Madame4a
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Joined: 2/4/2008 From: Washington, DC area Status: offline
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HOw about meeting her for coffee first and seeing if either one of you even like each other? And then sending her back home for continual meetings over a course of time to get to know each other. Nothin like moving in before you even meet I guess though. You know, not every Dom or Sub has the money or time to be flitting about on visits, and, if you've spent several months in an online relationship with the person, where you already knew it was leading up to meeting in person and having a testing period, then the face to face meeting is not the first time you met, and, you certainly know, by then, if you like the person. The week or two of spending time together is to help you understand if that person you like is also a person you are compatible with, in real time. If the sub is going to be taking the chance on moving their entire life, pretty much, especially, something more intense than coffee is called for, by way of an initial meeting, unless they are local. Though, not so much for the kind of slave I am interested in, since "like" really isn't the point. lol uhmm.. to the bold part... HUH? what? are you crazy? and perhaps there isn't money for many meetings.. but I'm going to guess there is less money for moving right back home a month later because the two people are incompatible... and to the OP ... do both of you a favor... slow the fuck down
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