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LadyPact -> RE: Fibro, school, house of 6 (7/8/2011 10:58:12 AM)
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ORIGINAL: tammystarm
Ok the reason thing "A" has had to go on these trips etc, is it was court ordered. To join the kids of the community, they clean and get rewarded with trips. GREAT. The reason being she missed 45 days of school.... two weeks of having flu b and strep at the same time and a month from her tonsilectomy/adnoid... however it was only approved for two weeks... so she got 90 hours community service.
i know guys what your thinking and id say the same damn thing, and i greatly appreciate everyones advice, it does help strengthen me, ALOT. Now ive pissed off the house and Master too. Now I get to get rid of the cats, for my punishment. The cats didnt do anything i did! And i meant to do it. I was at my wits end, trying to figure out what to do, i had to turn somewhere, and being in a forum of people that mostly i havent met was the best way i could think of to handle it. What can i do, my hands are fucking tied! The house has to be perfect, i have to get this degree so i can work and not live off of 850 a month IF i lose everything. I have to be in a quiet dark room when the migraines hit , hence the bedroom. And nobody gives a flying fuck in this house! I am very mad and extremely sad that those i loved the most and would have done anything in the world for, think of me the way they do, treat me the way they do. I wanna scream its not right, but than again the world isnt fucking fair!
Tell you what. If I was your Master, I'd probably be damn pissed, too. There isn't a thing on this thread that I couldn't have handled as the authority figure in My house. Twenty flipping pages because nobody in the house can wash a dish? If I couldn't handle that, I'm not in any position to have a submissive in the first place.
The group trip thing is bullshit. What if your car wouldn't start that morning or had a flat? It wasn't going to be the end of the world. All you had to do is call and say very simply that you were unable to drive Thing A in that day. If there are consequences from that, let them fall to Thing A, since it is her fault. It teaches her that her mouthing off is a cause and effect proposition. Believe Me, it works.
Sitting here whining on this thread doesn't do jack. You have to actually *do* something. Do you expect the kids to raise themselves or have respect for you just because you ask for it? Got news for you. It doesn't work that way. Right now, YOUR KIDS (not Art's) are learning how you should be treated. You'd better think about that, because when your kids are sixteen and eighteen, you're not going to have any chance to go back and teach them how to respect you when they are already out of hand.
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