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RE: Sensory Play (An Ulterior Motive Post) - 5/15/2006 11:10:49 PM

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You need to make sure nobody has allergies to things.

Uh, isn't it their job to know what allergies they have? Perhaps they should all get collars of protection as well?

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Smells --Mix up with natural, e.g. fruits, honey, etc.; man-made- aftershave, perfume, scented candles

So after first giving her a warning about providing things people have to make a conscious effort to touch, you are perfectly willing to fill the air with perfumes, something that a person can't avoid and far more people have allergies to.

Great!

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RE: Sensory Play (An Ulterior Motive Post) - 5/16/2006 1:33:09 AM

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If you're going to do any taste testing, avoid all peanut products TOTALLY. Half a teaspoon can kill - and has, on several occasions, in blindfolded taste tests where the person had no chance to warn anyone about such allergies.

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RE: Sensory Play (An Ulterior Motive Post) - 5/16/2006 6:02:09 AM

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1.) Blindfold the person.
2.) Restrain them to the chair.
3.) Hold a sharp knife to their throat, whispering in their ear that if they move, they will get hurt, and they don't want to get hurt, now do they?
4.) Continually move the knife around on their body, completely describing what you are doing with the blade, plus injecting various ideas of what you might do with the blade while it is there.
5.) Bury the point of the blade int eh chair between their legs.
6.) Remove the restraints and blindfolds and tell them how close they came to being injured and congradulate them for not moving and having faith in you to know what you are doing with that knife.- Dustyn

FYI Sensual- don't try this with me. I'd be bored to tears and trying really hard not to giggle.

I'd ENJOY getting cut, and have been with too many tops who thought the "oh don't move or I'll slice your nipple and wouldn't that be too bad" line would somehow get to me.

I've learned that I still CAN enjoy the pleasures of the blade and sensuality/fear of knives, but it takes someone who has a very good, deep connection with me and who is willing to really get into a mindfuck.

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RE: Sensory Play (An Ulterior Motive Post) - 5/16/2006 6:41:04 AM

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Head straight to your local 99 cents store. Get the following; nail brush, duster (several varieties), hot/cold packs, sport balm, Listerine strips, emery boards, soft scarf... how far do you want me to take this? <chuckling> To me, sensation play is anything that makes the skin perk up and feel alive. You can walk through that store and just imagine what effect the item will have on someone. It has the added advantage of being cheap. Got to love bdsm on a budget.

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RE: Sensory Play (An Ulterior Motive Post) - 5/16/2006 12:16:23 PM

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1.) Blindfold the person.
2.) Restrain them to the chair.
3.) Hold a sharp knife to their throat, whispering in their ear that if they move, they will get hurt, and they don't want to get hurt, now do they?
4.) Continually move the knife around on their body, completely describing what you are doing with the blade, plus injecting various ideas of what you might do with the blade while it is there.
5.) Bury the point of the blade int eh chair between their legs.
6.) Remove the restraints and blindfolds and tell them how close they came to being injured and congradulate them for not moving and having faith in you to know what you are doing with that knife.- Dustyn

FYI Sensual- don't try this with me. I'd be bored to tears and trying really hard not to giggle.

I'd ENJOY getting cut, and have been with too many tops who thought the "oh don't move or I'll slice your nipple and wouldn't that be too bad" line would somehow get to me.

I've learned that I still CAN enjoy the pleasures of the blade and sensuality/fear of knives, but it takes someone who has a very good, deep connection with me and who is willing to really get into a mindfuck.

People that have done something repeated find a specific action stultifying. Think back to the first time you went into this kind of a situation. Can you honestly say you had no trepidations at that time?

Truthfully, no matter how intrinsically I trust someone, having had a blade held to my throat with the intent causing injury tends to put me into a unique mindset. Now that might have something to do with the fact that my mother sat and complacently watched this happen without saying a single word might have something to do with it, though. *shrug*

Playing with people you trust and know is different than a random stranger. Would you trust someone off the street, chosen at random by someone else, to do this exact scene with you?

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RE: Sensory Play (An Ulterior Motive Post) - 5/16/2006 12:24:54 PM

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ORIGINAL: Dustyn

Tactile senses are amusing to play with, but if you truly want to wrap a mind around something:

1.) Blindfold the person.
2.) Restrain them to the chair.
3.) Hold a sharp knife to their throat, whispering in their ear that if they move, they will get hurt, and they don't want to get hurt, now do they?
4.) Continually move the knife around on their body, completely describing what you are doing with the blade, plus injecting various ideas of what you might do with the blade while it is there.
5.) Bury the point of the blade int eh chair between their legs.
6.) Remove the restraints and blindfolds and tell them how close they came to being injured and congradulate them for not moving and having faith in you to know what you are doing with that knife...
The mind is a fun thing to play with at times. The more sadistic you can get with it, the sweeter the reactions seem.

Interesting post to me in that it points out just how differently we view things sometimes. I love doing knife play and while it is sensuous, I've always tended to put it more into the 'edge play' category (the mindfuck aspect, etc.).

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RE: Sensory Play (An Ulterior Motive Post) - 5/16/2006 12:28:54 PM

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Playing with people you trust and know is different than a random stranger. Would you trust someone off the street, chosen at random by someone else, to do this exact scene with you?

- Dustyn

You're changing the context. Yes my reaction would be different under those very different circumstances.

If the context remains someone specifically picked and working at a demo station, then no.

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RE: Sensory Play (An Ulterior Motive Post) - 5/16/2006 1:43:50 PM

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My favorite form of sensation play to bottom to is flogging, any and all kinds and severities. Although I do have less desire to be spanked or paddled, than whipped and caned.

Favorite for Topping: any and all. I haven't had much experience, although there was one day I was going to do the whole, bind them, blindfold and feed them routine, but a computer emergency ruined the mood that night. I fried his monitor accidently.

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RE: Sensory Play (An Ulterior Motive Post) - 5/16/2006 3:17:01 PM

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ORIGINAL: Sensualips

I'd like to hear what types of sensory play make you go mmmmmm, from the unique to the classics - mild sensation to more intense.

My laziness is the ulterior motive for this question. A local group is hosting a "Kinky Karnival" as part of a munch/meeting next week with the idea of luring in the lurkers or people who attend rarely but do not feel involved. There will be opportunities to sample different types of play at different booths -- from a violet wand to cupping to hot wax. I was asked to do "sensory play" and agreed. That is very broad and I have lots of thoughts on a way to go, but nothing it really grabbing me. I seek inspiration.

At a party I hosted, We tied a girl down naked to the floor, spread eagle with a blindfold. We had various items such as hot wax, warm baby oil, honey, feathers, granulated sugar, jelly, chocolate syrup, finger paints, ice, warm water and the list goes on, but you get the picture and every time someone walked over the girl at the party to go to the bathroom or kitchen they had to drop or apply something on her. Bye the end of the night she was so far in sub space and those who usually would not participate....... did ......because it was fun, did not require skill and she could not see who it was. Just an idea!

oh but naked body painting is fun for a kinky carnival, especially with liquid latex, finger paints or plain old water colors!

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RE: Sensory Play (An Ulterior Motive Post) - 5/16/2006 10:06:13 PM

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Thanks for all the great suggestions. (And the reminders, Cin.) I looove wax play, but there is another booth specific to just wax play so I better steer clear of it. Sounds delicious though, Bearlee.

I think I will skip the knife scenario too, because I just couldn't sell it. Could be cool in the right circumstances, but in a rotating booth with people I don't know well is not it. I am also not very experienced with knives anyway so it would be best to stay in my area of proficiency.

Tross, I would never do that to you. I would just put you on a leash. But then I would feel bad for making you roll your eyes at me and so I would brush your hair with a vibrating hairbrush. Mmmm.

Bella, you described one pocket of my toy bag. I like the phrase perk up. Crackly and perky skin is the goal here.

I love Emp's suggestion on vampire gloves, but sadly I do not own any. It would be a good excuse to buy them though. I also like Jez's messy food play and body painting ideas but I fear the mess would be a problem in this situation.

CreativeDom, I am curious. Do you mean like a vibrating egg or really an egg? Just wondering.

I am thinking a sort of sensory buffet is a good plan, laying out several items at a time and letting the person select one thing to be removed. That would give an ideal moment to see what appeals or does not appeal based on reactions and a quick chat time. Then blindfold them, possibly restrain, and go to work using the left out items as well as any surprise item. I like to talk during, so I don't think I will do headphone but will have some appropriate music. Full nudity and penetration actually are allowed, though I doubt I will go there typically. But perhaps.

I have noticed that five of the six booths are manned by switches, which is likely intentional. I wonder if this means I could potentially be the bottom as well, giving the person a chance to try items out and receive feedback. I should ask on that. (I originally suggested I do a foot worship booth instead, allowing people the privilege of rubbing my feet and sucking my toes. They didn't think that would have as broad appeal. Can you imagine?)

Thanks again for all the suggestions. You all have gotten my mind out of park and all revved up.

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RE: Sensory Play (An Ulterior Motive Post) - 5/17/2006 4:44:19 AM

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Oh yes knife scenes are wonderful. I played one out last weekend along with hotwax/cold water/warm oil. I had him tied in a chair and blind folded. I had the warm oil near the chair and I put some on the blade so when I drug it across his chest he thought he was bleeding. LMAO it was priceless.

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RE: Sensory Play (An Ulterior Motive Post) - 5/17/2006 6:44:37 AM

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Playing with people you trust and know is different than a random stranger. Would you trust someone off the street, chosen at random by someone else, to do this exact scene with you?

- Dustyn

You're changing the context. Yes my reaction would be different under those very different circumstances.

If the context remains someone specifically picked and working at a demo station, then no.

When I do demonstrations, 99 out of 100 times, I have no clue who the other person is and vice versa. This was definately bad communication on my part. I honestly am sorry, LA.

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RE: Sensory Play (An Ulterior Motive Post) - 5/30/2006 1:42:47 PM

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Sorry to dredge up an old thread, but I like closure. I will admit it. I thought the carnival was going to be a bit dorky. It was int he backyard of a private home, starting in the heat of the day at 2 pm. I figured it would be fun and liked the idea of a laid back bbq atmosphere. But still...so many things to go wrong. The weather might suck, the neighbors might be nosy, bugs could be a problem, there might be no one there but the mods and the hard core regulars. I was glad I wasn't in charge of it. I am too lazy. Still, I took inspiration from you all and lugged in my tub-o-fun and set up for my sensory booth, a whole ten minuted before things were scheduled to begin. I should not have doubted the fearless leadership. There was obviously a lot of work in the set up, from signage to tents to pretty scraves draped at my booth. There also some bucks put into it, such as the pricey but perfect-temperature wax or cool carnival prizes or so many other things that could easily go unnoticed. There was a small above ground pool which came in handy as well. And for the first twenty minutes or so, it still seemed like it could go either way. Lots of standing around. I wore a very pretty icey blue corset style top with sequins and lace, so at least I knew I was looking lovely while sweating. :) But then the people started arriving, the booths got busy, the conversations got going, and some clothes came off. Old faces, new faces, lots of smiles, and some screams too. Pretty soon it was an hour past booth-quitting time and I still had one more person waiting, ticket in hand. (The wax booth went on another full hour after me!) I laid out an array of items. As people approached I gave a quickie speech on "what sensory play means to me" and asked them to remove any item they did not want used on them. Then we quickly discussed what parts of the body were okay to touch and how much clothing they were going to remove. I blindfolded most of them and we were off. Items that got the biggest response were the ting-ting (mmmmm) and the electric fly swatter (ouch!) Most people got about 10-12 minutes, though a few evolved into more of a "mini scene" and took maybe a half of an hour. I was tired by the end. But not so tired I didn't stay another six hours.

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