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ORIGINAL: Najakcharmer
What I have issue with is when somebody tries to tell somebody else in the lifestyle that they're doing it wrong and they should change their sexual and kink orientation because only (insert gender, race or religion here) can possibly be dominant.   Eg, "You can't possibly be happy as a gay leatherman or a male dominant or a female submissive, that's just wrong, you have to submit to women and lead a femdom lifestyle because it is the Natural Order and the Right Way To Live." 

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ORIGINAL: Slipstreme


"Scientific fact" is often beriddled with alternatives and miscounts. After all, science claims that reproduction is the only reason animals copulate. The numerous counts of gay animal copulations is proof enough against this. On the same coin, a supremacist, male or female will always find the female or male Dominant that they can't argue with and won't argue with because they can't stand to face the facts. Their law isn't law.

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ORIGINAL: BlkTallFullfig

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How many folks here believe in female supremacy - in other words, you think that everyone else in the BDSM community is doing it wrong and would actually be happier in a heterosexual femdom relationship?

I don't believe most female supremacists within BDSM community believe that women are superior, and everyone else is phucked in the head, lol.  

I believe in fem supremacy or female lead relationships, but not in the same way that everyone sees the bad word "supremacy."    I'm certainly not better than anyone because I was born with a vagina, nor do I think everyone else is doing it wrong.   I consider my way a kink, where I admit to wanting to be understood as the dominant, the one in control, especially if he (my consentual subject) has a deeper love and respect for women than the general population, and enjoys deferring to one. 
I have the common decency to look for someone who agrees with that, and I call my partner a sub/slave given the imbalance our relationship would have.

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For myself, I am proud to be a member of the leather/BDSM community.  This is my tribe, this is my extended family.  My brothers and sisters in leather include men and women of all genders, sexual orientations and D/s orientations

I am as well proud to be a member of such a diverse community I can feel I belong with my twisted relationship/sexuality approach.
To be honest, in a lifestyle that has little issue with calling subjects lords, slaves, properties, pets, masters, toilets, bitches, etc,  I hardly understand folks who take issue with female supremacy as a kink choice.    
<<<-------Looks around for Jasmyn to explain this much better than I have though.   M

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ORIGINAL: BlkTallFullfig
To be honest, in a lifestyle that has little issue with calling subjects lords, slaves, properties, pets, masters, toilets, bitches, etc,  I hardly understand folks who take issue with female supremacy as a kink choice.    

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ORIGINAL: BlkTallFullfig

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How many folks here believe in female supremacy - in other words, you think that everyone else in the BDSM community is doing it wrong and would actually be happier in a heterosexual femdom relationship?

I don't believe most female supremacists within BDSM community believe that women are superior, and everyone else is phucked in the head, lol.  

I believe in fem supremacy or female lead relationships, but not in the same way that everyone sees the bad word "supremacy."    I'm certainly not better than anyone because I was born with a vagina, nor do I think everyone else is doing it wrong.   I consider my way a kink, where I admit to wanting to be understood as the dominant, the one in control, especially if he (my consentual subject) has a deeper love and respect for women than the general population, and enjoys deferring to one. 
I have the common decency to look for someone who agrees with that, and I call my partner a sub/slave given the imbalance our relationship would have.

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For myself, I am proud to be a member of the leather/BDSM community.  This is my tribe, this is my extended family.  My brothers and sisters in leather include men and women of all genders, sexual orientations and D/s orientations

I am as well proud to be a member of such a diverse community I can feel I belong with my twisted relationship/sexuality approach.
To be honest, in a lifestyle that has little issue with calling subjects lords, slaves, properties, pets, masters, toilets, bitches, etc,  I hardly understand folks who take issue with female supremacy as a kink choice.    
<<<-------Looks around for Jasmyn to explain this much better than I have though.   M

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ORIGINAL: DiannaVesta

I know I have used this analogy before but I view us all as different tribes with our own customs and traditions. Some agendas we may have in common such as right of choice and peace, however we are all uniquely different. One tribe may have rituals that we don’t agree with but we don’t have to. That’s *their thing* and as long as it’s consensual then we must learn to respect their choices because in essence it really doesn’t affect us.


  I am a woman who enjoys experiencing all facets of life. I am not afraid to learn the language of another tribe or celebrate their traditions or try their rituals. As a human being this enriches my life experience. My strength is earn through my compassion to allow all of God, Goddess, all that is, creatures to fulfill whatever destiny they were meant to fulfill.  

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ORIGINAL: Najakcharmer

It's a lot like religion.  I wanna worship my gods my way in my house, and it's fine if you worship your gods your way in your house.  But if you come knocking on my door telling me that my gods are false and evil and everybody has to worship your gods in just such and such a way, I'm going to think you are a really annoying asshole and kick you out of my house for your lack of respect.

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ORIGINAL: LadyMorgynn

I'm with you 100%.  And I don't like hearing it from the Female Supremacists any more than I like hearing it in reverse from the Gorean Dominant males.

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ORIGINAL: Najakcharmer
What I have issue with is when somebody tries to tell somebody else in the lifestyle that they're doing it wrong and they should change their sexual and kink orientation because only (insert gender, race or religion here) can possibly be dominant.   Eg, "You can't possibly be happy as a gay leatherman or a male dominant or a female submissive, that's just wrong, you have to submit to women and lead a femdom lifestyle because it is the Natural Order and the Right Way To Live."   

Meh.  That's just silly, and that's the part that I object to. 

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ORIGINAL: spankmepink11

I'm not a believer in supremacy of either  of the sexes.  Both sexes  have strengths that they contribute to a relationship.  Nor do i believe that submission is an act  of  serving some One whom i consider superior.
That just doesn't enter into it for me...

But...to each their own....what ever floats your boat and gives you "hot ass orgasms"  (gotta love those)

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ORIGINAL: HarryVanWinkle
Supremacy and superiority are not synonyms.  But, perhaps the difference is the beginning of a whole 'nother thread.