With all due respect, not everyone is a fake or scammer. In fact, I would go so far to say that most aren't. While it's true that this site is more geared to attracting the outright scammers who want money or whatever, and those weekend warriors who have no experience except chatrooms and wack (hmm, could it be whack? I've never spelled it in this manner before!) off fantasies, I would say that they are the few and far between of the lot. I would go further and say that those people who aren't experienced in real life are actually opt to tell you outright or when asked. That would mean you're dealing with someone who's trying to take it from a fantasy to see where it leads to in real life, and whether this Lifestyle is right for them. Definitely not a scammer, especially when you consider there are places like Maine (where I'm living) where finding the local scene is nigh impossible and a dungeon? Forget about it! It's not going to happen. I come from Los Angeles, so I know how easy it is (particularly by comparison) to find the scene. In fact, if you go to some of the popular streets in LA on a weekend night, or hang around in Hollywood, you're going to see fetishists. LA just works that way.
But with CollarMe, you have a free dating, chat and forum site that is host and geared to all the glorious kinks that fall into our little BDSM blanket. And let me tell you, we have everything left out of mainstream sex. We even have bestiality, which if you can figure out how that one became bondage, domination/submission, sadism, masochism, mastery/slavery, please let me know. I've been wondering. But seriously, check out the Deviant's Dictionary. All of it falls into our happy family's domain. So yeah, we're gonna attract not only the scammers who would also do the "you're related to the dead Prince of Flying Monkey Deification, please send money" e-mails (and probably do), but also the people who use slavery as an excuse to sit on their ass and do little or nothing with their life, and also those who couldn't give a damn about the 'safe, sane, consensual' credo and all other types of nuts who just want to get laid and can't figure out that's what Adult Friend Finder and a shot of penicillin are for.
Tis the way of the world my friend....