NuevaVida -> RE: Informing and Asking (6/20/2011 10:52:50 PM)
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This is kind of an odd list of questions, but I'll have a go at it... quote:
ORIGINAL: Punkt When you text "It is so hot and I forgot my water at home." to your Master, do you expect him to understand that you would like to buy some drink? We don't text often, but any time we communicate, we communicate clearly. So my telling him I left my water at home would simply be informative. If I wanted to go get a drink, I'd tell him that. If I needed permission to stop and get a drink, I'd say "I left my water at home and I'm hot - may I pick up a drink on the way?" or something like that. If I didn't need permission, I'd simply tell him I forgot my water so I'm picking one up. quote:
After you texted that, what if he didn't reply you back, what would you think? There's no real response to the text you sent. Ok, you forgot your water. So I figure he either didn't feel like typing "OK" or that he didn't receive the text. If I said I was getting a water and he didn't reply, I'd assume it was OK with him, or he didn't get the text. But I'd probably call and tell him instead of text, because that's what we do. quote:
Would you think that he is not concerned about your needs even though you didn't ask him to buy a drink? No. His overall big picture treatment of me tells me how concerned he is about my needs, not whether or not he responds to a text about being hot.
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