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Anita89 -> hello (7/18/2011 7:21:05 PM)

Hi, I'm Anita89 on a few subject related sites on the web. I'm looking for a local male Dom UNDER 32 for ltr and such. I've already been reported for being a fake profile for some reason, then before I read the message telling me so I was blocked. *shrugs* Nothing I can do about that. My profile quite clearly states what I'm looking for and a good deal about me so I'm not glint to repeat it. Any questions let me know in a pm.



Anita89 -> RE: hello (7/18/2011 7:43:14 PM)

Written to meon 7/18/11 at 10:27 PM: Just read your profile. It makes you sound like a moron. I've already hidden you, so I'm not in the least bit interested. I require an IQ above 60 in any woman I have sex with, but lucky for you, most don't have standards like I do. Good luck

Anita89 on 7/18/11 at 10:23 PM: Wow what did I do?

Written to me on 7/18/11 at 10:17 PM: You sound like a moron. Try using spellcheck and copy and pasting instead of just opening your mouth and vomiting up stupidity.



Anita89 -> RE: hello (7/18/2011 7:50:26 PM)

Sent to me on 7/1811 at 8:09 pm: you are obviously just another stupid, lazy, piece-of-shit scammer floating down the sewer of life, and reported as such



Anita89 -> RE: hello (7/18/2011 8:03:02 PM)

So after receiving these wonderful messages its debatable if I'm keeping my profile.



SweetShySubgirl -> RE: hello (7/18/2011 8:07:49 PM)

You've been on for today only. Ignore the jerks (block and delete are your friend) and give it some time.

The assholes tend to come out of the woodworks when there's a new pretty face (apparently they think it's Dommy). It'll die down after awhile. Try not to be too negative, and hopefully it'll get better for you the next few days.



Kaliko -> RE: hello (7/18/2011 8:10:15 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Anita89

So after receiving these wonderful messages its debatable if I'm keeping my profile.



Give it a few. They tend to jump all over new profiles because it's free and they can. Theyprobably also think you're a scammer because you have a picture up, you're pretty and you're young. There are scammers who put pictures up portraying themselves to be young and pretty, so...they might have gotten burned in the past and assume you're more of the same.

Just delete and ignore.



Anita89 -> RE: hello (7/18/2011 8:15:51 PM)

I appreciate your kind words. I've never had that kind of response before. I was shocked, all the other people from other sites were either pervy beyond belief or extremely nice. I wasn't expecting rude to down right mean.



JanahX -> RE: hello (7/18/2011 8:20:13 PM)

Never sweat the small stuff. And believe me, Im a gambling kind of gal ... I would bet that they are small indeed.



Tantriqu -> RE: hello (7/18/2011 8:22:54 PM)

A lot of us were shellshocked with the poison spewed on us during our first day. There are a lot of trolls on here, especially basement dwellers who don't like women who wouldn't touch them with a ten-foot pole; makes them feel threatened and inadequate. They're also the reason a lot of us don't post a face-pic!
But there are also some nice guys on here :-)
As has been said, block and report are your friends for messages, as is the 'hide' button on the boards here: wish someone had told me when I joined, so pass it on.
Good luck!



DarkSteven -> RE: hello (7/18/2011 9:11:15 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Anita89

I'm looking for a local male Dom UNDER 32 for ltr and such.


Local?  Nope.  Under 32?  HELL, nope.  But... I AM a male Dom!  Oh well... ya win some, ya lose some.

Welcome to collarme, Anita, and ignore the nasties.



sexyred1 -> RE: hello (7/18/2011 9:14:41 PM)

OP, don't sweat it. I don't know what your profile said before, but you are young and pretty and guys seem to get pissed off about you rejecting them in advance.



ladyneedshelp -> RE: hello (7/18/2011 9:15:04 PM)

Anita I have been on this site for about 8 years. I have met 3 long term subs and several friends from here. That being said there are several idiots who think rudness is dominate or the only respond to a response they don't like. There are people who think just because ur in the life style u will do anything anyone says...some think that just because they asked u will agree.....lol. some get off on trying to make u feel small....I think it makes them feel bigger....some have nothing better to do than be critical of ur spelling or grammar..... who knows what makes the world go around for
some people! ALWAYS remember....pay attention to red flags!!!.....if u feel something ain't right, assume it aint!....delete and forget....if they are rude....delete....if they are annoying....delete! always insist first meeting are in public...have a friend who u tell about the meeting and have a time arranged for u to call and let them know ur safe...and let whoever u meet know that u have a safe call right up front. Be safe and Good luck in ur search!

Lady Pamela



Palliata -> RE: hello (7/18/2011 9:53:23 PM)

I'm disappointed I never got to experience all the hate mail that apparently comes with starting a sub account. I do so love hate mail [:D]

Anyway, welcome to CM. Don't let the assholes bring you down. There are some good people here, once you get to know them.



KenRath -> RE: hello (7/18/2011 11:39:30 PM)

I thought your profile was pretty well put together. It was enough to make me wish I lived in Florida.

Anyway good luck with your search and do not let people get you down.



OohAahMrs -> RE: hello (7/19/2011 2:24:25 AM)

Welcome Anita. Pervs? Best just to lure them to a basement and murder them! (is this wrong?)



Anomandaris -> RE: hello (7/19/2011 8:18:18 AM)

Welcome.

Sorry you had a negative experience.




Anita89 -> RE: hello (7/19/2011 9:13:05 AM)

I was talking to other people on fetlife about this site and it seems common for guys to do this. *shrugs* I reopened my profile blocked a lot of people and don't care anymore. I am new and they will get over it eventually.



Buzzzz -> RE: hello (7/19/2011 9:45:13 AM)

What is up with the under 32 thing ???? ;)



ashjor911 -> RE: hello (7/19/2011 10:02:48 AM)

Welcome To CM Anita89




Anita89 -> RE: hello (7/19/2011 4:12:25 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Buzzzz

What is up with the under 32 thing ???? ;)


I'm only 21 I still think 32 is old.



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