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new to the site - 9/11/2011 8:21:02 PM

ssgsarge

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I am a 27 year old dom, who broke away from it a few yrs ago. I am now getting back into it. Right now I am looking for information and ways to be a better dom. To win back my only sub(also wife) I've had.

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RE: new to the site - 9/11/2011 9:59:45 PM

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Welcome to CM and the boards. Good luck with that.

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RE: new to the site - 9/11/2011 11:12:46 PM

M4S73R

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Welcome to CM

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We often refuse to accept an idea merely because the tone of voice in which it has been expressed is unsympathetic to us.
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RE: new to the site - 9/12/2011 12:45:46 AM

Endivius

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Welcome to CM. Here is some generic advice that may be of some value to you :

Read the forums, all of them. http://www.collarchat.com/m_1726118/tm.htm this is a list of reading material to get you started. Keep in mind anything you read is not a "one true way" and many of the authors will differ in thier views, but reading is no substitute for real life.

Get to some munches. Munches are just vanilla meetings in the ordinary world with like minded people to get to know the people in your area, and learn from thier experience. There is no kinky games, special protocol, or playing done at munches (generally). To find a munch, start by looking http://www.collarchat.com/forumid_17/tt.htm. If you cannot find anything there, google your city, state/province, and the word MUNCH. If you still cannot find anything, head over to fetlife.com and make an account, there are lots of events listed there as well.

Rebuilding a relationship isnt done by exploring new ways to be kinky. It requires being able to recreate that trust and chemistry you had before it all fell apart. Good Luck.

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RE: new to the site - 9/12/2011 6:17:32 AM

OohAahMrs

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Hey man, let her go, move on, maybe she'll come back of her own free will!

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