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ORIGINAL: zephyroftheNorth

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ORIGINAL: tammystarm

no im not saying that , the masters was to go on to be a nurse (god i cant spell it) anathesiaologist. i would have my own hours etc.

You really, seriously think you would be able to just make your own hours? Since Nurse Anesthesiologists tend to work in hospitals, how do you figure that?

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ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt


Tammy has been in school (supposedly higher education) for 20 years. There is no higher degree program that takes 20 years. All this song and dance about school, and it turns out she's studying to be a beautician. Which around here at least takes about a year.

T

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ORIGINAL: Phoenixpower

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ORIGINAL: zephyroftheNorth

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ORIGINAL: tammystarm

no im not saying that , the masters was to go on to be a nurse (god i cant spell it) anathesiaologist. i would have my own hours etc.

You really, seriously think you would be able to just make your own hours? Since Nurse Anesthesiologists tend to work in hospitals, how do you figure that?

presumably in tammy land the nurse anesthesiologists are the ones who decide the schedule of who get into the operating area at what time and day 

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ORIGINAL: windchymes

There just isn't enough popcorn in the world.....

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ORIGINAL: Kirata

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ORIGINAL: tammystarm

i see it as these are my rules and you will follow them

I just want to get this straight, yanno? Help me out here. You said...

where does that leave you , when you have no family no money nothing  (post# 454) i have to get this degree so i can work and not live off of 850 a month IF i lose everything  (post# 468)

So unh, you have $850/month income and you're broke, izzat right?

Lemme see if I can guess one of his rules.

Hold on, gimmie a minute to think...

K.

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ORIGINAL: Phoenixpower

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ORIGINAL: zephyroftheNorth

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ORIGINAL: tammystarm

no im not saying that , the masters was to go on to be a nurse (god i cant spell it) anathesiaologist. i would have my own hours etc.

You really, seriously think you would be able to just make your own hours? Since Nurse Anesthesiologists tend to work in hospitals, how do you figure that?

presumably in tammy land the nurse anesthesiologists are the ones who decide the schedule of who get into the operating area at what time and day 

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ORIGINAL: Iamsemisweet

I have cats, horses, dogs and chickens.  If some MOTHERFUCKER I was involved with told me I had to get rid of any of my animals, he would be shown the door so fast, it would make his head spin.  When you take an animal into your home, you are accepting responsibility for them for the rest of their lives.  If this is his idea of punishment, if you have any ethics at all, tell him to kiss your ass.

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cause it is quite well known that many men aren't that great in "getting hints"....

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<snip> anesthetizing a patient and keeping the asleep until you took care of all your other business didn't wake them up until you were damn good and ready to wake them up......

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ORIGINAL: VirginPotty

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excellent point.

(I still cant get over that you're Gorean.. how DARE you be reasonable!! *giggle*)

**said in fun**

PLUS he's HOT! 
**Said seriously**

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ORIGINAL: WinsomeDefiance

Maybe she does what I do. I curl up in bed witha laptop. When I get tired, I put thelaptop aside and I rest. When you have chronic pain, and enough experience with addicts, you learn to manage your pain without pain meds as often and as long as you can, because your other option is to be ill AND an addict. I, personally, choose to take no addicting meds unless I'm just not able to continue on without them. Fr this reason, I refuse to even accept a prescription with more than 10 days of pain meds. The last thing I need to do is add addiction to my problems.

Fuck, I dn't really hve the history with Tammy and Art that everyone else has, but I do understand suffering. I understand people get frustrated hearing excuse after excuse from someone who has come to a public board with a personal problem, but is it really necessary to assisnate her integrity ? Sorry, I don't agree with all of her choices but I don't see how being so brutally unkind is necessary.

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Are you suggesting that Art's posts (other than the 3 cell phone posts) are written by Tammy? Their writing styles are very different. Tammy's make me wonder about the quality of 20 years of higher ed...

Sometimes yes they are, others, not so much.   I asked once, long ago, about men vs women in writing styles...and I truly believe there are differences.  Especially when dealing with a narcissistic personality.   The writings will revolve around "me" and "I", not "her master".   When Art writes, it is usually well thought out and articulate, typos rarely happen.  That is a person who takes pride in their writing, because it's a reflection of them.  

Just little differences I have observed.  When things get sloppy, or there are too many references to "her master", instead of "me"...I tend to think it's Tammy, not Art.  

*edited because I was too eager to hit OK*

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ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt


Tammy has been in school (supposedly higher education) for 20 years. There is no higher degree program that takes 20 years. All this song and dance about school, and it turns out she's studying to be a beautician. Which around here at least takes about a year.

T

Really!  She is going to beauty school?  I missed that.  But now I have that song "Beauty School Drop Out" stuck in my head.

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ORIGINAL: Arpig

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cause it is quite well known that many men aren't that great in "getting hints"....

I don't know what you mean, why don't you stop beating around the bush and just say what you mean.

Women!!!

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ORIGINAL: tammystarm
Ok the reason thing "A" has had to go on these trips etc, is it was court ordered. To join the kids of the community, they clean and get rewarded with trips. GREAT. The reason being she missed 45 days of school.... two weeks of having flu b and strep at the same time and a month from her tonsilectomy/adnoid... however it was only approved for two weeks... so she got 90 hours community service.

i know guys what your thinking and id say the same damn thing, and i greatly appreciate everyones advice, it does help strengthen me, ALOT. Now ive pissed off the house and Master too. Now I get to get rid of the cats, for my punishment. The cats didnt do anything i did! And i meant to do it. I was at my wits end, trying to figure out what to do, i had to turn somewhere, and being in a forum of people that mostly i havent met was the best way i could think of to handle it. What can i do, my hands are fucking tied! The house has to be perfect, i have to get this degree so i can work and not live off of 850 a month IF i lose everything. I have to be in a quiet dark room when the migraines hit , hence the bedroom. And nobody gives a flying fuck in this house! I am very mad and extremely sad that those i loved the most and would have done anything in the world for, think of me the way they do, treat me the way they do. I wanna scream its not right, but than again the world isnt fucking fair!

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Generally, new nurses or nurse anesthetists have low seniority and don't have a lot of flexibility on hours, especially since you'll have an extended period of "on the job" training.

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ORIGINAL: tammystarm

thank you and THIS! this made me cry this is what ive been saying, this is what i needed to hear (and alot of what others have said). This is it. I have had it! All i wanted was someone who mutually love and respected me as a partner and to raise my family. Ive tried so freakin hard. But the game is up, and i cannot keep going on, and i dont care if there is a dish in the sink. Your right and i thank you from the bottom of my heart. Im done, ill live under a freaking bridge if i have to.... if there is no other alternative. I will no longer listen to the threats and screams and moans and cries of all the above because i am not perfect and i cant be. Thank you so so so so much! MY love to ya!!!