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RE: looking to serve - 7/12/2011 12:10:00 AM

sunshinemiss

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I read the OP - and then I went searching for a post I wrote ages ago. Here is the answer to your question:

Be a nude model for an art class.
Go to a body awareness group.
Take martial arts classes.
Paint your body (as in put paint on your body).
Get to know your body, love it, it's the only one you've got.
Practice Yoga.
Consider your body a canvas and decorate it.
Experience sensuality.
If your issue is weight (over or under or just plain can't get it out of your head), read Geneen Roth books, join OA and Weight Watchers.
See a therapist.
Treat your body with respect.
Stand up to bullies.
Learn to salsa dance.
Date decent people.
Look at paintings by Reubens.
Live passionately.
Read and follow anything written by SARK.
Read about the Kings and Queens of Hawaii.
Identify something you want to change, and change it. Want to be stronger? Lift weights. Want pretty hands? Get a manicure. Want to show off your pretty eyes? Get contact lenses.

One thing I've found that helps tremendously for me is music and dance. When I dance, I am without a doubt the most amazingly beautiful woman in the world. The rest of the time? I'm just some gal. What makes you feel beautiful? What makes you feel sexy and charming and desireable? Do that.

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RE: looking to serve - 7/12/2011 7:48:13 AM

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Find your local groups, go to munches, be active in the community.

While I don't disagree with this advice, certainly not all Toppy types (good, bad, or otherwise) are into the local, public, community thing -- neither of us are, and actually detest it. Though I do think your advice may provide the OP with a faster route?!! Again, good advice, though I did want to add there are many that don't do the public/community thing that are also worth sifting through on the personals side of CM.

I personally think that with someone new, it's best to get out there and get to know the community. Otherwise, you're an island dependent on one source.

Again, I absolutely DON'T disagree with your advice... I just know, first hand, there are many outside the public/community thing that are worth having as well.

As to said "island"? I don't know... with forums such as this one, I think there's great opportunity for a host of different viewpoints -- i.e., more than just "one source" for info, yes/no???

I agree with you. But I also remember how it was to be in sub frenzy and wearing the rose colored glasses. I'm not saying that the only people worth knowing are those out in the community, but I think it's a good idea to know your community.

As for the OP: This!

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Other than that, all your reasons and excuses are, of course valid and hinder your efforts. But the bottom line reality remains... if you want to meet people then you're going to have to get out of your house and meet people.

You're looking at one event and saying that it's while you work. I can guarantee that there is more than one group near you. Find a yahoo group and you'll most likely find a calendar. You'll be surprised what you find. Otherwise, just continue to sit behind the computer and whine.

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