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2 Questions - 10/12/2004 10:12:14 AM

benjamin34

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This is for anyone who thinks they can answer it.

1. Is there what is considered a "standard contract"?

2. Once you have met a sub on-line what is the correct of letting her know you accept her?

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RE: 2 Questions - 10/12/2004 11:10:11 AM

serenity2u

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hi I will answer this . I am a submissive and have been here for 7 years so I know the answers that many may not.. A contract is made up between the Dom/sub/slave or Domme/sub/slave . It is a standard agreement made by the two to be safe,happy and taken care of responsibly.. It cannot be broken unless for reasons unbearable but it is talked about mutually between the two. But the answer to your question is a syandard contract is made by the two that will be together. It is not made up by anyone else.No forms online are available to your living conditions so state all your chores,rules or protocols you wish,together... be safe and consensual.. serenity

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RE: 2 Questions - 10/12/2004 11:14:15 AM

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to let a sub know you wish her then be open and honest with her. Tell her or him your feelings. Donot be afraid to speak up that shows weakness be strong and tell that person you wish to have them in your life..If you want I like the traditional way by sending a card and saying" I have something to ask you please come to me".. That is romantic way I myself like.. There are many ways but always be open and honest and donot hide,You may lose that person. be happy serenity

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RE: 2 Questions - 10/12/2004 8:27:04 PM

proudsub

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There is a sample contract in the following thread:

contract for sub

Here is another one, be sure to read the bottom of the first page for the covenant that topcat uses:

master/slave contract

There are numerous other threads on contracts and on the legality of them. If you click "search" at the top of the forum you can find them.

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RE: 2 Questions - 10/13/2004 5:55:37 AM

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ORIGINAL: benjamin34

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2. Once you have met a sub on-line what is the correct of letting her know you accept her?

benjamin,

I am not sure I understand your question. Your going to need to expand somewhat on your question so that others might form a coherent answer. What, exactly, do you mean by "accept her"? Accept her as what; your sub; your slave? You might also want to explain what you mean by “met a sub online”.

Given that your first question was about contracts and your second has something to do with an online relationship…. I would question the use of a contract under these circumstances. Maybe it is just me, but contracts seem to be more useful between people who interact in real life. They are used to spell out, in very concrete detail, the duties and responsibilities of each party. This seems to be a bit much in a relationship with someone you have only met online.

Just my .02 (and you all know what that is worth).
Terry

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