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allthatjaz -> RE: young domme seeks guidance (9/1/2011 11:13:09 AM)
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MsSofiaprincess Whilst you may of lied about your age, your only a few years older than what you state in your profile and so I'm not sure why you think men will find you more attractive as a 19 year old than your true age of 21. I'm happy to confirm that without a shadow of a doubt Sofia is who she says she is in every other way and that all the pictures are of her.
Anyone can set themselves up as a pro Domme but that doesn't mean they are any good at it or that they will make any money. There's no qualification, no degree to be had in this business but the one thing pro Dommes rely on is their good reputation and to earn that you need to know and understand your trade. As well as the art of S/m techniques you need to understand a lot about D/s. Not all subs are alike, in fact each and every one of them want something different from you. You have to be a good actress because not every guy that walks through your door is going to look like Brad Pitt. When you have a sweaty 280lb guy dribbling on your boots you are not allowed to vomit! Yes, one can be choosy but believe me, when that 280lb guy is your best and most reliable client, your not going to be turning him away.
You have to learn about the actual running of the business and how it works overall. You have to have a dungeon or at least be in a co/operative. You need to have a secretary because at no time should you be working alone. You need to learn about appropriate hygiene techniques and contamination risks. You have to learn and understand about advertizing yourself and having your own webpage. I know you understand about that already.
Others have mentioned training with other Mistresses and personally I believe, if you want to make serious money at this, that's the only way to go. Getting that training, especially with top Mistresses (which I highly recommend but do your homework) isn't going to come easy. Don't go for someone in your area because your a threat to their turf especially as your young and pretty. Be prepared to travel and be prepared to earn peanuts whilst your training. Remember its a good investment because if you get in with a top Mistress you will likely become a top Mistress yourself.
Just because your young and sexy doesn't mean you will get loads of work. The top Mistress (in the way of reputation and earnings) presently in the UK is in her late 40s. A lot of the young Dommes have linked domination onto their escort trade and are ten a penny. Don't be just another one of those!
Finally I would say specialize but you can only choose what route you want to specialize in after or during your training.
Good luck
CM is not a good starting ground. You don't see any Dommes on here that you would see in UK Mistresses. What you see on here are women earning pocket change for a whole heap of hard work.
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