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RE: Ever want a vacation from BDSM? - 8/22/2011 4:09:04 PM

LadyAngelika

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Do you ever just need a vacation/break from the wiitwd ?

I'm a d-type and I absolutely cannot be "into BDSM" all the time. That said, I'm me all the time.

I find life has a way of ebbing and flowing. Sometimes I'm in the mood, and sometimes I'm not. I'm definitely not a 24/7 person or a lifestyler, either. I'm just a regular girl, a leader, assertive about what she wants and who likes kinky sex every more often than not.

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RE: Ever want a vacation from BDSM? - 8/23/2011 12:01:42 PM

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Hi all. This question may lean a little towards the submissive/slave side but it would be interesting to hear from both sides of the kneel.

Do you ever just need a vacation/break from the wiitwd ? Especially when you live apart, work, life, logistics, family, stuff that pops up, etc. I'm not talking about not wanting to be with them, not wanting to please, being lazy or disobedient. Just needing a break to regroup, focus, private time, etc. Nothing bad, just a break?

And if so, how would you communicate it? Thanks for all comments :)

Yes. I need it quite often. I don't have to communicate it really, it's mostly quite obvious. Ah, not from wiiwd specifically.......but then, wiiwd isn't a HUGE thing anyway.

I need a break from all people, that includes M, I may or may not get that, but I still would like it.

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RE: Ever want a vacation from BDSM? - 8/23/2011 4:29:22 PM

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I feel that if I was desiring a vacation then--- it would have to be a long term vacation from the relationship in general. It would be way too structured for me.

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