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OwnedFemaleFlesh -> Nipple Pain & Orgasms (6/7/2011 2:41:57 AM)
I keep noticing that when subjected to intense nipple pain, I start to get this buzzing, flip-flog feeling running through the front wall of my vagina, like its revving up to go into a big orgasm. However, I can't explore this feeling any further, as I'm kept in denial by my Owner. So my question is - does anyone else get this feeling? It only happens when we do (what I consider to be) extreme nipple play - i.e. clamping my nipples for an hour, taking the clover clamps off, and then putting them back on, and putting another set on either beside them, or behind them (i.e. one on the tip of the nipple, one behind it). This is the kind of pain that leaves me wide eyed, open mouthed, seeing stars, and I'm usually too busy being shocked by the pain to be aware of any arousal. Nonetheless I get this odd, ticklish, funny feeling that seems to build, outside of my control, till I become seriously concerned that I'm going to orgasm without permission. Due to practicing denial, I've been too scared to see where it goes, and have to stop. But I don't know whether it's a side effect of being denied so much, or caused by the clamps, or maybe it doesn't lead to anything, it's just I've never left it alone long enough to find this out. Forgive this next, possibly icky and inappropriate observation, but I've also been told that sometimes women orgasm whilst breastfeeding, and this led me to wonder if the clamps are triggering something of a similar reaction (I've never had children and am only going off the remarks of a rather wild submissive woman I used to know.) I know many women orgasm from nipple play, but I've never been one of those women. I do sometimes orgasm from unusual things, but always its because I'm getting turned on, and I'm willingly moving towards that feeling, wanting to orgasm. I've never had this feeling of going into a disconnected physical reaction, yet it's happened several times with the clamps. Is it just me? Is there anyone else that gets this from nipple pain, any other thoughts in general? Many thanks, owned xxx

ranja -> RE: Nipple Pain & Orgasms (6/7/2011 6:23:57 AM)
Do you like being kept in denial? i most likely would have an 'accident' at some time nipple play/pain only does not get me off but it's a great stimulant

Kana -> RE: Nipple Pain & Orgasms (6/7/2011 7:48:48 AM)
Severe nipple pain does just the opposite to her. I like taking her right to the brink of cumming, then giving those headlights a wicked twist (As in grab with needlenose pliers and try to tear those sweet nips right the fuck off her chest), making her arch, scream, and come plummeting down from the near orgasmic summit into the throes of pain and agony. Take her back up again through hard fucking, face slapping, breath play etc..., rinse, repeat. Hours of fun for folks from 18-999. Highly recommended

peppermint -> RE: Nipple Pain & Orgasms (6/7/2011 8:30:54 AM)
Excuse me for pointing this out. Clamps, should not be on the nipples for longer than 20 minutes. An hour is asking to have permanent nerve damage done. Once that happens you won't feel a think in your vagina because you won't feel a thing in your nipples. Surely your Dominant should know safe use of his toys before using them. Collarme had a young sub write in once. He'd had a session with a person where he wore clamps on his nipples for an extended period of time. Six months later he was asking the forum if he would ever gain sensation back as they were still numb.

windchymes -> RE: Nipple Pain & Orgasms (6/7/2011 8:34:54 AM)
Mother Nature designed us that way so that when we nurse our newborn babies, the nipple stimulation causes uterine contractions, which help the uterus return to normal size after childbirth. The feelings you experience are very normal. Frankly, if you're one of those lucky women who CAN orgasm from nipple stimulation, then you ought to cultivate it, develop it, perfect it, and enjoy it. If you don't, your neuro-system is going to get programmed that this is NOT a pathway to orgasm, and you'll lose it. You and Master are also on the way to making orgasming be difficult for you for the rest of your life, if all you practice is denial. Our brains are funny that way.

OwnedFemaleFlesh -> RE: Nipple Pain & Orgasms (6/7/2011 1:12:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: windchymes ...the nipple stimulation causes uterine contractions... Oh cool! I can see us having a lot of fun with this :-D quote: ORIGINAL: windchymes You and Master are also on the way to making orgasming be difficult for you for the rest of your life, if all you practice is denial. Our brains are funny that way. Lol, it doesn't work that way for me. I've always orgasmed easily and frequently, and that is still the case in between periods of denial. I don't think I could ever lose the ability to orgasm, so many things push me to the edge, it's always a struggle to hold back, rather than an effort to get there! peppermint. You are correct about what is considered a normal safe time for clamps. But I have been breaking that rule for many years now, and never seem to have come to any harm. I think as with all things, people err on the side of caution when they think up 'safe' ways to practice s&m, which is no bad thing, but obviously not everyone sticks to that. owned xxx

scarletsubbie -> RE: Nipple Pain & Orgasms (6/7/2011 10:05:23 PM)
Orgasm, childbirth contractions and the "let down reflex" of nursing are all started by oxytocin . We females have that connection honestly. Now, I enjoy nipple play (not to anything resembling an extreme) and I know a good deal about energy work with sensuality/sexuality. But I'll spare you the hippy dippy side of me. The anatomy portion of it is that the oxytocin effect hits the Graffenberg pad/G spot, so that is likely what you feel in the "front wall" of your vagina. I suspect that a bit of GENTLE play on the G spot along with the wicked nipple play would be rocket launching for you.

SimplyMichael -> RE: Nipple Pain & Orgasms (6/8/2011 10:39:48 AM)
Nipples, like clitorises, are as unique as the women they are attached to. It also matters who is touching them, what I can do with someone's nipples, another lesser man may fail at. {Yes, even for me I am feeling a bit cocky this week} My partner's nipples are so senstive, its almost cheating to play with them, she can orgasm quite easy simply by playing with her nipples. Other women, an hour of going down on them might only get you close.

LillyBoPeep -> RE: Nipple Pain & Orgasms (6/11/2011 3:57:28 AM)
mother nature is adrift in ingenuity. =) anyway, i have had orgasms from nipple play, and persistent nipple pain can cause the feeling you're describing. it makes me want to grind on something. =p haha i've never practiced denial, so it's not a side effect from that, at least not for me, though it could be for you -- maybe the process of denial is teaching your brain new things about arousal? (and even though you've never had a bad experience from clamping for an hour, all it takes is ONE bad time, you know? not intending to be the safety police, though, because frankly, most of the stuff people do could get them killed in an instant.)

DOM68005 -> RE: Nipple Pain & Orgasms (6/11/2011 11:44:25 AM)
I have played with a sub who primarily got her big moment via breast/nipple play but was more difficult to set off in the more traditional ways.

BabieGothika -> RE: Nipple Pain & Orgasms (6/30/2011 9:27:19 PM)
I LOVE NIPPLE TORTURE VERY MUCH AND I FEEL SO MUCH WITH THAT, ITS TERRIBLE IF THE MASTER DENEID MY ORGAMS, SOMETIMES HE DOES THAT BUT SOMETIMES , HE IS GOOD AND ALLOWED ME TO CUM, THANKS, GOD! hehehe[8D][8D][8D][8D][8D][8D][8D][8D][8D][8D][8D][8D][8D][8D][8D][:)][:)][:)][:)][:)][:)][:)][;)][;)][;)][;)][;)][;)][;)][;)][;)]

OwnedFemaleFlesh -> RE: Nipple Pain & Orgasms (7/1/2011 2:21:55 PM)
Sheesh, it's terrible, I had it again today and I just had to ignore it. It's very difficult to ignore the sensation that your body is trying, with or without your permission, to have an orgasm!! It occurred to me the other day that if the blood supply was actually cut off to the nipples, they would go numb, and then after taking the clamps off, I would get pins and needles. Since neither of these happens, I wonder if the blood supply is actually cut off at all? owned xxx

Emmasubgirl -> RE: Nipple Pain & Orgasms (8/18/2011 1:22:25 AM)
I like my nipples squeezed hard to. For me though it is not that the nipples are somehow sensitive but that I need to be a bit overwhelemed with the discomfort / pain before I can cum easily. It's not essential for me to have pain to cum but it makes it much easier. Also, the pain need only be for a second, and not for ages and ages. Also, I'm sure blood supply is not cut off to the nipples. If that ever happened, they would just rot and cause infection.

DeviantlyD -> RE: Nipple Pain & Orgasms (8/18/2011 2:24:37 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OwnedFemaleFlesh Sheesh, it's terrible, I had it again today and I just had to ignore it. It's very difficult to ignore the sensation that your body is trying, with or without your permission, to have an orgasm!! It occurred to me the other day that if the blood supply was actually cut off to the nipples, they would go numb, and then after taking the clamps off, I would get pins and needles. Since neither of these happens, I wonder if the blood supply is actually cut off at all? owned xxx Well, if you damaged nerves, they can't very well supply any sensation, never mind the pins and needles. [:D] quote: ORIGINAL: Emmasubgirl I like my nipples squeezed hard to. For me though it is not that the nipples are somehow sensitive but that I need to be a bit overwhelemed with the discomfort / pain before I can cum easily. It's not essential for me to have pain to cum but it makes it much easier. Also, the pain need only be for a second, and not for ages and ages. Also, I'm sure blood supply is not cut off to the nipples. If that ever happened, they would just rot and cause infection. What makes you so sure?

stoni23 -> RE: Nipple Pain & Orgasms (8/18/2011 6:51:56 AM)
Clovers can be worn for a bit longer then traditional clamps. I've heard 20 minutes for normal clamps, 40 minutes for clovers. HOWEVER, if you take the clamps off, and rotate them 90* then you will be clamping them in a different direction, allowing the blood to flow back into the other areas. This way you can greatly increase clamp time. I wouldn't do it more then once or twice though, as you're not completely bringing blood back. Another tactic is to just remove them, suck on them and massage them for about 3 minutes, and then just re-clamp : )

frazzle -> RE: Nipple Pain & Orgasms (8/18/2011 11:15:43 AM)
No scientific proof, but going to call BS on that. Clovers cut circulation from the get go, and if pulled get worse. Normal clamps can be tightened and loosened, so can be used for a lot longer, depending on the skill of the user.

stoni23 -> RE: Nipple Pain & Orgasms (8/18/2011 12:17:49 PM)
I'm only re-stating what i've heard and live by. I've done clovers for 40 minutes several times and it still hurts like hell and feels good. I'm not saying there is scientific proof... only that I've heard from a lot of people that clovers allow some bloodflow through.

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