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Mistress and Master couples - 10/14/2004 10:11:53 AM

DomseeksDomme

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As per my profile I am interested in having a lifestyle relationship with a Domme where we jointly own four or five 24/7 male and female slaves. Have any of you Dommes or Doms ever teamed up with a dominant partner? Whay are everyone's thoughts regarding such a relationship. I like the idea of two compatible and imaginative dominant people enjoying each other and their slaves in a LTR.

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RE: Mistress and Master couples - 10/14/2004 12:29:27 PM

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The idea has always been appealing to me on a certain level. I've had relationships with Doms but rarely co-Dommed with them. We usually had our own things going on, on the side.

You might want to look at the following thread as well: Bull Doms... Good? Bad? Ugly?

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RE: Mistress and Master couples - 10/14/2004 1:47:32 PM

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You will have a lot of problems about who is in charge. My last vanilla boyfriend is naturally dominant. We were a couple for eight years and have lived together for the past twelve. Even with him not having stake in being the "top top" we had some hellacious fights. And we are very compatible on a friendship basis. What happens when subs are given conflicting orders? What happens when a sub bonds closer with one than the other? Who makes daily household decisions? Who has final say on what DvD, what movie, what restaurant? Who handles the finances? These are a few of the things you'll have to work out in advance. But even still, you have two strong personalities both wanting to be the final word. You might be better off, depending upon your personality, finding a switch or being willing to switch yourself. Having a partnership where one person subs only to their mate, but tops the rest in the household could be a more workable alternative.

I've coDom/med with several people. There has been no difference if the person was Domme or Dom. I've thoroughly enjoyed both.

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RE: Mistress and Master couples - 10/14/2004 10:42:22 PM

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I am in a Dominant couple... We own seperately.. but live jointly.. as to who picks the movie.. whatever... well sometimes I do and sometimes he does and sometimes she does..and sometimes he does.. it depends.. you invest your energry in those situations that matter.. if I dont want to see.. Hellseekers 12 Jason vs Godizilla.. I nip off into some lovely Hugh Grant.. Rupert Evert ... Bridget Jones Diary with a big bag of popcorn.. and a soft lap rug.. and enjoy myself.. As for household duties.. each person has their own gifts and talents and things tend to divide along those lines.. its called open communication and trust.. and hellaish fights make for great make ups.. It works for me.

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RE: Mistress and Master couples - 10/16/2004 7:58:29 PM

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My 13 years of hell were a dom/dom sitch. As a control freaky person, I wouldn't recommend it.

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RE: Mistress and Master couples - 10/16/2004 9:20:35 PM

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chuckles.. well Im a control freaky person too.. and I would.. depends on the people and the situation.. for example.. he has to have his shirts starched .. drives me crazy.. he has a girl she starches his shirts.. I need a bathroom cleaned a specific way... I get the bathroom done my way... he doesnt care about how the towels are folded I do...but god forbide you leave a room and dont turn of the lights.. everybody has their triggers and as long as you respect each other ... and keep an open heart.. in the past six years well its grown me as a Dominant and as a human being.. what more can I ask from a relatioship.

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