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Doomkittie -> RE: self governance (10/2/2011 3:34:43 AM)
Am I right in thinking that if I am not a 24/7 slave or sub then according to you I am not really a sub and I am in some way degrading the lifestyle? I think by now I can get through the day with you thinking that, I can tell you I am very committed to *my lifestyle*, and it really has nothing to do with you or should really not be of any interest to you. Like yours is of no interest to me. There are so many aspects and interpretations of the lifestyle I really think your standing up and proclaiming yours as the one true way rather sad.

LillyBoPeep -> RE: self governance (10/2/2011 4:31:37 AM)
what a silly thread. if you need a list to find who is suitable and who isn't, you have no idea what you're doing.

fragilepieces -> RE: self governance (10/2/2011 6:37:18 AM)
As slaves how are do you feel about this degrading of the lifestyle and yourselves as slaves in general? It is does make me feel really pissed off. How dare anyone degrade this lifestyle or slave---especially in general. Are you willing to self police ? Absolutely---I have handcuffs. Would you be willing to set up a thread for reporting abuse in this manner to investigate and be a place where a Master could come and check to see if a slave is legit ? Well since it's against TOS; no, but if you set one up, I'll go put my name on it. [:)]

MasterSlaveLA -> RE: self governance (10/2/2011 12:04:23 PM)
1. I don't view the Power Dynamic as a "lifestyle". In fact, the word itself makes me want to puke. 2. Those looking for a "free ride" quickly find there is nothing "free" about it, and often get off the "ride" of their own accord, or are shoved out the door. 3. Your entire "self policing" rant is as stupid as stupid gets. Translation: You're not smart enough to determine who's "real" and who's not -- and need others to do what you're incapable of doing yourself.

whiteslavebitch -> RE: self governance (10/2/2011 12:48:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Cascadian There are many wonderful subs/slaves but we also have a very big problem with people who are not really in the life who try to exploit the lifestyle. I am talking about people looking for a free ride, with no real commitment to obedience, generally disgracing the sub/slave position and those that are committed to the lifestyle. As slaves how are do you feel about this degrading of the lifestyle and yourselves as slaves in general? Are you willing to self police ? Would you be willing to set up a thread for reporting abuse in this manner to investigate and be a place where a Master could come and check to see if a slave is legit ? http://www.collarchat.com/m_1163969/tm.htm

mysouldesire -> RE: self governance (10/2/2011 2:57:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Cascadian There are many wonderful subs/slaves but we also have a very big problem with people who are not really in the life who try to exploit the lifestyle. I am talking about people looking for a free ride, with no real commitment to obedience, generally disgracing the sub/slave position and those that are committed to the lifestyle. As slaves how are do you feel about this degrading of the lifestyle and yourselves as slaves in general? Are you willing to self police ? Would you be willing to set up a thread for reporting abuse in this manner to investigate and be a place where a Master could come and check to see if a slave is legit ? Whose place is it to judge another? well the ADMINISTRATORS occasionally have their say here. How does anyone gage committment to anything....by their own standards...so goes all back to why judge others?

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