MizSuz
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This will be the ONLY time I will respond to this "woman" on this forum. I posted her name and address in an AOL chatroom IN RESPONSE TO HER HAVING DONE THE SAME TO AT LEAST TWO PEOPLE FIRST (and yes, I was one of them). She was mining information from public databases and posting it in chat and threatening people with things like "be careful, you don't know what I know about you or what I'll do with it!" I simply showed her that she wasn't as anonymous as she thought. Of note is that she gave me permission to post anything I wanted to about her (yup, I've got those logs and emails, too). I will once again say, for the record, that I had NOTHING to do with her being outed to the authorities. You can believe I would own it had I done it. Someone ELSE who she pissed off (which seems to be a common thread for this 'woman') contacted the authorities and copied me on the email. Ive also got the emails I sent to the woman who DID contact the authorities in which I tell her to take me out of the loop. I didn't and don't want any part of it. Typical of ann's style she has ASSUMED that I was involved and went on a major smear campaign to promote her spin of the story, which she continues to perpetuate to this day. She emailed every bdsm group she knew me to be involved with, she had people from yahoo send me (and anyone who seemed to support me) inflammatory emails, someone from yahoo outed me at my job (repetitively) and she continues to make allegations against me that she can't support beyond my being copied on an email. What's more, she never really addresses any direct confrontations, she merely attempts to generate more spin. She has accused me of doing home surgery and publically stated that she had contacted my local police. She has told people not to come to my home because SHE had contacted the police and they were watching me. She went on and on for DAYS (literally) about my not buying into SSC (which, I'm told, she has since changed her personal stance on and tried to 'teach' someone about). She went on and on for weeks about my not giving someone information (I let her go on about it) only to discover that I had in fact given the information to the sub - she didnt' bother to follow up with him. Not only did she go on and on in chat about it, but she emailed EVERYONE in the chatroom REPETITIVELY in an attempt to defame me about it. I have logs of her bragging about turning someone's IMs into the police and prosecutor's offices. I have logs of her claiming to be on the phone making complaints to aol, to police and to anyone who would listen. I have extensive logs of her making derrogatory remarks about anybody who is over weight (the very same people she later tried to make her client base for her retail store). She has gone on and on for months at a time about my being bipolar and that she 'knows' I'm unstable because of same. Perhaps her recent bout of suicidal depression has given her a bit more empathy in that regard but I don't expect she'll admit it unless it suits her propaganda needs. I have suffered her smear campaigns for years. I have seen (and have extensive logs) of her bragging about loving the notoriety of all this drama and how it helps her business. I have seen (and have logs of) her putting personal medical information about women she was involved with in the very same chat rooms she accuses me of having outed her in ("so-and-so contracted HPV from my photographer after having known him for only a few hours. I was going to keep that private but then decided not to..."). I have correspondence she had with a client in which she threatens to out him unless he acts the way she wants him to. I have extensive logs of her taking one tiny little piece of information and twisting it to suit her needs (especially if it enables her to perpetuate her "I'm a victim but still I champion OUR cause" propaganda). I have personal experience with her assuming that her idea of what portions of a relationship should be D/s is the only appropriate way and subsequently insinuating herself into a relationship she had no business in and was asked (repetitively) to remove herself from. Her justification was friendship, in spite of the fact that this friend asked her to back off. I spent a weekend with the sub in question and she spent the entire weekend calling him crying (literally crying) because she 'didn't want to lose her friend.' I have correspondence in which she admits to having advised someone else's submissive to lie to their dominant. She has admitted to making submissive aliases for the purpose of getting information about dominant women she was in drama with so she could have something on them. I have statements from a dominant accusing ann of trying to orchestrate real time ambushing of women she was in conflict with (I can not affirm the veracity of this claim because it is third person - but I can produce the interaction in which she was accused of it by yet another former friend). I also have public statements and personal emails from her stating that my accusations about her are all true. At the time she thought it was all rather funny. I have no knowledge of any friendship with a dominant woman that she's been able to maintain for longer than a year. Most of the women I know who have befriended her and took her side during our confrontation have since emailed me to apologize saying they wished they'd known about her from the beginning. You're damned right I kept all those emails, too. My unsolicited advice to anyone involving this woman in their life is "watch your back." She has openly and repetitively boasted about being the mistress of spin on multiple occasions in many forums. She's a liar, probably most pitiful of all is that she seems to believe her lies, and I am not at all sorry that she is finally reaping what she has sown. My only disappointment is that her local community has had to suffer the consequences of her actions and continues to be under a microscope because of her belief that she can turn any publicity into something profitable. She claims to be squeeky clean and yet has been arrested for DUI, for Assault & Battery and has had tax warrants issued for non payment of taxes. Don't believe me? Someone else kept many of the logs I have and made a satire site about it (probably in reaction to the satire site she made calling all women who didn't agree with her cows and fat pigs). I can personally affirm that the logs are accurate. You can see those logs, which have been edited some (you'd have to edit them because there is so damned MUCH of it), here: http://geocities.com/annspinindy/ I disagree that the other women, especially pro dominas, in her area are not by her side because she doesn't need them. I'm more likely to believe she's burned all those bridges and now relies on the kindness of gullible strangers. This will be the ONLY response I will make to these accusations on this forum. It's simply a repeat of the same tired drama she spun with me years ago and continues to spin with anyone who has the audacity to disagree with her or hold her feet to the fire for her behavior. If you buy what she's selling then you buy pure spin. Nothing wrong with that as long as you opt-in by informed choice. And now back to your regularly scheduled BDSM discussion.
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“The more you love, the more you can love—and the more intensely you love. Nor is there any limit on how many you can love. If a person had time enough, he could love all of that majority who are decent and just.” - Robert Heinlein
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