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ORIGINAL: ashjor911

CynthiaWVirginia, I hope you are ok by now, feeling good, please keep us posted,
Sorry I can not help,
but, I will put you into my prayers,

Thank you, ashjor911. I appreciate your support anyway, I can feel it from here in WV. Even though you do not have any possible solutions, help from God is always a blessing, so thanks for the prayers.

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

Wrong type of doctor. You would think an ob/gyn would be the person to go to for female sexual dysfunction. Not so. You need a urologist who specializes in female difficulties. The ones knowledgeable in female sexuality are a small minority of a small minority of physicians. Most urologists who specialize in treating women only treat pelvic floor problems as a result of pregnancy (incontinence). I'm not sure where the nearest teaching hospital to you is, but that's where I would start looking myself.

YESSSSS! Thank you! I asked my sub and he says he knows of a teaching hospital an hour or so away. I will have him phone and find out if they have a urologist who specializes in female problems.

Several years back I goofed up my G-spot as well. My ex-husband had phoned and had read some world record or something about female multiple orgasms and his mind was blown, lol. He dared me to try to beat that record and weeks later my curiosity got to me and I tried. Had to stop using my vibe on my clit after 47 orgasms in about an hour because my blood sugar got too low. I couldn't twitch a finger or move off the bed even if the house caught on fire. There were some nasty consequences from this, some temporary and one seems to be permanent. Temporary problems included vicious cramps every time I tightened my tummy for any reason, like...getting out of bed or bending down to put on my sox...and this went on for several days to a week. Another problem that has improved over time is peeing. For the fist two months it was very difficult to pee, this was so surprising and I think I could not get it all out each time because I kept getting bladder infections. A consequence that took two years to go away was nasty pinching somewhere in my female parts, I don't know where, that happened with each orgasm, every blessed time, that killed my enjoyment. All of these problems are gone now, except for that pesky G-spot problem, where I am always uncomfortable, especially after 3-8 orgasms (I never go for just one). I feel a swelling in the upper wall of my vagina and it burns and hurts. Yes, I told the gyn all of this and he still said I was fine. Aargh!

Yes, all the male doctors were intensely stuck on the fact that I had had 47 orgasms in a row, moreso than focused on any problem that arose from this.

At home, I am experiencing a little bit of incontinence...sometimes these boards are so funny I laugh until I...um...wet my pants a little bit. I thought this was just hormones, as I am 47 and have had chemos several times in the past that goofed up with the little remaining hormones I do have left. It is the strangest thing though...while I am with my sub for three days every week, it NEVER happens. Yeah, I'm glad it never happens here at his home, but it still puzzles me. I have also been dealing with what seems to be an allergy to some men's ejaculate over the years and yes, I am worried I will react to my sub's. We did find that Magnum makes an even larger size of condom, as he fit into the regular size of Magnum before his piercings. The larger size is needed because of a frenum ladder (five barbels long) and three other ladders...and I want him to keep his ladders unless we find it absolutely impossible. I just don't know for how long we be able to use those when the time comes, and worried for a while if I would have a latex allergy to this particular condom. I am getting on the pill for some backup, after arguing with my gyn about it. I am just not prepared to get knocked up at the age of 47, and am not willing to have another surgery if I can avoid it, as I have had enough with all the cancer surgeries over the years to last a lifetime. Next year is soon enough for my boy to get a vasectomy.

Thank you for offering me a way to find myself a doctor who cares and knows enough to help me with this.

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ORIGINAL: MistressDarkArt

CWV-
If lack of lubrication is the problem, you might want to try a silicone-based type. The water-based lubes you've tried contain either propylene glycol or glycerin, both of which can cause irritation.

I'm a cosmetic crafter. When I had a hysterectomy 3 years ago I had problems such as you describe. I didn't like anything commercially available so formulated a silicone based lube for myself (and anyone else who liked it), field tested it with 200 people in all kinds of applications and got my Gyn's endorsement. It is completely inert, fragrance- and preservative-free, nonallergenic, super long lasting, waterproof and can easily be removed with soap and water. It can be used anywhere on or in the body (except eyes). It's also nifty as a hair detangler/conditioner/shine-enhancer and makes a great massage base that slides without being oily. A few drops added to your favorite lotion will make the driest skin silky smooth.

I would be happy to send you some to try. If you're interested pm me on the other side and we can figure out how best to get it to you.

If lack of lubrication isn't actually the problem, it could be something internal like fibroids if you still have your uterus or in my case there was a misdiagnosed hemorrhagic cyst in the muscle wall of my pelvis. See a professional. There are also physical therapists who specialize in pelvic pain. I can vouch for their effectiveness...the PT who helped me after the hysterectomy provided relief no one else could.

To your good health!

I am very interested in anything that will help, and yes about the silicone lube. I will contact you on the other side after I am back home.

My boy is also having problems, lube wise, when I dig out the latex gloves. Could not use the non-latex gloves as it hurt more. I used all three of those lubes I mentioned earlier on his bottom for anal play, even used Crisco once which worked a bit better than those other lubes. We are ready to try for something else. I cannot get over both of us having these painful and annoying sensitivities. I was used to enjoying an hour or so of fingering and prostate massage, and have had to limit myself to something like five or ten minutes. Last night with that lube for sensitive skin, it worked a little better...but after his verrrrry long orgasm his butt was way too sensitive for my fingers to stay inside, even when I held them still. Yeah, aaargh!

Thank you for looking into making better lubes, some of us really appreciate it.

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ORIGINAL: CynthiaWVirginia

Thank you, ashjor911. I appreciate your support anyway, I can feel it from here in WV. Even though you do not have any possible solutions, help from God is always a blessing, so thanks for the prayers.

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ORIGINAL: CynthiaWVirginia

Yes, all the male doctors were intensely stuck on the fact that I had had 47 orgasms in a row, moreso than focused on any problem that arose from this.

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

I want to know how you managed to count them. I get up to about four and then forget what number I'm on. And yeah, he's gone for me having record breaking multiples in the past. And yes, the cramps afterward are pretty common.

LOL, open a roll or two of pennies, put them in a shallow glass on the bed.  Before turning on the vibe again each time, toss a penny out.  After an orgasm, I have about thirty seconds where I am too sensitive to stand any stimulation and I turn the vibe off, so the "pay a penny to turn it back on" thing worked for me.  I had a towel next to me that nestled the penny glass and loose pennies. 

(I did not want to lose count and have to start counting all over again, starting with one.) 

How in the world did you manage it without messing up your G-spot?  For two long months afterward, I would have a bursting bladder and be sitting on that toilet for a good five minutes before I could begin to go pee, and then could not empty it all out.  Gah, I forgot...you had access to a man with either magic fingers or a magic...ah...wand. 

I have been wondering if sex will handle my G-spot problem. 

  I used to squirt enough to flood the bed and be accused of peeing all over it.  (It was NOT urine though.  Too slippery, not salty...and was sweet.)