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CynthiaWVirginia -> I cannot believe I am saying this, but... (8/1/2011 2:31:38 PM)
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I have had an interest in someone here at CM. Our first contact was on April 12 of this year when he sent me a letter. Unfortunately I was not looking for a sub and was in negotiation with a bottom who lived nearby. I asked him to contact me in another week or two, but he was new and eager and asked another Domme to train him. We had really clicked by that point, but I had to step back and see if they could work things out. The only contact I would allow him to have with me was through our journal entries.
The Lady saw that they were not compatible and released him. They were NOT boyfriend and girlfriend, so when he told me he was free to start dating I crooked my finger and said, "Come here."
We met for the first time on Saturday. It was beyond what I was expecting...yes, in a good way. Since I wrote all about our first meetup in my journal, I will copy and paste it in here so I won't have to say everything all over again.
His new profile is wonderfulbo1.
My journal entry about our first meetup on Saturday, which lasted from about 1:30 p.m. until 6:30 p.m.:
(Comes back from reading B*s journal entry.)
Yes, I did indeed have him brush out my hair on our very first meetup. Outside the steak house were long, empty benches. tucked into a sort of wrap-around porch. It felt like a semiprivate nook, and I had him pull out the long bench and then I slung my leg over and sat down. He sat behind me and brushed. It was so nice and soothing for the both of us and he relaxed and started talking in a steady stream. Btw, he is very gentle and didn*t hurt me even once, and managed to do a thorough job of it for somewhere between an hour and an hour and a half.
We drew only a little attention, and only occasionally. Mostly women who would linger at the entrance to the porch and keep finding excuses to look in our direction. I know that several wished their man would do for them what Bo was doing for me...or maybe they were remembering when their own daddy brushed their hair while enjoying a talk. Doing this was a good ice breaker, and allowed me to discover a lot about him...part of it being that he is thoughtful and very gentle. I did tease him about the women who were envious of the service I was getting. He did not falter nor cringe when he knew he was being watched. My hair touched the bench between us and a breeze blew my hair around a little...and in spite of this challenge, not once did he hurt me while locating and getting some small knot out.
This sub opens doors without being told, walks around to open car doors, and is sweet and gentlemanly. Our date was five hours long, and we were talking the entire time. After the steak house I tethered him to me and led him all over the mall. We lingered at a piercing pagoda and I watched him flush and get literally...shaky. I made him hold out his hands to me while my arm stayed tucked into his elbow, and I was right. Even his hands were noticeably shaking. LOL, it was cute.
We have changed his shoes from the white ones in his pic to...black and blue ones. Yes, that gives me a chuckle. His white shoes are excellent but remind me of bad memories and so he bought new ones while we were at the mall. I chose these for him. They are mostly black with royal blue lining. I like the symbolism of trading out his white shoes that he bought when he was still a BDSM virgin to...wearing black and blue. He looks very nice in them. Adorable. He likes them even more now that he sees them through my eyes, and he loves the shade of blue... It will match the colors of the flogger I plan to use on him if this continues to progress nicely.
We are having daily phone contact for 5 or more hours, and I have plans to see him three days per week. He is allowed to phone me 24/7 as something has happened between us; both of us feel an energy buzz type of leash in place. It was there after the first 20 minutes. Usually this doesn*t happen until after someone is already mine. It feels like I am putting the cart before the horse, establishing a D/s connection before working out the vanilla one. Yeah, I am kicking myself for this and am trying to slow this down and really get to know him first before taking what my internal beast feels is already mine.
My focus has narrowed onto this sub, and yes, I am probably thinking with my little head because the D/s energy crackling between us is so powerful that I feel that I am walking like a duck all day long... However, I am stronger than my base instincts. [image]http://www.collarme.com/images/smileys/0028.gif[/image] Batteries are cheap...shhhh. *winks* I will cool...er...slow myself down to know if we are compatible for long term.
I had planned to vanilla date him for a month or two before declaring him UC (under consideration) but the connection between us is just too good. I have to, in some small way, claim him as mine while I am seeing if we are compatible in more than just THIS. He is free to talk with all the friends he wants, as well as making journal entries so that he has outlets to expresss himself and what he is going through. He will be wandering over to the message boards side of CollarMe, but will not be allowed to post there while he is UC to me. When he becomes more familiar with the other posters and has a feel for the message boards...he will have the option to start posting then.
Something tells me I will not be able to resist taking him for a test run by our 4th meetup. (Yesssss, the energy buzz is making me so hawt to tie him up and flog him!) LOL, I am laughing at myself over my hunger and impatience.
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The end of our meetup came too soon. I had to send him home on unfamiliar roads and wanted him home before dark. Yes, I made him phone me when he got home...so I would know he had gotten home safely. We talked for several more hours until he nodded off to sleep while still holding the phone. I waited, talking softly to him while he slept until he woke up about 45 minutes later...and then I sent him off to bed.
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Edited to alter colors, so that my copied journal entry stands out from the rest.
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