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CynthiaWVirginia -> RE: Newest Local Members (6/1/2011 12:20:40 PM)
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Welcome to the message boards area of CollarMe, xcrunner.
Now to start answering your question. I brought a fem sub to CM from another site this past week, and I warned her how her mailbox will be flooded until she is off the newest local members list, moreso than later on. She had over fifty letters before she had even finished filling out her profile and lists, and these past days has resorted to X'ing out letters from men she is not interested in. The simple hellos with nothing else added, form letters, guys who obviously did not read her profile, ones too far away, etc. She has been so very buys that I haven't heard from her in several days, lol, whereas before we were on the phone for several hours each day.
With others on the newbie list...some are those who got fed up, stormed off after closing their account...and then found themselves drawn back. If you do not give clear signs you have read their profile beyond the fact that they are female and kinky, these returning souls are more likely to use delete and maybe block.
My advice would be to have patience, say something nice about one of their vanilla interests and don't send any nekkie pix. [;)] Many will delete your letter without answering if you have a bare bones profile, so filling yours out in a way that reflects your personality would be a good start and might get you more positive responses.
Btw, my profile is now hidden but that doesn't mean I'm a fake, just that I need a break from my mail and do not want to kill off my account. I have friends here and like to read and post in the message boards. In the old days, I used to close out my account and just lurk whenever I felt burnt out, but then I had to come back later on the newest joined list...
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