crazyml
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Matt - just in case you missed it, read this [ED to add... By "this" I mean Lance's post by the way!]. If you didn't miss it, it's worth reading a second time in any case...
If you're looking for an opportunity to meet local kinksters, you could start here -
Check out - http://www.eabdsm.co.uk/norwich.php
and
http://www.norwichfetish.co.uk/munch.htm
Or simply google "Norwich Munch"...
I would say, though, that I've not been to Norwich munches, but no harm in starting there.
As to the "being hooked" thing...
If you find that you feel compelled to spend money that you cannot afford, if you find yourself getting into debt, or putting your ability to pay your rent at risk then please take some action. If the compulsion you feel is so strong that you cannot overcome it, then seek help via your GP.
If you can afford it, and you enjoy it, then go for it.
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ORIGINAL: LanceHughes
matt:
Your profile tells us:
Just a genuine guy looking to find a genuine dominant female. it seems very hard to find anyone genuine in here. but if you are then please contact me and i would happily love to chat to you and tell you all you need to know about me.
And you correctly (in your OP) state: "pretty much 98 percent of domme females i talk to on here want to only have you as a money slave. "
Do you see the disconnect? You want to find a "genuine" dominant female, but I'll wager that the "shopping" is done on-line. I'll wager that she isn't EVER available for that foot-worship. My point is that this FinDom is not genuine - probably not even a female.
You have FALLEN into a TRAP! Now, how to get out of it? You have become addicted to the feeling of "so under control." That is a fetish.... you can't be sexually satisfied without that sense.
You (twice) ask for recommendations...... If you had posted before this all happened, asking how to find a "genuine" woman to dominate you, I assure you the recommendation wouls have been to get to a munch. Not knowing Norwich, I'm going to direct peonForHer to this string and get him involved.... maybe that good lad will contact you in CMail. DO WHAT HE SAYS!
The easiest and quickest solution is spend the 50 on getting to meet real people. "She" will be pissed, make a demand, and tell you what a loser you are. Meanwhile, you will be expanding your circle of friends and acquaitenses to include folks you can actually SEE and HEAR. And guess what? You will NEVER hear from her again! ! ! !
Yes, the sense of loss of control is heady and addictive. NO DOUBT. But look at the direction this path takes you..... Most financial bottoms end up "ruined." Actually, I think they all do. And the worst part of that is that once ruined, the Dom DISAPPEARS to suck the blood of the next victim. They kill the goose that lays the golden egg since they KNOW there is always another goose to be had.
It is a GAME!
There is nothing in it for you except that sense of loss of control.
You say you've lost the will to resist, but yet you want help in overcoming these desires..... OOPS! Nobody can help you there, now can they?
I'll make you this offer. Send ME the 50 and I'll return it once you see how "she" reacts to the fact that you "had to send the 50 to my friend in America, Mistress. He had a car accident and he didn't have insurance."
When you see what the reaction is, you'll see just what a game is being played.
HEY! I just thought of something that PROVES "she" is a gamester. Why the 50? Why not just "Take me shopping, and I'll let you worship my feet?" "She" is trying to make sure you are .... what idiom to use that our British friend will understand?.... in America "set the hook." peon will translate by understanding the situation and giving you what for! LOL!
Hope this long message helps.
Do NOT send her the 50 and see what happens!
Regards, Lance (who is really trying to figure how this finacial dominance thing can work in the gay BDSM world. LOL!)
< Message edited by crazyml -- 9/16/2011 2:44:25 AM >
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