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Thank goodness for the word VANILLA! - 7/7/2011 4:31:37 PM   
BossyShoeBitch


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(disclaimer: this post contains references to private emails I received but in keeping with TOS I’ve paraphrased the wording )

I’ve had a profile on a vanilla dating site for a while. I’ve not really paid that much attention to it, but lately I decided I would give it a go, but with a little twist. As my headline I put “LOOKING FOR SOMEONE WHO IS NOT VANILLA”. Most men answered with quips about ice cream flavors, some didn’t make mention of it at all. Went out with several guys. For whatever reason nothing seemed to fit.

One day I got an email from a man that said, “Looking for someone who is not VANILLA? That is a very loaded term in some circles!” That got my attention. So I looked up his profile. It seemed clever and well written. Check. So I looked at his pictures. Cute. Check. Tall. Check. Broad shoulders. Check. “Hmm, I thought. Could be interesting..”

So I wrote back, “Yes but it’s code. The ones in the right social circles will get it!”

Now I’m staring at my email waiting for a response…

“Then i will ask- are you a top or bottom?” BINGO!

The next couple of days are a flurry of emails…. I’m a bottom. He’s a Dom, not in the “scene” who has just about given up on finding a submissive female partner where he lives. (His profile name here is presdom). He seems smart, funny, sexy and has a mind as dark and edgy as mine.. It wasn’t long before I threw caution to the wind and decided to take a little trip out to Colorado.

He told me that he had no expectations of me. He was excited for me to come out there and if nothing at all happened that was fine. He said, “At worst, we’ll have a fun time with me showing you around my home state that I love. At best, we will click and you may decide to submit to me. But I want you to understand that if you decide to submit to me, you will have to tell me very clearly that is what you absolutely want. Until then, it’s all vanilla (well mostly vanilla anyway..lol).”

I think we saw each other at the exact same time as I was coming up the escalator at baggage claim. We locked eyes and we both broke into a huge grin. He was really tall and muscular and as we hugged and I buried my face in his chest, I felt that smallness, and calm warmth washed over me.

It was rush hour and a two hour drive back to his place from the airport, so in order to avoid traffic, we stayed in Denver for a while and went where everyone goes on their first date, to a sex shop! (more about that later..)

After the toy shopping we grabbed a bite at a cute sidewalk café. We were talking about everything under the sun and all the while couldn’t take our eyes off each other or stop smiling… I was done eating before Him and so He decided to test the waters a bit. He looked straight into my eyes and said, “Sit up straight. Hands behind your back. Tits out” I like being a good girl so I was only too happy to show Him I could be. It’s like meditation for me. My mind quiets down and I can be calm and relaxed and just focus on that one task..

“You look so hot sitting there like that for me. Good girl!” Well, some people that know me know that there are certain words, looks or phrases that hit me with such intensity that the only way I can describe it is that it feels like I just downed a huge shot of 151 Rum. The warmth spreads all over my body and I feel as if I am slightly drunk. At that moment I knew I was going to submit to Him. We both knew.

He paid for our food and we got in His car. He leaned over to kiss me and my head was just swimming. He looked straight into my eyes again and without breaking the stare he gently reached into my top, took my nipple between his fingers and without warning He roughly pinched it and held his grip.

I don’t really remember exactly what happened next, but He told me that my eyes got very big and I let out such a lovely gasp and started whimpering. Such lovely sounds that He then grabbed my other nipple and did the exact same thing. His eyes never left mine and as I whimpered and bit my lip, He smiled at me, said, “Oh you are going to make a fun toy,” and we drove off towards His condo…

(To be continued…)


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RE: Thank goodness for the word VANILLA! - 7/7/2011 6:05:21 PM   
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Gosh, thats awesome BSB, thanks for sharing and best wishes 

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RE: Thank goodness for the word VANILLA! - 7/7/2011 6:13:45 PM   
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Awww! So glad you had fun!

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RE: Thank goodness for the word VANILLA! - 7/7/2011 6:30:36 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: BossyShoeBitch


(To be continued…)[/font][/size]


Whimpers in anticipation.....

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RE: Thank goodness for the word VANILLA! - 7/7/2011 6:44:33 PM   
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it always makes me smile whenever BSB is pleased...

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RE: Thank goodness for the word VANILLA! - 7/7/2011 6:46:05 PM   
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I envy that guy.

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RE: Thank goodness for the word VANILLA! - 7/7/2011 7:05:03 PM   
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Ayayayy!! This will surely melt the vanilla off of anyone!

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RE: Thank goodness for the word VANILLA! - 7/7/2011 7:18:24 PM   
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HAWT!!!!

Can't wait for more! (please, please, with sugar on top?)

And, I'm not just enjoying the hawtness- I'm so glad you met someone worthy of you, my friend!


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RE: Thank goodness for the word VANILLA! - 7/7/2011 7:31:01 PM   
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*SQUEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!*

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RE: Thank goodness for the word VANILLA! - 7/7/2011 9:27:44 PM   
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*eyes poise as she appears to have almost completely melted off her chair...*

steven, quick, we need a mop (or tongue) to clean her off the floor!

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RE: Thank goodness for the word VANILLA! - 7/7/2011 9:46:42 PM   
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PART TWO

… I don’t really remember exactly what happened next, but He told me that my eyes got very big and I let out such a lovely gasp and started whimpering. Such lovely sounds that He then grabbed my other nipple and did the exact same thing. His eyes never left mine and as I whimpered and bit my lip, He smiled at me, said, “Oh you are going to make a fun toy,” and we drove off towards His condo…

The drive was breathtaking and He was an incredible tour guide. It was easy to tell how much he loved living there. He was extremely knowledgeable and it was very cute how excited he got when in tour guide mode. “Now up here on the mountains you’ll notice small rock formations that don’t seem natural. Those are most likely old mines and next to them you’ll see what’s called mine tailings, large piles of crushed rock that are left over after the metals of interest like zinc, gold and others, have been extracted from the rock.” Or “As we get pass this bend you’ll see Mount Massive..."

When we got to his condo, about 20 minutes outside of Vail, there was a concert going on in the main area in the village where he lives. We brought my stuff upstairs and sat outside on his porch. Within seconds he grabbed my hair, pulled me in close and started kissing me… Suddenly, “BOOM! BANG! CRACKLE! FLASH!” As we were kissing, fireworks started going off almost right outside his window. It couldn’t have been better if he planned it!

The next day, we were taking a scenic drive around the area and we stopped at a scenic overlook. It was a beautiful day. I kind of wish I had turned to Him, looked in His eyes and begged to be His submissive. Instead, I sent Him a text that said, “Sir I really want to submit to you.” (yes, sometimes I'm kind of oafish that way).

He read the text and grinned. He told me that from now on, the rule would be if I was answering Him affirmatively or negatively about anything I was to add “Sir”. “Yes, Sir. No Sir. OK Sir. Absolutely Sir. I think so Sir.. “ and so on. If I forgot the Sir, there would be a swift punishment. “Yes Sir” I said as we continued our scenic drive.
We got to a 14 mile long dirt road that led to an overpass He wanted to show me. It was bordered on one side by a beautiful rocky creek, and on the other side by mountains. It was pretty deserted. As we chatted and got to know each other better I said my first, “Yeah.”.

He immediately stopped the car, came over to my side and said, “get out of the car and lean over the hood.”

He said He could actually see me processing this information and that the look on my face was “You want me to what? Oh shit” but what came out of my mouth was “Yes Sir”.
I leaned over the hood and he spanked me, hard. About 3 or 4 times on each side. Then opened my car door for me, put me in my seat and shut the door.
We went on for about ½ mile and I answered a general question, “No. I don’t think so.” Again. He stopped the car immediately, told me to get out again, bend over the hood of the car, and he spanked me again.
It took about an hour to go 3 miles… I think I lost count of how many times he had to stop the car…


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RE: Thank goodness for the word VANILLA! - 7/8/2011 7:28:43 AM   
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omg.. this thread is amazing.. I don't know you but your story is sooo sweet, hawt, and makes me so happy for you...

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RE: Thank goodness for the word VANILLA! - 7/8/2011 9:52:52 AM   
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Please, Sir, may I have some more..... (in schoolboy english accent)

Breathlessly awaiting next installment.....hitachi in hand.


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RE: Thank goodness for the word VANILLA! - 7/8/2011 10:01:13 AM   
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You deserve happiness, darling...

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RE: Thank goodness for the word VANILLA! - 7/8/2011 10:08:38 AM   
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Oh yay! I'm so happy for you. As Sunny wrote, you deserve happiness. ~hugs BSB and does happy dance~

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RE: Thank goodness for the word VANILLA! - 7/8/2011 11:10:35 AM   
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I love a happy story - yay BSB!!

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RE: Thank goodness for the word VANILLA! - 7/8/2011 12:17:27 PM   
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Thanks you guys!!

You know, the funny thing is, for some ODD reason, He just can't picture me as a Domme and thinks my username is just hysterical! LOL

*taps chin* I wonder why???

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RE: Thank goodness for the word VANILLA! - 7/8/2011 12:23:57 PM   
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Sounds like it was a fantastic meet.  I'm really happy for you.

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RE: Thank goodness for the word VANILLA! - 7/8/2011 4:43:25 PM   
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Great story, congrats!

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RE: Thank goodness for the word VANILLA! - 7/8/2011 9:19:43 PM   
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Good stuff indeed.
I'm glad you found someone to enjoy you.

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