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The "ONE" as defined by youse - 3/27/2004 5:34:07 PM   
iwillserveu


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Everyone has different ideas of the "ONE'. The soul mate they'd run across green meadow while violins play into their open arms, etc. Here is mine that I wrote long, long, ago in a galaxy far, far away:

This is my ideal woman. She probably doesn’t exist. This is totally illogical. I say my ideal woman is 5’ 11” to 6’ 1”. The realistic range is 4’3” to 8’11”. Maybe by seeing my idea woman wish list you can make your own and learn as much about yourself that I did. Then again, maybe not.

My ideal woman is a Libertarian who thinks somewhat as I do. My ideal woman argues with leading questions as I do. My ideal woman likes instrumentals and jazz with small groups (no more than one on the same instrument.) My ideal woman is 5’11” to 6’1”. My ideal woman has red hair. She is about wpth ("about" as defined by me). She likes to work out with me. She likes SF, especially my stuff. She has a net worth of 3 or so million. She works as a literary agent. She is about 90% dominant and thinks of sex more than I do. She finds me sexy (but otherwise is sane.) Although she is pretty dominant, she will accept that I do not want to be a slave who lives in fear of her, but as a husband who loves her so much he would lay down his life for her and getting the whip (or wearing the CB2000 or whatever) is the only way he can prove it (to himself as much as her). She respects my BDSM is in the closet and discretion is her middle name (her baptismal name is deniability.) She is not totally sure what religion she is (like me). She is around my age (that’s pretty vague but so is that attribute of my ideal woman). She likes kids but wants no more than we already have (I have two and my ideal woman has one who ideally gets along with my two.) My ideal woman is intelligent. A college degree (at least an associates) would be good. She is a pretty OK chess player (like me.) She has a voice that makes me melt (sorry, I can’t describe it better than that.)

Did you notice I didn’t go into much detail on her physical build? I’ll let you in on a secret that the men’s union can censure me for (no, I won’t show you our secret handshake ). The woman a man loves is always beautiful to him. There are no exceptions to that.

I know some of those are unreasonable. I'll settle for a net worth of 2 million. Some things are more important than others.

I also know she probably doesn't exist, and I'm destined to die frustrated and sad. So? Doesn't mean I can't look.

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RE: The "ONE" as defined by youse - 3/27/2004 5:45:41 PM   
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What about One's ideal slave.

My ideal slave twangs when I pluck it.

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RE: The "ONE" as defined by youse - 3/27/2004 5:46:52 PM   
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What about ne's ideal slave?

My ideal slave twangs when I pluck it.

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RE: The "ONE" as defined by youse - 3/27/2004 6:27:17 PM   
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I assume I'm her ideal slave. (Or should I say, "i assume i'm her ideal slave.")

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RE: The "ONE" as defined by youse - 3/29/2004 12:22:10 AM   
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The problem with waiting for " The One ", is that you are blind to so many wonderful ones that could become " The One " if you would be open to them. And perhaps for some, that might just be the point.

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RE: The "ONE" as defined by youse - 3/29/2004 2:00:41 AM   
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In little league I was told to wait for my pitch. I've had a bloop single. I want a homerun. I'm not blind, I'll stretch out a triple.

Maybe the wrong people are responding. If I could have a harem of Dominas (a weird theroetical impossibility like a square circle)I would not care as much.

Besides if you are submissive, how would you go about making her "become" the ONE? ("Hey, Mistress, I got an idea...[:)[")

forgot a "]" to an emoticon and misspelled "theroetical"(sp?) (Darn! I got to install word!)

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RE: The "ONE" as defined by youse - 4/3/2004 12:24:31 PM   
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I have yet to find the **ONE** and I am highly doubtful I ever will.Perhaps my expectations are too high.So I have decided to stop looking ..If the ONE is out there,maybe he will find me

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RE: The "ONE" as defined by youse - 4/3/2004 4:00:11 PM   
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Mistress Mary,

Just curious. I can't search your profile. It'd help me a lot if I knew your state and if you are dominant or switch. (Yes, switches do use the term "Mistress".)

If anyone wonders why I am curious, why do you think? (I doubt your the ONE Mistress Mary, but i like to check.)

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RE: The "ONE" as defined by youse - 4/3/2004 5:56:46 PM   
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Mistress Mary,

Just curious. I can't search your profile. It'd help me a lot if I knew your state and if you are dominant or switch. (Yes, switches do use the term "Mistress".)

If anyone wonders why I am curious, why do you think? (I doubt your the ONE Mistress Mary, but i like to check. )



Current state of confusion Naw I Domme ..from Ontario Canada...ooo flirting..I like

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RE: The "ONE" as defined by youse - 4/8/2004 11:44:41 AM   
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I'd like to believe we all have a soul mate out there. I just don't know if I can believe it.
We all have different wants, needs and desires to make it through the day.

This question could be answered so many different ways. Just like, how was your day today? I ask a hundred people I'm going to get a hundred different answers.
As we grow and mature our answers are going to change over the years.

So to me the one is merely my perfect Dom. What is he? Who is he?
Because of where I came from and knowing who I was early in life. I did'nt want to be submissive. I did'nt want to be walked on. The submissives I knew that is exactly what happened to them. So I fought who I was for years.
My first vanilla boyfriend was killed by a drunk driver. He was the love of my life back then. We had planned to get married. Circumstances changed that and I learned. Do not depend on anyone. You never know when they may or may not be there.
Hence I started out to take care of myself. I do that very well. I do not need a man to support me. Life changes us.
All of my life I have been in charge at work and at home. So, for me my Dom merely completes me. Having a Dom, at home I'm no longer in charge he is.

He is'nt perfect but neither am I. At times I have to ask him for support. I lost three family members 2 years ago. In my mind he was'nt there for me enough. I did'nt reach out to him. He can't read my mind. We are perhaps losing another right now. This time we know better and we are watching each others backs.

So, I guess what I'm trying to say is "the one" is someone who completes your short comings. They are a shoulder to rest your head on when needed. They love you. I think the only way I differ from others is my man has to actually be a man. If I needed him to take care of me I need to know he would.
He needs to be able to do manly things. Even if he never has to. In my mind he needs to be able to.
We have the same likes and dislikes but at the same time we have different interests. We can go hiking together or he can go off with his friends to a game while I go off with mine.

I guess its simple for me. It may not be the same for everyone.

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RE: The "ONE" as defined by youse - 4/8/2004 4:12:10 PM   
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2 inches shorter than the min. AND no millions.

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RE: The "ONE" as defined by youse - 4/8/2004 5:36:46 PM   
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C'mon. ProDomme, would you complain if he had just one million dollars?

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RE: The "ONE" as defined by youse - 4/8/2004 7:15:12 PM   
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What I meant was.. I am 2 inches shorter than you're minimum and I don't even have a million.

I was teasin ya ;)

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