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Changes - 7/23/2011 12:16:19 AM

beth4change

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hello A/all in was a strict Domme but now i want to feel the whip on my skin be the other side of the bars. Has any other Dommes been through this and is it normal to go from Domme to slave

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RE: Changes - 7/23/2011 1:59:24 AM

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...is it normal to go from Domme to slave

Nope... YOU are the first!!!

(kidding)

Have seen several switch... both ways, actually.

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RE: Changes - 7/23/2011 2:23:50 AM

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Normalcy is a myth. Be happy with whatever comes your way. As MSLA says, you're definitely not the first, if that's what you're worried about. Just explore and whatever label you end up with is what you'll be.

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RE: Changes - 7/23/2011 2:27:26 AM

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From my perspective, it's practically becoming cliche. I've spoken to multiple ex-Domme's who became disgusted with the weakness of the men they were dominating and yearned for the strength of an actual man.

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RE: Changes - 7/23/2011 2:41:06 AM

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and there are just as many dom males swapping sides ... its not a gender thing ... its a person thing

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RE: Changes - 7/23/2011 6:02:10 AM

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ORIGINAL: Awareness

From my perspective, it's practically becoming cliche. I've spoken to multiple ex-Domme's who became disgusted with the weakness of the men they were dominating and yearned for the strength of an actual man.

yuppers...the strength, in all ways, of an actual MAN.

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RE: Changes - 7/23/2011 6:14:46 AM

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And of course, many times it's not the change in relationship dynamic that is sought, but instead the desire to be the receiver of the sensation rather than the giver.

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RE: Changes - 7/23/2011 7:03:54 AM

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From my perspective, it's practically becoming cliche. I've spoken to multiple ex-Domme's who became disgusted with the weakness of the men they were dominating and yearned for the strength of an actual man.

And here I have been disgusted by the the men who attempt to dominate me and charmed by the intellect,class, and charisma of many submissive men on this board....

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RE: Changes - 7/23/2011 7:07:21 AM

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ORIGINAL: Epytropos

Normalcy is a myth. Be happy with whatever comes your way. As MSLA says, you're definitely not the first, if that's what you're worried about. Just explore and whatever label you end up with is what you'll be.

Hey, aren't you that chick, Palliata, that used to post here?

(Lol...sorry....I just had to fuck with you a little bit)

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RE: Changes - 7/23/2011 7:13:21 AM

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ORIGINAL: DecadentDesire

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ORIGINAL: Epytropos

Normalcy is a myth. Be happy with whatever comes your way. As MSLA says, you're definitely not the first, if that's what you're worried about. Just explore and whatever label you end up with is what you'll be.

Hey, aren't you that chick, Palliata, that used to post here?

(Lol...sorry....I just had to fuck with you a little bit)

Lol yeah I finally got the operation and decided a new name was in order. I considered just going with Palliatus but if you're going to change genitalia I figure you should go all the way and pick a whole new name, you know?

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RE: Changes - 7/23/2011 7:18:47 AM

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And here I have been disgusted by the the men who attempt to dominate me and charmed by the intellect,class, and charisma of many submissive men on this board....

Well, that's just silly. Subs aren't real men. Only doms are real men - we eat nails for breakfast and uproot trees with our bare hands so our giant blue oxe can drag them down to the sawmill. Charmed by a sub; for shame!

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RE: Changes - 7/23/2011 7:59:18 AM

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BDSM has many flavors and few are limited to one. My Miss often seeks a friend to meet her masochistic needs, but that doesn't make her less of a Domme or sadist. I find it best to enjoy the ride and not ask why.

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RE: Changes - 7/23/2011 8:48:31 AM

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Would it be Normal pretend otherwise? Just be true to yourself.

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RE: Changes - 7/23/2011 8:58:47 AM

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As other folks have said, some do and some don't. The longer that I don't want to switch makes Me think that the odds of it ever happening become less. However, if you want to try it out, go for it. Nobody ever said it was required to stay in one role for the rest of your days anymore than it's required never to try something new.

Have fun and enjoy your new experiences.

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RE: Changes - 7/23/2011 9:58:12 AM

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ORIGINAL: juliaoceania

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ORIGINAL: Awareness

From my perspective, it's practically becoming cliche. I've spoken to multiple ex-Domme's who became disgusted with the weakness of the men they were dominating and yearned for the strength of an actual man.

You want him, don't you, Juliaoceania?

And here I have been disgusted by the the men who attempt to dominate me and charmed by the intellect,class, and charisma of many submissive men on this board....

< Message edited by catize -- 7/23/2011 9:59:18 AM >

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RE: Changes - 7/23/2011 11:57:38 AM

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I've spoken to multiple ex-Domme's who became disgusted with the weakness of the men they were dominating and yearned for the strength of an actual man.

Hmmm... I'd never heard that explanation. Interesting.

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RE: Changes - 7/23/2011 2:49:13 PM

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if you long for the kiss of the lash, you can still be a fucking domme and get it you know. there's no rule that says you have to be a fucking slave to get your ass whipped.

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RE: Changes - 7/23/2011 3:20:19 PM

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ORIGINAL: beth4change

hello A/all in was a strict Domme but now i want to feel the whip on my skin be the other side of the bars. Has any other Dommes been through this and is it normal to go from Domme to slave

As a Dom that use to be a sub I must say it's completely normal and that you should do what ever you are comfortable with.

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RE: Changes - 7/23/2011 4:31:51 PM

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And here I have been disgusted by the the men who attempt to dominate me

I would be too. A Dom should always have exquisite taste.

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RE: Changes - 7/23/2011 4:35:51 PM

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