your old profile?



sexyred1 -> RE: Male vs. Female Dominance (My 1st thread) (5/30/2011 8:44:11 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Arpig

Just some general replies.
**RedMagic1
It wasn't an attack, personal or otherwise. It was a response to your stated positions, with a bit of advice thrown in at the end based on a perception of you drawn from various of your posts. That was me being considerate, sorry man, I spent 3 years down in P&R, sometimes I forget to put on the velvet gloves for the rest of the boards.

**Awareness
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Any woman who asserts that a man who feels emasculated by losing his job has severe issues is not only ignorant when it comes to the opposite sex, but also clearly harbours a degree of hatred for them. 
It wasn't a woman that made that statement. I've known a lot of men who've lost their jobs over the last half century, and funnily enough not one of them felt like he'd become less of a man because of it.



Actually Arpig, I said that and I am clearly a woman. But thanks for the being the voice of reason. I also know alot of men and women who have lost their jobs and not one of them has lost their minds, family, masuculinity, femininity or anything else, other than the stress of having to make ends meet.

But perhaps that is because none of those men or women had deep seated psychological issues that they needed to blame on the opposite sex.



PhilSlave -> RE: Male vs. Female Dominance (My 1st thread) (5/30/2011 8:46:37 AM)


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ORIGINAL: sexyred1


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ORIGINAL: Arpig

Just some general replies.
**RedMagic1
It wasn't an attack, personal or otherwise. It was a response to your stated positions, with a bit of advice thrown in at the end based on a perception of you drawn from various of your posts. That was me being considerate, sorry man, I spent 3 years down in P&R, sometimes I forget to put on the velvet gloves for the rest of the boards.

**Awareness
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Any woman who asserts that a man who feels emasculated by losing his job has severe issues is not only ignorant when it comes to the opposite sex, but also clearly harbours a degree of hatred for them. 
It wasn't a woman that made that statement. I've known a lot of men who've lost their jobs over the last half century, and funnily enough not one of them felt like he'd become less of a man because of it.



Actually Arpig, I said that and I am clearly a woman. But thanks for the being the voice of reason. I also know alot of men and women who have lost their jobs and not one of them has lost their minds, family, masuculinity, femininity or anything else, other than the stress of having to make ends meet.

But perhaps that is because none of those men or women had deep seated psychological issues that they needed to blame on the opposite sex.


I think it's often a shame people tar an entire sex with the issues of a few.



PdxJ -> RE: Male vs. Female Dominance (My 1st thread) (5/30/2011 8:53:25 AM)

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ORIGINAL: HeatherMcLeather

Thanks for getting back on track Awareness. ignoring the off topic things, What I'm getting is it comes down to penetration with a penis=dominance. Is that a fair summing up of your basic position?


I hate to admit it but yes.
When you get right down to it - males can claim dominance and have since the dawn of man simply because we can. The very first cave man saw that gnarly dirty, yet naked, cave chic and clunked her ass on the head with his club and took her how he wanted her - hard, rough, and as often as he wanted. What was she gonna do about it? Not a damn thing.

Fast forward several thousand years and what do we have? Rapists that still think they can get away with it and we have Dom's. Rapists, I'm not even going to start on - that's a different topic for a different day but . . . . . . . Doms - doms can be doms because the female of our species, for the most part, is still that filthy naked cave-whore we forced to be our toy several thousand years ago and they like it. There is an order to the universe.

Dommes on the other hand, and yes I do hear the flame throwers starting up, are living under an evolutionary illusion that men and women are physically equal. Yes, granted, there may be a few that could back it up but seriously - take away the consensual and men are the dominate. We can take what we want. Women like to play that they can and I give them their due - they talk a great game but, seriously, drop the consensual and it's not even the same game let alone the same ballpark.

*Flame retardant suit on*



PhilSlave -> RE: Male vs. Female Dominance (My 1st thread) (5/30/2011 8:58:51 AM)


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ORIGINAL: PdxJ

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ORIGINAL: HeatherMcLeather

Thanks for getting back on track Awareness. ignoring the off topic things, What I'm getting is it comes down to penetration with a penis=dominance. Is that a fair summing up of your basic position?


I hate to admit it but yes.
When you get right down to it - males can claim dominance and have since the dawn of man simply because we can. The very first cave man saw that gnarly dirty, yet naked, cave chic and clunked her ass on the head with his club and took her how he wanted her - hard, rough, and as often as he wanted. What was she gonna do about it? Not a damn thing.

Fast forward several thousand years and what do we have? Rapists that still think they can get away with it and we have Dom's. Rapists, I'm not even going to start on - that's a different topic for a different day but . . . . . . . Doms - doms can be doms because the female of our species, for the most part, is still that filthy naked cave-whore we forced to be our toy several thousand years ago and they like it. There is an order to the universe.

Dommes on the other hand, and yes I do hear the flame throwers starting up, are living under an evolutionary illusion that men and women are physically equal. Yes, granted, there may be a few that could back it up but seriously - take away the consensual and men are the dominate. We can take what we want. Women like to play that they can and I give them their due - they talk a great game but, seriously, drop the consensual and it's not even the same game let alone the same ballpark.

*Flame retardant suit on*



Good post and I actually agree with all of it!



tazzygirl -> RE: Male vs. Female Dominance (My 1st thread) (5/30/2011 9:05:04 AM)


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ORIGINAL: PhilSlave


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ORIGINAL: tazzygirl

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So simplistic and self absorbed. Some truth in a little of it though.


Whats so funny is that you both are on these boards looking for female companions, and wondering why you cant find any!


I'm not looking for anyone..... Weird.


Your profile...

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Hi, I don't hold out much hope here. It's a prostitutes paradise and financial domination is not really femdom at all just a scam.



Still maybe someone is real!



PhilSlave -> RE: Male vs. Female Dominance (My 1st thread) (5/30/2011 9:10:45 AM)

I am not looking and never have been that quote isn't stating i'm looking, it's stating I hope some people are real.



HeatherMcLeather -> RE: Male vs. Female Dominance (My 1st thread) (5/30/2011 9:12:31 AM)

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I hate to admit it but yes.
This is interesting, I wonder why it pains you to say it if you believe it.

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are living under an evolutionary illusion that men and women are physically equal.
So you're defining dominance as purely physical then?  I don't think the evidence backs that up really.

It seems that what is being presented recently is the idea that not only are some acts or positions inherently dominant, but that any penetrative act by a penis (and only a penis) is by definition dominant. Personally I don't buy this. Anybody who has watched Hanners tie up a man and ride him for an hour or two without letting him orgasm would have a hard time seeing that particular penetration as anything but utterly submissive on his part, but I digress.

In all honesty, I think that so far only Awareness's idea that it is due to the possibility of pregnancy makes any sense. The other reasons put forward to support that position really aren't all that credible, at least in my mind.

So let's examine that idea for a bit, OK?

Not being in a position to say, I'm going to ask the women who are. Do you find there to be a psychological difference in being penetrated by something that can impregnate you and something that cannot?

Please guys, hold off replying for a bit till we get a few views from those who are in a position to actually know, rather than theorize. Thanks all.



tazzygirl -> RE: Male vs. Female Dominance (My 1st thread) (5/30/2011 9:15:02 AM)

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Fast forward several thousand years and what do we have? Rapists that still think they can get away with it and we have Dom's. Rapists, I'm not even going to start on - that's a different topic for a different day but . . . . . . . Doms - doms can be doms because the female of our species, for the most part, is still that filthy naked cave-whore we forced to be our toy several thousand years ago and they like it. There is an order to the universe.


Rape is born of anger, not Dominance.


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When you get right down to it - males can claim dominance and have since the dawn of man simply because we can. The very first cave man saw that gnarly dirty, yet naked, cave chic and clunked her ass on the head with his club and took her how he wanted her - hard, rough, and as often as he wanted. What was she gonna do about it? Not a damn thing.


Its funny that you, and by his own agreement, phil, believe in the fables of the club wielding cave man. You do realize these myths had their beginnings in the late 1800's?



LadyConstanze -> RE: Male vs. Female Dominance (My 1st thread) (5/30/2011 9:16:19 AM)


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ORIGINAL: PhilSlave

I am not looking and never have been that quote isn't stating i'm looking, it's stating I hope some people are real.


Really? Let me offer you that screen shot of your profile again, before you changed it roughly 30 minutes ago



HeatherMcLeather -> RE: Male vs. Female Dominance (My 1st thread) (5/30/2011 9:17:33 AM)

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I'm not looking for anyone..... Weird.
Didn't you mean to say "Weird and creepy"?

Singing....
It's my thread
I'll derail it if I want to



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