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paulmcuk -> RE: Hooked on financial slavery (8/28/2011 5:56:26 AM)

I'd recommend telling her you're broke and can't pay up anymore.

I sort of get the notion of findom - handing over your cash on the say so of a woman is a very submissive act - but the buyers remorse is huge.

Personally I move on as soon as I see that a profile is from a findomme. Most of them just scream out "fake", especially those who seem to think that a couple of photos that could be plucked from anywhere constitutes proof that they're genuine. You say you've talked to this woman - is that by phone or just by e-mail? Do you know she's the same person as in the photos? Do you know if she's a "real" domme or just a chancer out to milk a few suckers? Do you even know she's a woman?

The obvious advice is to spend your money on a proDomme. Much more cost-effective. But I know fighting a fantasy can be hard. Serious suggestion: masturbate before sending any cash. You'll find it much easier to say no afterwards.



MistressEsmeUK -> RE: Hooked on financial slavery (8/28/2011 7:05:02 AM)

If you want someone genuine and who is actually going to train you, I suggest you find someone who isn't going to do online or who is just into findom. Now that you have posted this, I think some will just see you as another sucker to take money from. I understand those who get off from meeting someone and handing them money but by the sounds of it you aren't even doing that.



MissToYouRedux -> RE: Hooked on financial slavery (8/28/2011 9:18:26 AM)


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ORIGINAL: paulmcuk

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I sort of get the notion of findom - handing over your cash on the say so of a woman is a very submissive act - but the buyers remorse is huge...

Serious suggestion: masturbate before sending any cash. You'll find it much easier to say no afterwards.



I'm betting this is a great practical suggestion! I'm sure there are other situations when a male "clearing his head" before proceeding would be helpful as well. [;)]



GreedyTop -> RE: Hooked on financial slavery (8/28/2011 9:23:21 AM)

I agree with Esme and Ms REdux

(Christina, I think the op would explain most responses... damn, chica, I HAVe missed you!!!)



stoni23 -> RE: Hooked on financial slavery (8/28/2011 9:43:36 AM)

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I would say that findoms by definition are mainly interested in the cash side. Hence the name. : )


I am currently under financial domination... been owned for two months and have given 0 dollars in tribute. She is not interested in taking my money, only controlling how I spend my money, and making sure that I pay my bills on time.

Findommes don't all just want your money, BUT the majority of the findommes on here really feel like scammers to me.

OP: STOP GIVING HER MONEY NOW!!!! OMG. Have you ever even seen her face? Talked on the phone with her? Come on man, be smart.



Daddysredhead -> RE: Hooked on financial slavery (8/28/2011 9:46:57 AM)

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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

I agree with Esme and Ms REdux


Me, too. 



chiaThePet -> RE: Hooked on financial slavery (8/28/2011 1:33:18 PM)


Silly boy, haven't you heard?

There's a new Domme Anthem.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qMxX-QOV9tI

chia* (the pet)



Domme4DumbAss -> RE: Hooked on financial slavery (8/28/2011 3:25:43 PM)

Here OP, check out my profile, 'k? I openly admit I'm fake, lie about everything and might not even be female. There, easy peasy now send me your $$.



HannahLynHeather -> RE: Hooked on financial slavery (8/28/2011 3:40:06 PM)

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ORIGINAL: chiaThePet


Silly boy, haven't you heard?

There's a new Domme Anthem.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qMxX-QOV9tI

chia* (the pet)

i'm a traditional sort of girl. i prefer this anthem: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kHs-6xnMEdE



mummyman321 -> RE: Hooked on financial slavery (8/28/2011 4:17:36 PM)

I prefer Pink Floyd!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JkhX5W7JoWI



PeonForHer -> RE: Hooked on financial slavery (8/30/2011 2:54:52 PM)

Matt,

I could write reams, or I could write just a few words.  I'll go for the latter.

You do not get anywhere in the D/s life unless you get your kink under control.  I don't mean inhibit it, I mean learn to use it (in order the better to enjoy your life) rather than let it use you.



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Hooked on financial slavery (8/30/2011 3:25:56 PM)

You're so smart, Darling! (Insert swoony emo here)



PeonForHer -> RE: Hooked on financial slavery (8/30/2011 3:53:54 PM)

I know, hon, I know. [:)]

You know, if I don't dye my hair, I get silvery bits above my ears? I look facken distinguished, even if I say it myself.



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Hooked on financial slavery (8/30/2011 4:34:37 PM)

You have been described to me as "distinguished". ~nods sagely~



Adorah -> RE: Hooked on financial slavery (9/4/2011 2:59:18 AM)

You have heard of 'hard limits'?

Well hard limits can include more than things that gross you out or make you uncomfortable. It can include things you need to do to protect yourself.
You need to say to yourself '10% of what I have is my hard limit.'
Or, "I cannot play with findoms unless I have xxx in the bank".

Whatever. Just set yourself a limit so that you don't end up on the street.
People do that all the time. subs who like to be in cages may have a hard limit saying 'I gotta be out of here in time to go to work". There is nothing wrong with protecting your life.

Explain that to any Domme you meet so that things are clear from the get-go.

In the meantime, please start looking for actual foot worship satisfaction elsewhere. I bet if you find the real thing you'll snap out of this 'enchantment'.

A.






originalsin -> RE: Hooked on financial slavery (9/5/2011 6:04:15 AM)

The majority of women on this site are merely low grade extortionists. They have no interest in the lifestyle and the only reason they are here is they somehow caught wind that you can make money off of fools who will hand it away without actually getting any service in return. My advice to you would be to never hand out any $$ before you meet and even then make sure that you receive the service you requested. As much as people may scream and screech to the countrary, the exchange of cash changes the dynamic from casual play to client/customer and the expectations change accordingly.



xxblushesxx -> RE: Hooked on financial slavery (9/5/2011 6:09:09 AM)

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ORIGINAL: originalsin

The majority of women on this site are merely low grade extortionists. They have no interest in the lifestyle and the only reason they are here is they somehow caught wind that you can make money off of fools who will hand it away without actually getting any service in return. My advice to you would be to never hand out any $$ before you meet and even then make sure that you receive the service you requested. As much as people may scream and screech to the countrary, the exchange of cash changes the dynamic from casual play to client/customer and the expectations change accordingly.


You know the majority of women on this site? You have spoken to them and seen into their hearts and minds?

I'm sure your first post will be enough to guarantee that any decent women who may have been interested in you will change their minds quickly enough.

Welcome to the forums.



Epytropos -> RE: Hooked on financial slavery (9/5/2011 6:11:44 AM)

I resent that! Some of us are men pretending to be women thank you very much.

Btw did anyone else get reminded of the hooked on phonics commercials they used to have for that program that taught kids how to read when they saw this thread title, or is that the sleep deprivation talking?



TigerBack -> RE: Hooked on financial slavery (9/6/2011 10:51:33 PM)

Matt you are giving this so call Dom your money and it seem that you are getting no where, if you are so keen to do foot worship why dont you go to a pro Dom and tell her what you want, at least you will then get what you are paying for.
It a scam if you want financial slavery get married.



roscho -> RE: Hooked on financial slavery (9/15/2011 6:49:27 PM)

I can understand the "carrot" principle for the sub, I guess all of the findomme adverts that I've seen just drip with insincerity.  These people don't look to be in the culture any more than "Jersey Shore" belongs in the moviestar culture.  The Jersey Shore genre is simply using the culture.  Findomme's seem to just be using the BDSM culture.



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