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"Do you want to rent me out?" mails - 6/30/2011 5:59:37 AM

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Is it a new trend right now? Bit strange to get random mails from random strangers who want to be rented out to other guys.

Now if somebody has the fantasy, I understand but it's time to insert a reality check here:

- It's considered pandering and is illegal in most countries

- What makes you think a random stranger is interested taking that risk for another random stranger on the internet

- Basically if you want to be made to suck cock, you expect me to find you guys and fulfill your fetish

- Unless you look like Brad Pitt or Robert Pattinson, you're only the guy who'll earn a Mistress a fortune with your services in your wildest dreams

In case a couple is together for a while, they both share the fetish and there is a lot of trust involved and they decide to take that risk, it's fine with me, but before you write to strangers and "offer" that scenario and keep on pushing, when you are told that somebody is not interested, just think about what you are really asking for. And please don't insult our intelligence by trying to convince it that it's all legal because you'd be up for it - you can be up for having me cut your fingers off, wouldn't make it legal.

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RE: "Do you want to rent me out?" mails - 6/30/2011 6:28:49 AM

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Maybe gay guys keep figuring "If I was a woman, I'd be up to my eyeballs in men!", especially Dominant women. And they think they're just asking you to share a few of those guys.

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RE: "Do you want to rent me out?" mails - 6/30/2011 6:32:29 AM

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Maybe gay guys keep figuring "If I was a woman, I'd be up to my eyeballs in men!", especially Dominant women. And they think they're just asking you to share a few of those guys.

There was always the odd mail asking for it, but it seems to have become the flavour of the week this week, unless it's the same guy with a lot of different names. I was just wondering if maybe there is some new BDSM porn out with that theme?

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RE: "Do you want to rent me out?" mails - 6/30/2011 8:02:55 AM

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School's out. I expect that if you knew, you would discover most of the writers are very young, and still in the closet about their homosexuality.

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RE: "Do you want to rent me out?" mails - 6/30/2011 8:25:27 AM

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School's out. I expect that if you knew, you would discover most of the writers are very young, and still in the closet about their homosexuality.

Don't think all of them are homosexuals or latent homosexuals, for some it might be the thrill of being forced to do something they'd normally find disgusting... I also suspect that 99% of them would back out, but still, the idea of asking a complete and utter stranger do risk prison for their kink is a bit absurd.

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RE: "Do you want to rent me out?" mails - 6/30/2011 8:30:13 AM

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I did say most, not all. I think it's that they would like to experience a same sex encounter but want it to be done in a way where they don't have to really meet the other person and acknowledge him as a person. Just an object for their fantasy. Which is so much safer than getting to know someone as a person when they're afraid of their own desires. And they don't even have to acknowledge that they have same sex fantasies if they're being 'forced' to do it by a woman. Levels upon levels of lying to themselves.

But yes, I agree that none of them would want to go through with it. It's fantasy only.

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RE: "Do you want to rent me out?" mails - 6/30/2011 11:17:32 AM

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I think it is just part of the 'forced bi' delusion. If a man is asking a woman to do these things he actually want to do it, just can't bring himself to do so. He requires a female dominant prop for his fantasy as then has been 'forced' or in this case 'rented'.

I am not saying I see any problem with being a facilitator for boy on boy action by encouraging the subby male. I find it hard to imagine me taking part in what I see as a delusion, pretending I am forcing a man suck a man or be fucked by him. It makes me feel that the man experiences great shame about his desire and feels deep down that boy on boy action is dirty and inherently wrong.

Obviously, if a Domme is a keen participator in the whole 'forced bi' thing, then fine and dandy. I just wish I hadn't been asked for this by men in lifestyle and PD situations where it is clear they want me to just fulfil their fantasies by playing the role they have in mind for me.

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RE: "Do you want to rent me out?" mails - 6/30/2011 11:19:23 AM

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A trend that passed Me by? I must do the happy banana dance.

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RE: "Do you want to rent me out?" mails - 6/30/2011 11:20:23 AM

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But yes, I agree that none of them would want to go through with it. It's fantasy only.

It happens sometimes in real life, but that's usually in a pro situation, where usually due to legalities it is also denied (unless somebody is into serious risk taking)

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RE: "Do you want to rent me out?" mails - 6/30/2011 11:39:20 AM

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Peculiar. I haven't seen any 'rented out' pornos new on the market.

Though one of my fave fantasies is to be 'lent out' - 'Go off and serve Ms X or Ms Y for the day'. Given my Domme's restrictions, natch. Presumably she wouldn't want to share everything of me with some other woman. Or maybe she would. But, either way, fun!

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RE: "Do you want to rent me out?" mails - 6/30/2011 11:41:24 AM

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I would be most happy to borrow you.. *grin*

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RE: "Do you want to rent me out?" mails - 6/30/2011 11:44:34 AM

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

Peculiar. I haven't seen any 'rented out' pornos new on the market.

Though one of my fave fantasies is to be 'lent out' - 'Go off and serve Ms X or Ms Y for the day'. Given my Domme's restrictions, natch. Presumably she wouldn't want to share everything of me with some other woman. Or maybe she would. But, either way, fun!

I think it's the "forced bi porn" and I wouldn't know if there's something new on the market, yet some women have said sometimes there are trends on C4S, that some clips get put on, everybody copies that "theme" and it gets the next big thing for a while

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RE: "Do you want to rent me out?" mails - 6/30/2011 12:27:01 PM

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

Peculiar. I haven't seen any 'rented out' pornos new on the market.

Though one of my fave fantasies is to be 'lent out' - 'Go off and serve Ms X or Ms Y for the day'. Given my Domme's restrictions, natch. Presumably she wouldn't want to share everything of me with some other woman. Or maybe she would. But, either way, fun!

Last time I did that with a sub the bitch I lent him to tried to co-opt him!! Grrrr.

Otherwise, FUN! Especially when she & I have our Plans! Heh.

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I had this dude from a few hundred miles away write wanting to suck my man's cock. Um. Yeah. Like I would want some total stranger to drive a few hundred miles to give a guy a blow job. I get the "rent out" mails too, and it boggles me. STRANGERS. Who would offer up someone whose skills they had NO CLUE about. Who would buy? Talk about a pig in a poke!

(do folks still say that? Pig in a poke?)

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RE: "Do you want to rent me out?" mails - 6/30/2011 12:54:32 PM

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I would be most happy to borrow you.. *grin*

Thank you, Greedy!

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RE: "Do you want to rent me out?" mails - 6/30/2011 12:55:54 PM

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(do folks still say that? Pig in a poke?)

No.

I hope that helps.

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RE: "Do you want to rent me out?" mails - 6/30/2011 12:59:54 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus
(do folks still say that? Pig in a poke?)

No.

I hope that helps.

I am Preserving the Vernacular, then. So there.

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RE: "Do you want to rent me out?" mails - 6/30/2011 1:00:54 PM

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I would be most happy to borrow you.. *grin*

Thank you, Greedy!

I WOULD lend you out to my darling Greedy. Because I share with my grrrls!

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RE: "Do you want to rent me out?" mails - 6/30/2011 1:01:06 PM

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Last time I did that with a sub the bitch I lent him to tried to co-opt him!! Grrrr.

Hmmm. Yes, I could see that being a risk. Not nice.

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RE: "Do you want to rent me out?" mails - 6/30/2011 1:02:10 PM

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Last time I did that with a sub the bitch I lent him to tried to co-opt him!! Grrrr.

Hmmm. Yes, I could see that being a risk. Not nice.

It was BEYOND not nice, she really sucked him into their lives, got monies out of him... she is not a good person.

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RE: "Do you want to rent me out?" mails - 6/30/2011 1:06:46 PM

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Like you said: Bitch. How revolting.

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