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PhilSlave -> RE: Is it weird when a member on here wants to know about your private life beyond what you share? (5/29/2011 5:12:10 PM)

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ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious


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ORIGINAL: PhilSlave

If she was the one with the profile and was after something i'd agree; however, nah, having a partner who has no interest in a forum... Not really, really is creepy.

So she sits next to you and reads all the messages but has no interest? Because that's what you said yesterday - that she often sat by you and read. I'll pull the quote up if you like.

Under those circumstances I think the request is fair enough, particularly as you'd just accused someone else (i.e. me) of cheating.



Doesn't mean she has an interest in posting, really creepy. Yeah after you'd attributed the reason of cheating to me. I didn't ask you to get your gf or partner to ring me..... really creepy.



coookie -> RE: Is it weird when a member on here wants to know about your private life beyond what you share? (5/29/2011 5:12:46 PM)

She reads the forums and laughs with you ... she has interest. Phil you are being a silly little boy.



PhilSlave -> RE: Is it weird when a member on here wants to know about your private life beyond what you share? (5/29/2011 5:14:04 PM)


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ORIGINAL: coookie

She reads the forums and laughs with you ... she has interest. Phil you are being a silly little boy.


There's laugh and wanting to record a voice message etc. Really creepy stuff. The more I think about it, the more..... weird it becomes.



coookie -> RE: Is it weird when a member on here wants to know about your private life beyond what you share? (5/29/2011 5:15:06 PM)

You should likely leave this site for adults Phil. There are things here you might find creepy... like anal sex o.O



VaguelyCurious -> RE: Is it weird when a member on here wants to know about your private life beyond what you share? (5/29/2011 5:15:31 PM)


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ORIGINAL: PhilSlave

Doesn't mean she has an interest in posting, really creepy. Yeah after you'd attributed the reason of cheating to me. I didn't ask you to get your gf or partner to ring me..... really creepy.

I didn't attribute anything to you - I asked you a direct question, to which you gave a direct answer, which I then accepted.

She didn't ask anybody to ring anybody - way to blow things out of proportion. You're working yourself right up into a lather about this. I can see why she was pushing those posts at you so hard - you're entertaining like this.




LadyPact -> RE: Is it weird when a member on here wants to know about your private life beyond what you share? (5/29/2011 5:16:47 PM)

Maybe if she doesn't want to say anything, she could just tap the mic a few times.

Tap, tap, tap.



PhilSlave -> RE: Is it weird when a member on here wants to know about your private life beyond what you share? (5/29/2011 5:20:00 PM)


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ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious


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ORIGINAL: PhilSlave

Doesn't mean she has an interest in posting, really creepy. Yeah after you'd attributed the reason of cheating to me. I didn't ask you to get your gf or partner to ring me..... really creepy.

I didn't attribute anything to you - I asked you a direct question, to which you gave a direct answer, which I then accepted.

She didn't ask anybody to ring anybody - way to blow things out of proportion. You're working yourself right up into a lather about this. I can see why she was pushing those posts at you so hard - you're entertaining like this.




Not at all, I just find asking for someone not involved in a discussion to talk - Creepy. Really creepy. Perhaps it isn't as weird as it seems but it seems, really creepy. I don't think she was pushing I think she was butt hurt over something and became obsessed by my partner and I.



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Is it weird when a member on here wants to know about your private life beyond what you share? (5/29/2011 5:20:39 PM)

~epic lulz emo here~

Okay, what are the odds that some of our posting friends from this year are the same dude?



PhilSlave -> RE: Is it weird when a member on here wants to know about your private life beyond what you share? (5/29/2011 5:21:57 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

~epic lulz emo here~

Okay, what are the odds that some of our posting friends from this year are the same dude?


So creepy and paranoid. I don't mind the moderation checking my i.p. and stating i'm not a multiple poster.



VaguelyCurious -> RE: Is it weird when a member on here wants to know about your private life beyond what you share? (5/29/2011 5:23:03 PM)


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ORIGINAL: PhilSlave

Not at all, I just find asking for someone not involved in a discussion to talk - Creepy. Really creepy. Perhaps it isn't as weird as it seems but it seems, really creepy. I don't think she was pushing I think she was butt hurt over something and became obsessed by my partner and I.

Ok, look. How much experience of forums have you actually had? I'm asking because you seem not to be able to tell the difference between someone laughing at you and taking an easy route to imply that you're lying, and someone genuinely trying to stalk you and being obsessed by you. You're mistaking point scoring (fairly amusing point scoring) for genuine butt hurt.



Lucylastic -> RE: Is it weird when a member on here wants to know about your private life beyond what you share? (5/29/2011 5:24:14 PM)

Me thinks he doth protest too much

doesnt matter what anyone says to him, it seems he just thinks its...weird & CREEPY
man thats creepy[8|]




poise -> RE: Is it weird when a member on here wants to know about your private life beyond what you share? (5/29/2011 5:24:19 PM)

You know what I find pretty ironic, Phil?
Every thread that you have started here has you asking a forum
full of strangers to enlighten you on the way they live their life. [:-]



PhilSlave -> RE: Is it weird when a member on here wants to know about your private life beyond what you share? (5/29/2011 5:24:24 PM)


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ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious


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ORIGINAL: PhilSlave

Not at all, I just find asking for someone not involved in a discussion to talk - Creepy. Really creepy. Perhaps it isn't as weird as it seems but it seems, really creepy. I don't think she was pushing I think she was butt hurt over something and became obsessed by my partner and I.

Ok, look. How much experience of forums have you actually had? I'm asking because you seem not to be able to tell the difference between someone laughing at you and taking an easy route to imply that you're lying, and someone genuinely trying to stalk you and being obsessed by you. You're mistaking point scoring (fairly amusing point scoring) for genuine butt hurt.


Asking someone to get a partner to go on microphone is........ not normal on any forum. It's plain weird.



PhilSlave -> RE: Is it weird when a member on here wants to know about your private life beyond what you share? (5/29/2011 5:26:05 PM)


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ORIGINAL: poise

You know what I find pretty ironic, Phil?
Every thread that you have started here has you asking a forum
full of strangers to enlighten you on the way they live their life. [:-]


Ahh but that's what forums are for, it doesn't involve getting their nearest and dearest to offer anything. Led alone participate actively by going on microphone or cam. Really creepy.



coookie -> RE: Is it weird when a member on here wants to know about your private life beyond what you share? (5/29/2011 5:27:34 PM)

Does anyone else think it is really weird and creepy how phil keeps saying everything is weird and creepy?



LadyPact -> RE: Is it weird when a member on here wants to know about your private life beyond what you share? (5/29/2011 5:27:57 PM)

Now we've made the leap from "sitting right there" to "go get her"?



VaguelyCurious -> RE: Is it weird when a member on here wants to know about your private life beyond what you share? (5/29/2011 5:28:31 PM)


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ORIGINAL: PhilSlave

Asking someone to get a partner to go on microphone is........ not normal on any forum. It's plain weird.

You may sense that I don't have a lot of sympathy with you on this one. And you've also missed my point. She's winding you up because it's funny. And I can see her point - I mean, look at you go! You're the spinning top that just keeps on whirling.

I think it's maybe because I'm from the UK scene, where we expect people to be accountable for who they are - most scenesters have an ic profile where people go on record to state that they've met them and are members of their real life network.

This is mine, such as it currently is:

http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/p/VaguelyCurious/

So I'm used to people expecting me to back up my claims of where I've been and who I know. You? Clearly not so much.



gungadin09 -> RE: Is it weird when a member on here wants to know about your private life beyond what you share? (5/29/2011 5:28:49 PM)

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ORIGINAL: PhilSlave
Someone wanting to talk to your husband or hear your husbands voice because you'd exchanged messages on an open forum and stated you were married.... Really weird and creepy.


This is not someone you exchanged emails with on the other side? This is someone from the forums? IF that happened, then it's creepy. You might want to consider whether the person's just fucking with you, and you're letting them. You might also want to consider that the person thinks you're full of shit, and it trying to call you on it. i would definitely consider that this is the internet, and a request, however creepy, made over the computer can't hurt you. It's not like they left a horse's head in your bed, or put a bullet in your mailbox. THAT would be creepy.

If their email bothers you, then block the person. Problem solved. Then again, you could starts a thread about it to draw attention to the fact, and let this person know just how much they got to you. The choice is yours. Assuming that it even happened at all.

pam




PhilSlave -> RE: Is it weird when a member on here wants to know about your private life beyond what you share? (5/29/2011 5:29:12 PM)


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ORIGINAL: coookie

Does anyone else think it is really weird and creepy how phil keeps saying everything is weird and creepy?


Probably, as some posters see nothing strange about someone asking to hear anothers partner on microphone. That's just weird.....and creepy.



coookie -> RE: Is it weird when a member on here wants to know about your private life beyond what you share? (5/29/2011 5:31:16 PM)

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You might want to consider whether the person's just fucking with you, and you're letting them. You might also want to consider that the person thinks you're full of shit, and it trying to call you on it.


QFT



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