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ArchangelMichael -> RE: Mark of the Sub male? (5/21/2006 10:06:59 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MistressLorelei quote: ORIGINAL: KarbonCopy There are no marks. If people arnt willing to take 20 seconds out of their life to ask, fuck em. I don't know... 'care to get on your knees boy' might get some funny looks from vanilla men... then again, it could work. Miss Lorelei, LOL I think it would work for a lot men, Ma'am!

LindaLashes -> RE: Mark of the Sub male? (5/22/2006 5:33:10 AM)
Hmm, the lock on my collar is closed so it shouldn´t confuse anyone, and if the black nametag with the words "PROPERTY OF MISTRESS FREYJA" etched in silver still confuses people then I´m out of ideas,, maybe shave Mistresses name on the back of my head? Have a tattoo on my forehead? [:D]

ShiftedJewel -> RE: Mark of the Sub male? (5/22/2006 6:20:31 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TeeGO Do the welts on my ass count? Oh wait, I can't show that in public. *Ah, come on TeeGO.... You wouldn't be the first man to show his ass in public! lol* *Jewel*

BlkTallFullfig -> RE: Mark of the Sub male? (5/22/2006 7:33:36 AM)
quote: might there be some accessory or marking that would tastefully identify a male as submissive and available? Posting on the forums and having an awesome profile work pretty well. [;)] M

iliv2servher -> RE: Mark of the Sub male? (5/22/2006 9:17:26 AM)
Hanky code, earring and keys worn on the right...all come from the gay community. I don't believe there is a stardard for this is the het BDSM world. It might work at play parties and other social events, but identifying yourself to people on the street would probably not produce any results. I remember seeing a piece of jewelry (a pendant) signifying one's involvement in the BDSM community, but it never seemed to catch on. I once thought of wearing a handcuff on one wrist, but I figued that the police might see me as a fugitive and I'd be arrested on the spot. LOL

composer83 -> RE: Mark of the Sub male? (5/22/2006 12:34:23 PM)
how about a tshirt that simply says 'slave for sale' maybe certain special interest groups would take offense to that...... personally i wear a plain, thick, black leather bracelet on my right wrist.....as my own personal symbol of submission........but im the only one who knows it......maybe if someone would take the time to ask............. ~m

understud -> RE: Mark of the Sub male? (5/22/2006 1:13:01 PM)
how about a small tastefully tailored arm band sewn into the clothing with all the pertinent information printed on it. With a little imagination it could be very well done and not garish at all, Even acceptable in the most vanilla of situations...just a thought... always respectful respectfully understud

proudsub -> RE: Mark of the Sub male? (5/22/2006 1:59:35 PM)
quote: i have heard that a "hot wife" wears an ankle bracelet Running out to get an ankle bracelet.[:D] How about just a piece of bdsm jewlry, like a ring or bracelet with the emblem on it. It might arouse interest even though it doesn't say whether you are available or not.

ShiftedJewel -> RE: Mark of the Sub male? (5/22/2006 3:35:35 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: proudsub quote: i have heard that a "hot wife" wears an ankle bracelet Running out to get an ankle bracelet.[:D] How about just a piece of bdsm jewlry, like a ring or bracelet with the emblem on it. It might arouse interest even though it doesn't say whether you are available or not. That's a good idea, there are plenty of websites that sell that type of jewelry. Generally, if someone recognizes the symbol you'll get a knowing nod, and those that don't will, at the most, comment on how unusual it looks. And since you aren't one to wear rings, perhaps you could find a tie tack? *Jewel*

LadyAlexa -> RE: Mark of the Sub male? (5/22/2006 7:17:13 PM)
the hanky code and keys are primarily gay leather symbols. Yes many of the 'Old Guard' ideas have watered down into mainstream D/s. Asking is a good thing. Wearing a label on your forehead that states sub or slave might help LOL I've seen some wearing wrist bands with sub/slave printed on them. Even a necklace that states the same. When in doubt ask. But I do love the "kneel at my feet" idea LOL

tasha_tart -> RE: Mark of the Sub male? (5/22/2006 9:13:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: IamDifferent i have heard that a "hot wife" wears an ankle bracelet, gay men wear an earring in a certain ear and in a certain way, etc.; might there be some accessory or marking that would tastefully identify a male as submissive and available? Thank you all... Holy crap! Now I'm confused; I have ten earrings. Is it odd or even that denotes sexual orientation? Oh yeah...I have an anklet too...and I'm not married! Tasha

MistressSassy66 -> RE: Mark of the Sub male? (5/23/2006 7:05:48 PM)
I have a beaded key chain I made,actually bishop has one too....it has black,blue,white beads and 1 red bead There are also the lapel pins with the bondage circle or a flag design.Most Gay and Lesbian shops usually also carry things related to BDSM. While they dont advertise your available they do let O/others in the Lifestyle know.

ArchangelMichael -> RE: Mark of the Sub male? (5/25/2006 12:42:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: boy43 i have heared that some kind of tatoo means the status of a slave. Its like a chain around the arm, but dont know wich. Collars have usually the meaning of owned, but as it is in my case, apersone can use to it for pleasure, and how his/her condition. i love collars, mine is a standard dog collar, but i am not owned, i bought it strictly for the pleasure of wearing it. :) Well, the Greeks branded slaves with a delta (Δ, for Δουλος doulos "slave"). So you could have a Δ branded or tattooed on you to show that you're a slave. There are other symbols, too. This is the Japanese kanji for "slave" (dorei): [image]http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v381/arcangelmichael/dorei-slave.jpg[/image]

Aimtoplease101 -> RE: Mark of the Sub male? (5/25/2006 6:55:22 PM)
I asked something like this a while ago concerning BDSM symbols. The triskel has been adopted as such a symbol. Depending on color (gold, silver, etc) and hand on which it is worn, it identifies the wearer as dom, sub, etc. Google around a bit. Regards, ATP

Mlicious -> RE: Mark of the Sub male? (5/29/2006 1:41:21 PM)
To keep it simple, I like the idea of a subtle piece of jewelry or charm that signals to those in the know that you are a sub or at least into the lifestyle. That would invite a conversation and the opportunity to reveal your interests. The answers here have been quite comprehensive. The responses are so vast, I would not remember them anyway. I believe it is best conveyed by his mannerisms and how he treats a woman, whether she is a Domme and actively in the lifestyle or not. A Domme or a woman with dominant tendencies will likely pick up on it. My pet often makes jokes about his subservience to women. If he draws a strange look from anyone, he can always play it off by saying "just kidding!" But the woman who responds favorably to the comment has potential. It works the other way too. In the past, I have taken dates to a popular leather store, gone inside and watched their reaction to the goodies inside.

theRose4U -> RE: Mark of the Sub male? (5/29/2006 7:51:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: understud how about a small tastefully tailored arm band sewn into the clothing with all the pertinent information printed on it. With a little imagination it could be very well done and not garish at all, Even acceptable in the most vanilla of situations...just a thought... always respectful respectfully understud I'm just wondering how some would get : heavy s&m , leather fetish , bondage, latex, intimate sex included, into "police" games, 69 or "french" (oral sex both),oral sex by bottom only, genital torture, into "hooker" game, sissy, into "military" games, daddy/daughter, sex with food,enema, boot licking, spitting, watersports (urine games), rimming (licking anus), into threesomes, big penis (thinks he has), wants overweight partner, foot worship,into "cowboy" games or pony or kitty or puppy, likes spanking, anal fisting, dildo, breast/nipple torture, razors/knifing/scarification, menstruating, navel fetish, armpit fetish, piercing, drag, breathplay, scat (feces games), whipping, flogging, shaving, likes partner of black race, likes partner of latino race, likes partner of oriental race, likes partner of white race, into boxer shorts, animals included, romantic, like body builder types, tattoos, smoking (cigars) a must, into smelly games, into oil and grease, CBT, single tails, motorcycles, St Andrew's crosses, bar type , into tributes, no strings housework and being a sammy onto a "tasteful" armband.

LadyGatta -> RE: Mark of the Sub male? (5/31/2006 8:31:03 AM)
not sure if there is something to Id uncollared slave, but My slave and I wear identical bracelets, the only difference is I wear it on My arm, and he wears it as a cock ring- bracelets made out of leather of course!!!

MistressSassy66 -> RE: Mark of the Sub male? (5/31/2006 8:40:01 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: theRose4U quote: ORIGINAL: understud how about a small tastefully tailored arm band sewn into the clothing with all the pertinent information printed on it. With a little imagination it could be very well done and not garish at all, Even acceptable in the most vanilla of situations...just a thought... always respectful respectfully understud I'm just wondering how some would get : heavy s&m , leather fetish , bondage, latex, intimate sex included, into "police" games, 69 or "french" (oral sex both),oral sex by bottom only, genital torture, into "hooker" game, sissy, into "military" games, daddy/daughter, sex with food,enema, boot licking, spitting, watersports (urine games), rimming (licking anus), into threesomes, big penis (thinks he has), wants overweight partner, foot worship,into "cowboy" games or pony or kitty or puppy, likes spanking, anal fisting, dildo, breast/nipple torture, razors/knifing/scarification, menstruating, navel fetish, armpit fetish, piercing, drag, breathplay, scat (feces games), whipping, flogging, shaving, likes partner of black race, likes partner of latino race, likes partner of oriental race, likes partner of white race, into boxer shorts, animals included, romantic, like body builder types, tattoos, smoking (cigars) a must, into smelly games, into oil and grease, CBT, single tails, motorcycles, St Andrew's crosses, bar type , into tributes, no strings housework and being a sammy onto a "tasteful" armband. That would also add upto ALOT of hankies too...LOL A bulging pockets worth. I still like the key chain with BDSM colors.

strongnsubmissiv -> RE: Mark of the Sub male? (6/1/2006 9:49:45 AM)
I've often wished there was something i could adorn that those in the know would recognize. The triskellion is something that other kinkyfolk would recognize but it doesn't give any indication regarding sub or dom. (Not to mention that i find it horribly ugly) The Story of O ring http://www.showoffyourstuff.com/StoryOfOring.htm is something that you'll find all kinds of styles, even some masculine ones. It definately denotes submission, although some Male Doms say that ring needs to be earned, and to just arbitrarily wear one is wrong. (putting on my i couldn't care less face) I've also heard many times that the right side of the body denotes submissive, so perhaps a nice Story of O ring on the right hand would make things pretty clear. Maybe if we start a trend, it'll stick.

MisPandora -> RE: Mark of the Sub male? (6/3/2006 3:30:04 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: theRose4U I'm just wondering how some would get : heavy s&m , leather fetish , bondage, latex, intimate sex included, into "police" games, 69 or "french" (oral sex both),oral sex by bottom only, genital torture, into "hooker" game, sissy, into "military" games, daddy/daughter, sex with food,enema, boot licking, spitting, watersports (urine games), rimming (licking anus), into threesomes, big penis (thinks he has), wants overweight partner, foot worship,into "cowboy" games or pony or kitty or puppy, likes spanking, anal fisting, dildo, breast/nipple torture, razors/knifing/scarification, menstruating, navel fetish, armpit fetish, piercing, drag, breathplay, scat (feces games), whipping, flogging, shaving, likes partner of black race, likes partner of latino race, likes partner of oriental race, likes partner of white race, into boxer shorts, animals included, romantic, like body builder types, tattoos, smoking (cigars) a must, into smelly games, into oil and grease, CBT, single tails, motorcycles, St Andrew's crosses, bar type , into tributes, no strings housework and being a sammy onto a "tasteful" armband. G R E E D Y P I G [:)]

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