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LadyHibiscus -> RE: Collarme Mistresses (8/17/2011 10:08:04 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SuperHappyTime quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus I changed my settings on the other side (where I pretty much go to check my mail every few days) to Michigan folks, any age/gender/orientation. There are VERY FEW of the red lettered names! VERY few. Of those, half are pro ONLY, and a big chunk of the rest are semi pro/not interested in relationship. Not sure if that has any meaning, just an observation of how things have changed in my area. And thankfully, I get very little spam mail. I kind of gigglesnort when the same guys write to me...like they don't remember talking to the flower lady? Yeah, its been like that for ages - ever since the Michigan Domme plague in the late 80's. Terrible, terrible business. I am lucky to be alive!! I barely escaped with corsets intact.

seekingOwnertoo -> RE: Collarme Mistresses (8/17/2011 3:56:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: NothingWithoutYo Could an experienced collarme user please tell is it normal that a mistress ask for money like in the first 2/3 messages of a conversation? quote: ORIGINAL: LadyPact Each time I've done the research on this, I've gotten roughly the same numbers. I'm the first to admit that it's really crude and is very open to flaw. Every time that I have looked at accounts opened in the last twenty-four hour period, the numbers do come in at roughly 10:1. (That's male submissives in the US any age, race, etc compared to female Dominants in the same time frame.) quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus There are VERY FEW of the red lettered names! VERY few. Of those, half are pro ONLY, and a big chunk of the rest are semi pro/not interested in relationship. A couple of comments here. 1. There are way more profiles here of men than Women. 2. The availability of "real Ladies" who are looking for a relationship, varies significantly by area you live in. Some have a few more, some a few less. 3. I am also sure, the number of Ladies who ARE looking for a relationship in their AREA, can become quite annoyed with the quality of male submissives on Collar Me, that are in their area. My point is, there is no substitute for meeting in REAL Life! If You are real in Your intentions of learning and becoming a Lady's submissive; than find munches, make friends, (with both sexes) attend some real life training, and inevitably, someone will appear. Yet if you can't go to public meetings, (I kind of am), you end up waiting for the right person to show up in your area. Not really a great deal either. So make friends ... And I will add ... blow off anyone who asks you for money online! [:D] Unless it is for "services rendered", in person! Yet THAT, is your decision. Good luck.

LadyConstanze -> RE: Collarme Mistresses (8/17/2011 4:03:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus I am lucky to be alive!! I barely escaped with corsets intact. Anybody who would threaten my corsets would be DEAD, don't they bloody know how expensive a good corset is?

SexyBossyBBW -> RE: Collarme Mistresses (8/17/2011 9:00:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JJ05 My attitude on this is that you just have to keep at it, be open to any contacts and exploring any possibilities I run into. You never know what might happen. If a person doesn't keep at it, keeps on trying, nothing would ever be accomplished. And in the meantime, I just try to enjoy the process and the experience and get anything useful out of it that I can. Good advice as any. Keep on keeping on, be of open mind/heart, and be positive. M

GeekMistress -> RE: Collarme Mistresses (8/18/2011 1:06:35 AM)
Good luck, OP! I'd agree that it is very much possible to meet someone on the internet that that is awesome. It's a bit more possible to meet someone in a fetish/BDSM/club setting because then you can actually have a "first sight" connection. Best of luck!

qqqq7077 -> RE: Collarme Mistresses (8/19/2011 6:05:12 AM)
I get the same thing, seems all the dominate lady's want money , usually its in the opening of the email....'d like just to talk w/one ! Tom

Nineviles -> RE: Collarme Mistresses (8/19/2011 7:02:49 AM)
Half the time those financial dommes are men. 1. they can get away with it because you never need to see them and they can just snag some pics from the internet and pretend to be a woman. 2. some men intentionally make up those profiles just to give femdoms a bad name. Half the retarded posts in this place from so called "sub" men aren't from sub men at all. It's actually some jack ass who despises femdom and sub men and he'll actually make fake but VERY RIDICULOUS threads posing as a sub to give sub men bad name. Like: I want my balls kicked. Or, how to I get a domme to sit on my face. It's funny how bored some of the people are around here that they actually answer these retarded threads and give it more power. There's this site called pay for my implants. Friends and I made a fake profile posing as a woman just to see how easy it was to get guys to send money. It was too fucking easy.

stoni23 -> RE: Collarme Mistresses (8/19/2011 7:10:50 AM)
quote: 2. some men intentionally make up those profiles just to give femdoms a bad name. Do you have proof of this, or just hearsay and conjecture? quote: There's this site called pay for my implants. Friends and I made a fake profile posing as a woman just to see how easy it was to get guys to send money. It was too fucking easy. How does this make you any better then the scammers that are doing it then?

qqqq7077 -> RE: Collarme Mistresses (8/19/2011 7:35:01 AM)
Thanks for the informative reply, I had no idea, you sound like you've been around the block, its a shame its that way, because a dominate dominatrix really does it for me and would love to have a relaxed open conversation with sucha lady, thank you for your reply

Nineviles -> RE: Collarme Mistresses (8/19/2011 7:45:31 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: stoni23 quote: 2. some men intentionally make up those profiles just to give femdoms a bad name. Do you have proof of this, or just hearsay and conjecture? Yes, I know for sure some men do. It's more common than you'd like to accept. quote: There's this site called pay for my implants. Friends and I made a fake profile posing as a woman just to see how easy it was to get guys to send money. It was too fucking easy. How does this make you any better then the scammers that are doing it then? We didn't accept the money, that's how.

Nineviles -> RE: Collarme Mistresses (8/19/2011 7:47:52 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: qqqq7077 Thanks for the informative reply, I had no idea, you sound like you've been around the block, its a shame its that way, because a dominate dominatrix really does it for me and would love to have a relaxed open conversation with sucha lady, thank you for your reply Not a problem. If this profile never lets you speak to "her" and only deals with you on IM and emails, question the gender.

tiggerspoohbear -> RE: Collarme Mistresses (8/19/2011 10:24:46 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: qqqq7077 Thanks for the informative reply, I had no idea, you sound like you've been around the block, its a shame its that way, because a dominate dominatrix really does it for me and would love to have a relaxed open conversation with sucha lady, thank you for your reply First of all, dominate is a verb, not a noun. And the part I bolded, for obvious reasons is that you've very little understanding of Dominant women. One is a dominatrix and obviously a female Dominant. The right terminology would hence be a Dominant woman or a Dominatrix. Not both as one meaning. Juuuuuuuuuust an FIY..................

qqqq7077 -> RE: Collarme Mistresses (8/19/2011 11:02:09 AM)
Thank you

stoni23 -> RE: Collarme Mistresses (8/19/2011 12:43:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Nineviles quote: ORIGINAL: stoni23 quote: 2. some men intentionally make up those profiles just to give femdoms a bad name. Do you have proof of this, or just hearsay and conjecture? Yes, I know for sure some men do. It's more common than you'd like to accept. quote: There's this site called pay for my implants. Friends and I made a fake profile posing as a woman just to see how easy it was to get guys to send money. It was too fucking easy. How does this make you any better then the scammers that are doing it then? We didn't accept the money, that's how. gotcha. I still don't get the allure for people to make fake male sub profiles to give male subaroos a bad name. If anything they're helping male subs out. I'm sure it's happening somewhat, but I don't think to the degree you think. I generally think that most male subs (that send stupid messages, or troll) are just so driven with their fantasies that they're too blinded by them to make something coherent.

LadyConstanze -> RE: Collarme Mistresses (8/19/2011 1:02:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Nineviles Half the time those financial dommes are men. 1. they can get away with it because you never need to see them and they can just snag some pics from the internet and pretend to be a woman. 2. some men intentionally make up those profiles just to give femdoms a bad name. Half the retarded posts in this place from so called "sub" men aren't from sub men at all. It's actually some jack ass who despises femdom and sub men and he'll actually make fake but VERY RIDICULOUS threads posing as a sub to give sub men bad name. Like: I want my balls kicked. Or, how to I get a domme to sit on my face. It's funny how bored some of the people are around here that they actually answer these retarded threads and give it more power. There's this site called pay for my implants. Friends and I made a fake profile posing as a woman just to see how easy it was to get guys to send money. It was too fucking easy. I agree that a lot of the elusive fin dommes are men, but I don't think that it's guys who want to give dommes a bad name, those people are chancers who think they can cash in, simple as that.

msfaye47 -> RE: Collarme Mistresses (8/20/2011 8:02:36 AM)
you give me the money when you show up for your appointment.

MistressDarkArt -> RE: Collarme Mistresses (8/20/2011 11:25:45 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: tiggerspoohbear quote: ORIGINAL: qqqq7077 Thanks for the informative reply, I had no idea, you sound like you've been around the block, its a shame its that way, because a dominate dominatrix really does it for me and would love to have a relaxed open conversation with sucha lady, thank you for your reply First of all, dominate is a verb, not a noun. And the part I bolded, for obvious reasons is that you've very little understanding of Dominant women. One is a dominatrix and obviously a female Dominant. The right terminology would hence be a Dominant woman or a Dominatrix. Not both as one meaning. Juuuuuuuuuust an FIY.................. Dude, have you not figured out yet we don't care 'what really does it for you?' We d o m i n a n t women want to know what you bring to the table. There continues to be a serious disconnect between your fantasy world and the lifestyle reality.

LadyAngelika -> RE: Collarme Mistresses (8/20/2011 1:57:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MistressDarkArt quote: ORIGINAL: tiggerspoohbear quote: ORIGINAL: qqqq7077 Thanks for the informative reply, I had no idea, you sound like you've been around the block, its a shame its that way, because a dominate dominatrix really does it for me and would love to have a relaxed open conversation with sucha lady, thank you for your reply First of all, dominate is a verb, not a noun. And the part I bolded, for obvious reasons is that you've very little understanding of Dominant women. One is a dominatrix and obviously a female Dominant. The right terminology would hence be a Dominant woman or a Dominatrix. Not both as one meaning. Juuuuuuuuuust an FIY.................. Dude, have you not figured out yet we don't care 'what really does it for you?' We d o m i n a n t women want to know what you bring to the table. There continues to be a serious disconnect between your fantasy world and the lifestyle reality. Actually, I disagree. When I care for a man, I do care what does it for him. I don't equate being a dominant woman with being a selfish bitch. That said, I don't care what does it for a random stranger, that's for certain.

qqqq7077 -> RE: Collarme Mistresses (8/20/2011 2:08:25 PM)
Well put,one does not have to be nasty to get a point across

LadyAngelika -> RE: Collarme Mistresses (8/20/2011 2:11:44 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: qqqq7077 Well put,one does not have to be nasty to get a point across Some guys like women who are nasty, and some women are nasty. There's a match for everyone ;-)

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