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littlewonder -> RE: Sexual Frustration (7/28/2011 3:41:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: RapierFugue quote: ORIGINAL: coookie I really didn't see anyone being mean really. <puzzled> Me either. Some people are very sensitive though. me 3. Maybe I'm just not seeing it.

DesFIP -> RE: Sexual Frustration (7/29/2011 7:45:50 AM)
Post # 5 called the op a spoiled brat. Which is typical for that poster. And yes, I think that could qualify as mean spirited.

HannahLynHeather -> RE: Sexual Frustration (7/29/2011 7:48:00 AM)
no one's been mean? well i'll fix that little problem right fucking quick... ok listen up you horny little brat. get control of your fucking cunt and stop acting like you're just going through puberty. so you're fucking horny and you can't have a full on session. well waaaah, waaah, waaaah, cry me a fucking mississsippi. you can make all the rationalizations you want, but it won't change the fact that you are being an immature fucking child, and i f you were mine, you'd be spending your nights standing nose-to-the-wall in the corner. "stand still, see you in the morning fuck up."

ChatteParfaitt -> RE: Sexual Frustration (7/29/2011 7:55:35 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: HannahLynHeather no one's been mean? well i'll fix that little problem right fucking quick... ok listen up you horny little brat. get control of your fucking cunt and stop acting like you're just going through puberty. so you're fucking horny and you can't have a full on session. well waaaah, waaah, waaaah, cry me a fucking mississsippi. you can make all the rationalizations you want, but it won't change the fact that you are being an immature fucking child, and i f you were mine, you'd be spending your nights standing nose-to-the-wall in the corner. "stand still, see you in the morning fuck up." Good Gad !! I'm so in love with Hanners !!

littleone35 -> RE: Sexual Frustration (7/29/2011 8:02:19 AM)
I have tried and it is impossible for me to be quiet and i have really tried. I did not say i was acting like a spoile brat. jst that things that dont usually bother me make me a little more irattiated. Masterand i have talke about it we will find a way. Maybe go shopping as someone else suggested. Also i don't like to act up because Master always sys i an HIS good girl and that is what i want to be. Matt's littleone

ChatteParfaitt -> RE: Sexual Frustration (7/29/2011 8:07:26 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: littleone35 I have tried and it is impossible for me to be quiet and i have really tried. I did not say i was acting like a spoile brat. jst that things that dont usually bother me make me a little more irattiated. Masterand i have talke about it we will find a way. Maybe go shopping as someone else suggested. Matt's littleone That's why God, in his infinite wisdom, invented gags. Seriously, even I can be quiet, and even still, if I'm told to. I think you two just need more practice. Which should solve the problem nicely, IMO.

littlewonder -> RE: Sexual Frustration (7/29/2011 8:08:03 AM)
bite your tongue, smile and get on with life. I mean that's pretty much what most adults do. If you feel that frustrated, take up boxing? Can't say i really understand your dilemma because I don't but hopefully you figure out something.

coookie -> RE: Sexual Frustration (7/29/2011 8:21:08 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: littleone35 I have tried and it is impossible for me to be quiet and i have really tried. I did not say i was acting like a spoile brat. jst that things that dont usually bother me make me a little more irattiated. Masterand i have talke about it we will find a way. Maybe go shopping as someone else suggested. Also i don't like to act up because Master always sys i an HIS good girl and that is what i want to be. Matt's littleone lol retail therapy for the win. Again, do they never leave your home? god i would hate company like that. Send them to the museum or the theater or the water park. (oh and now someone has been mean and it sure wasn't post 5)

Asherscorp1 -> RE: Sexual Frustration (7/29/2011 8:34:56 AM)
I can relate so strongly to this! Master's daughter lives with us in the summer and I always say my sex life dies in June and I get it back in Sept. Those are not easy times for any of us. Yes, I get snippy, yes I get sarcastic and short-tempered because suddenly our routine, our behaviors, everything is just tossed willy-nilly to be put back to rights ... whenever. Master's daughter is pretty high maintenance so it's hard for Master to focus time on our dynamic and lifestyle and switch into "parenting mode" while still handling every-day stress etc. by the time He's worked, dealt with her then has to handle me ... lol ... well, I get the short end. This is something that I work with every day, I strive to be a better pet, to behave, to express my needs and be very patient. Some days I do better, some days I do worse. Master is forever compassionate and understanding so He works with me and we get through it. Not easy but in the end I think our relationship is stronger for it. Is it a big deal? Yes and no. If I were a wench and didn't care it would be. I do care and Master knows that I try, but I'm human and my frustration expresses itself in my attitude. I know that the longer I am His pet the more ways I will find to handle situations like this with the grace I should, I just need time and direction and Master is on the same page and willing to give me those. I would advise that you find a mantra, something to meditate on every morning or every night or both. Something as simple as, "Today I will be a good girl, I will please my Master in every way." Breathe deep, focus and then act accordingly. It may also help if you can have your Master just "ground/center" you for a few minutes during the day whenever you can. Master centers me by having me kneel at His feet and petting me, it automatically puts me in place mentally/emotionally. And get imaginative. I need pain more than sex, I get downright bitchy if I lack beatings or being tormented or used hard so Master has perfected tiny things like pinching my septum (not pleasant) when I am acting out. He turns me away from anyone else in the room and it looks like we are just sidling up to each other for a moment. The pain serves to calm me and also serve as a reminder (since I don't really enjoy that pain) that I need to shape up. Takes 30 seconds tops, can be done in "public" and no one the wiser. Try to find things like that to alleviate some tension and maybe remind you of your place.

littlekitten1 -> RE: Sexual Frustration (7/29/2011 11:41:35 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ChatteParfaitt That's why God, in his infinite wisdom, invented gags. But did he invent gags for fingers? D=

littleone35 -> RE: Sexual Frustration (7/29/2011 11:49:49 AM)
Well actually littlewonder i do take karate 2 times a wwek but it let some tension out but not all of it . it helps i think i am gonna join a gyn get thosr feel good endorphins flowing. Matt's littleone

LafayetteLady -> RE: Sexual Frustration (7/29/2011 12:07:14 PM)
Are you not sexually satisfied at all with vanilla sex? As Aileen said, people have sex all the time with others in the house or there wouldn't be additional children to families. Granted you might not be able to go all out, but where there is a will, there's a way.

littlewonder -> RE: Sexual Frustration (7/29/2011 12:48:25 PM)
maybe try a date night if your visitors refuse to leave the house? When I was married we did that. We would get a babysitter and then rent a cheap motel room for a few hours. Always worked for us.

SuzeCheri -> RE: Sexual Frustration (7/29/2011 1:01:24 PM)
Wow, that really sucks, I hate being horny and not being able to get it on. Oh I agree, sometimes self-adoration just doesn't cut it. I know what you mean, I wish we could help her out. Well I do have an idea. Suze, I am not driving you to Long Island, so just forget about it. No, that's not what I had in mind at all! I'm truly surprised. OK what's your idea? Pssssst, pssss, pst, sbbsssb. Hmmmmm, you know, that just might work. Suggest it to her. OK. Hey littleone, here's an idea that might help. You need an outlet, some sort of release. Well since you are already feeling a little bitchy and snippy, I think you should use that. Instead of coming to CM and being starting this thread, and being sweet and adorable, go on a rampage. Yes, add the following to your sig: "I'm as horny as Hell, and I'm not going to take this anymore!" And then prowl the boards looking for opportunities to tear into people for the smallest reasons. I know this sort of sudden change will be a little hard, so here's some inspirational reading to get you into the swing of things: Recommended reading list.

JanahX -> RE: Sexual Frustration (7/29/2011 8:43:30 PM)
get a grip. You sound like you've never experienced pms before and you're always in some kind of great mood and never snip or are cranky. Are you sure you're a female?

Marisol -> RE: Sexual Frustration (7/29/2011 8:53:58 PM)
I don't know what to suggest other than get over it? I mean, I've never been able to have sexual relations everyday for 5 years though, so I don't really have any experience on this whole thing completely. But I mean, I guess I can see sexual frustration coming out, but to me that just means it will be even better when you do get it.

SuzeCheri -> RE: Sexual Frustration (7/29/2011 9:39:57 PM)
quote: you're always in some kind of great mood Well Duh! We get all sapphic with Heather. Need we say more?

NuevaVida -> RE: Sexual Frustration (7/29/2011 9:54:58 PM)
I was going to suggest going to the gym and working out hard, but you beat me to it. [:)] When I'm feeling unbalanced, Daddy "squishes" me. He just lies on top of me, using me as a full body pillow until my nerves calm. I understand feeling sexually frustrated sometimes. You just need that hard smack'em spanking to set your world back on its axis. Others had some good ideas - a wooden spoon, pinching (or scratching - I love that). Your face smothered in the pillow should muffle any sounds you're not able to stifle. When his teen daughter is with us, we still have sex, we just tone it down. He'll grip my hair hard, wrap his hand around my throat and squeeze, and find other quiet things to do. I have trouble staying quiet sometimes, too, so his hand pressed hard over my mouth with a whispered "Don't make a sound" becomes an erotic challenge. Worst case, tell your guests you're going out and get a hotel room for a few hours. How long is your family staying with you? Is it temporary? If so, keep reminding yourself that. [;)]

Hisprettybaby -> RE: Sexual Frustration (7/29/2011 10:23:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DesFIP Post # 5 called the op a spoiled brat. Which is typical for that poster. And yes, I think that could qualify as mean spirited. Well, geez, I looked back and found out that Post #5 was me. You could've just said so. But I wouldn't go so far as to say it's "typical" for me. WTF? Who pissed in your Wheaties? I don't go around calling every OP a spoiled brat. It's fine to feel uptight and all that, but to be "smart ass and snippy" and "act out" toward someone else just because you have to wait for something, well that's just taking out your own frustration problem on someone else and using it as an excuse for bad behavior. So I stand by what I said. ~Hisprettybaby~

Kana -> RE: Sexual Frustration (7/30/2011 6:55:04 AM)
I'd see it as an excuse for new torment games...let's see, I'm gonna slide on this spiked cock ring, slam up your un-lubed ass and grab those titties and just sqqqqquuuuueeeeeeezzzzzzzzze. Meanwhile, cuz your family is here, lets see you exercise discipline and restraint and not make a sound above a whimper. Course, at this point, it's best to keep a pillow handy to smother her with should she be unable to, ahem, restrain herself.

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