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Premature Ejaculation ?? - 9/7/2011 12:18:26 PM   
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I have this problem, & I dont fell shamed or imparesed about it,
the thing is I relly can not be in th (15 minutes zone)
I am way less than 15 minutes, & I have uesd lidocaine spry from 0.01 % to 6.50 % & dont work at all.

My doctor did tell me to amsterbate an hour before sex, & yet did not work.
I want to know what useful method you did try,
PS: 50% of the males on the planet have this problem, If you are shy dont be on my Cmail.

Thanks

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RE: Premature Ejaculation ?? - 9/7/2011 12:20:02 PM   
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I tend to have the opposite problem.

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RE: Premature Ejaculation ?? - 9/7/2011 12:25:15 PM   
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lol Hillwilliam

I tryed to use 2 condoms with a thin layer of toilet paper, its good methoud but not sexy thig to do

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RE: Premature Ejaculation ?? - 9/7/2011 1:32:52 PM   
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Oh my goodness, I WISH my husband would have that problem.  I don't mind long sessions, but a "quickie" shouldn't be an hour+ long!

At this point I think it just changes with age.  My guy used to be a "quick draw"when we first started dating, but once he hit 35 or so it all changed and now I am lucky to cut down a sex session to 2 hours and at that point I get a little tired of it.  Unfortunately, that means I try to avoid having sex, which helps neither of us, but that's all that can be done at this point, I just don't have time for hours long sex sessions, not with a special needs preschooler, 2 jobs (one full-time, one part-time) and a house that need my attention!



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RE: Premature Ejaculation ?? - 9/7/2011 4:36:00 PM   
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I had a friend that this was an issue for and he managed his with tantric sex techniques.

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RE: Premature Ejaculation ?? - 9/7/2011 7:47:40 PM   
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siamsa24:.dont wish that, I dont whish it to on anyone.

angelikaJ: thanks I will look into it


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RE: Premature Ejaculation ?? - 9/7/2011 8:47:54 PM   
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use an ointment instead of a spray. liquids tend to evaporate before they can do anesthetize the tissue. an ointment will provide longer contact time with the skin and will be absorbed rather than evaporate. the glans penis tends to have a keratinized layer (especially in circumcised men) which makes penetration of topical anesthetics a longer process.

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RE: Premature Ejaculation ?? - 9/8/2011 1:06:03 AM   
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Your looking at this all wrong. OK first you have some options.
You can tie a rubber band around your nuts (shave first to save yourself hair pain when removing.)
Pre ejac is only a bad thing if your partner is left in the cold. Get her off once or twice. Tongue, dildo, whip, flogger, whatever shes into.

Another option is behavior modification therapy. Are you nutting to fast orally, vaganilly, anally? So were working in a 15 min window. what are you doing in that 15 min. One position? Is a certain position a trigger? Is there something your partner is doing that is a trigger? How many strokes are you getting pre nut. Are you able to feel yourself "welling" up?
With out more info there any number of reason.

But I had this issue as well. And I decided i wanted to be a multiple ejaculator. And now with some work, i can have up to 4 orgasm in a couple of hours. Takes time. Add some info may be able to help further.


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RE: Premature Ejaculation ?? - 9/9/2011 8:48:57 AM   
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Get a book called "ESO: Extended Sexual Orgasm" by Bauer - they teach you how to control it.

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RE: Premature Ejaculation ?? - 9/10/2011 7:52:54 AM   
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Morning everybody,
Yesterday I have got throu the 15 minutes, thanks to the (Female Orgasm Black Book) & the bottle I got from my dear friend the Dentist,
he gave me that half empty bottole, to try it (lidocaine spry 10%) that used before bulling out a tooth.

& I did try it, I was one of the guys in the porn industry ,
Ladies & Gents I was on fire... 52 minutes of good old fashion .....LOVE.
when I called him in the morning, told him what happend, he said how many did you apply..? 1-2 ML .... why?
he did ask me did you were able to finish...( in surprise) ?... Oh yes after 52 minutes.
he did reply: dear God, I apply only one spray push to an infected tooth, & the big guy got no pain for 2.5-3 hours.
Ok will keep that in mind

about the book,
Its a good one talking about, giving (her) 3 orgasms (or more) before you can recive one to your own,
( & how good It was Making her Brag about how great you are in the sack between her friends)...... Damn.

anybody who want to read this book..just.. cmail me

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RE: Premature Ejaculation ?? - 9/21/2011 4:51:20 PM   
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My honey pie will come in about 5-10 minutes when he's on top of me, but can literally go an hour with me riding him, and riding is fortunatly a posistion that's fairly ok with me and my slipped disk and pinched nerve issue.

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