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-=Dom/mes, do you disrobe at BDSM parties?=-

I’m a male Dominant and I never disrobe

16% (4)

I’m a male Dom, only naked for special circumstance (plz explain)

0% (0)

I’m a male Dom and get naked among small groups of friends

4% (1)

I’m a male Dom and get naked at large public parties w/strangers

4% (1)

I’m a male Dom and get naked at huge public events

4% (1)

I’m a female Dominant and I never disrobe

45% (11)

I’m a Domme and only naked for special circumstance (plz explain)

8% (2)

I’m a Domme and I get naked among small groups of friends

8% (2)

I’m a Domme and I get naked at large public parties w/strangers

4% (1)

I’m a Domme and I get naked at huge public events

4% (1)

Total Votes : 24

(last vote on : 2/14/2012 6:20:57 AM)
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-=Dom/mes, do you disrobe at BDSM parties?=- - 6/25/2011 5:16:46 PM

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Is disrobing part of your normal routine when playing at BDSM a party?
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When I moved to Florida in 1997 I noticed a shift in the social conduct at BDSM parties. At house parties and dungeon parties, the male Doms were never naked and even the Dommes usually remained partially clothed. Dommes would pull her drawers off to pee on a sub or queen them but the corsets usually stayed on. Yet the vast majority of the male & female submissives were naked as jaybirds with all manner of apparatus hooked to their gentiles.

In Detroit, Chicago & NYC where I played in the 70s, 80s and 90s, seeing a naked Dominant take their pleasure from a submissive wasn’t uncommon. However, those major cities have such a large BDSM culture with thousands upon thousands of people, it is subdivided into many cliques . . . it could have just been my cliques didn't like clothing. I started this poll out of curiosity to try learn if it was regional or the evolution of BDSM social conduct.

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RE: -=Dom/mes, do you disrobe at BDSM parties?=- - 6/25/2011 5:48:28 PM

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It depends on the party. If everyone is disrobing, I do so gladly. I am a nudist at heart. I will not disrobe to be a spectacle. I like exhibitionism. to a certain extent, but for me context is everything.

So I will disrobe if that is what everyone else is doing as a matter of choice. I will not disrobe to be made a spectacle. Nudity to me is natural and normal, not something you make a big deal about.When I was 25 and had one of the most beautiful bodies in the world, my answer would not be the same. I am 57, my body is just not that great.

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RE: -=Dom/mes, do you disrobe at BDSM parties?=- - 6/25/2011 7:12:05 PM

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Apart from the exhibitionist in me screaming to get out, I prefer to cover up my bits..however I have gone nekie as a transition from being the flogeee to being the flogger, I just didnt feel like getting dressed:) also when I was waxed, but everyone else was pretty nekie too, One of the reason I loved BR dungeons.
Most of the events in TO are nips n genitals covered. Private well you go, prepared to go as nekie as you please

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RE: -=Dom/mes, do you disrobe at BDSM parties?=- - 6/25/2011 7:15:44 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt

I am 57, my body is just not that great.

Complete and fucking utter rubbish.

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RE: -=Dom/mes, do you disrobe at BDSM parties?=- - 6/25/2011 7:18:06 PM

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I don't have a problem casually disrobing at a public event if I'm changing clothes, using the hot tub (why bother with a suit), etc. I usually put something on while walking around, sitting on the furniture, etc.

I won't vote in the poll because I am not a "domme". Female dominant works fine as a descriptor, or femdom as shorthand, but I hate faux French, artificially femmed-up titles and won't use them.

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RE: -=Dom/mes, do you disrobe at BDSM parties?=- - 6/25/2011 9:09:51 PM

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The question, as I'm reading it, would be for any party that is BDSM themed and not necessarily just those being held at public BDSM dungeons. (I'm a little floaty, Myself, atm, so I could be wrong.)

While you won't see Me disrobe at public gatherings, there has been a time or two that I have for private ones. I'm considering occasions such as luaus, pool parties, etc. Not every BDSM event is at a dungeon.

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RE: -=Dom/mes, do you disrobe at BDSM parties?=- - 6/25/2011 10:22:48 PM

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I don t take my clothes off at BDSM events. And I'm a Detroiter! Just my own preference, though, I'm just not into playing naked in public. Nakies for the hot tub, no problem--I don't have an issue being seen naked.

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RE: -=Dom/mes, do you disrobe at BDSM parties?=- - 6/25/2011 10:30:30 PM

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quote:

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Most of the events in TO are nips n genitals covered. Private well you go, prepared to go as nekie as you please

My bad, nips are fine....and that was six years ago or more, I sometimes forget how long ago it has been since I played in public... lol

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RE: -=Dom/mes, do you disrobe at BDSM parties?=- - 6/26/2011 12:53:48 AM

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It. Will. Never. Happen.

Maybe I had too many nightmares as a young adult about showing up for work and then discovering that I was nekkid. Or maybe it was that time I overslept, and woke up nekkid under a sheet on a beach when all the families came out...mad scrambling under the sheet, all red faced, trying to find and put on my clothing...I think that day scarred me for life.

The entire world could go naked and I would still walk around fully clothed. Even if I still had the body I had at 20.

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RE: -=Dom/mes, do you disrobe at BDSM parties?=- - 6/26/2011 3:00:40 AM

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quote:

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I don t take my clothes off at BDSM events. And I'm a Detroiter! Just my own preference, though, I'm just not into playing naked in public. Nakies for the hot tub, no problem--I don't have an issue being seen naked.

This...

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RE: -=Dom/mes, do you disrobe at BDSM parties?=- - 6/26/2011 8:03:15 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyConstanze

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

I don t take my clothes off at BDSM events. And I'm a Detroiter! Just my own preference, though, I'm just not into playing naked in public. Nakies for the hot tub, no problem--I don't have an issue being seen naked.

This...

This reflects my feelings also. I have no problem being naked around select people but I am not into providing thrills or, as a 49 yo woman, a subject of "OMG....can you belieeeeeeeeeeeve" discussion for putzes, or whank material for guys that cannot get it any other way. Nope, I can be comfortable and/or sexy, without showing all my bidness. I've got more class than that.

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RE: -=Dom/mes, do you disrobe at BDSM parties?=- - 6/26/2011 8:27:13 AM

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(makes a mental note: must get hot tub)

Nope don't disrobe at public play parties when I top. Mostly because its a pain in the ass to get things like corsets, stockings, boots, etc. off.

I have spent many a night naked in the hot tub at play parties. Them was good times.

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RE: -=Dom/mes, do you disrobe at BDSM parties?=- - 6/26/2011 9:21:02 AM

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No, I don't take my clothes off at bdsm parties. I don't get any kick out of being naked in public so I don't do it. My sub needs no excuse to run around naked so I like to think he does my share for me.

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