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willowind -> Introduction (9/20/2011 3:17:58 AM)

For many years now I have wanted to be collared by a dominant woman. My last two long term relationships have covered twenty five years but neither of them really understood or even seemed to care much about what I wanted. I on the other hand did my best to give them what they wanted.
Now I am single again and have decided that rather than leave it to chance I will come onto some specific websites and try to find a Mistress who will train and chastise me as she sees fit. I like the Idea of teasing and denial and being put into a chastity device, but having never been there I have no idea of my limits. So I need someone to test and push my limits.
I would hope to find someone living in south east England.
Yours
Willowind

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ashjor911 -> RE: Introduction (9/20/2011 7:14:11 AM)

Welcome To CM




willowind -> RE: Introduction (9/20/2011 7:19:09 AM)

Thank you Ashjor911 I am pleased to be here. It looks like a good site.




BurntKitty -> RE: Introduction (9/20/2011 12:10:31 PM)

Welcome to CM.




ashjor911 -> RE: Introduction (9/20/2011 12:51:21 PM)

Enjoy your stay,
come .... relax.... have a beer [:D]




tiggerspoohbear -> RE: Introduction (9/20/2011 5:58:24 PM)

Welcome to CM and the boards.  And thanks for the image that'll be giving me nightmares!  Please, put some clothes on, we don't need a close-up of your piercing.  Honest we don't.

O, good luck btw.




willowind -> RE: Introduction (9/20/2011 6:07:04 PM)

Thanks tiggerspoohbear,

I thought the piercing was a good sign of a submissive male. So I posted it. I sort of had a nightmare when I got it done. I passed out and had to pick myself up of the floor of the piercing place. Just as well it wasn't a prince albert for both our sakes.




tiggerspoohbear -> RE: Introduction (9/20/2011 7:12:43 PM)

Nope, the Prince Albert would be against TOS.  




Djducati -> RE: Introduction (9/20/2011 11:50:04 PM)

Welcome to CM! Good luck!




Endivius -> RE: Introduction (9/21/2011 4:13:11 PM)

Welcome to CM. Here is some generic advice that may be of some value to you :

Read the forums, all of them. http://www.collarchat.com/m_1726118/tm.htm this is a list of reading material to get you started. Keep in mind anything you read is not a "one true way" and many of the authors will differ in thier views, but reading is no substitute for real life.

Get to some munches. Munches are just vanilla meetings in the ordinary world with like minded people to get to know the people in your area, and learn from thier experience. There is no kinky games, special protocol, or playing done at munches (generally). To find a munch, start by looking http://www.collarchat.com/forumid_17/tt.htm. If you cannot find anything there, google your city, state/province, and the word MUNCH. If you still cannot find anything, head over to fetlife.com and make an account, there are lots of events listed there as well.

Good Luck.





willowind -> RE: Introduction (9/21/2011 7:19:27 PM)

Thanks Endivius,

I have already done that and may well go to a munch on friday. Trouble is I don't finish work till an hour before it finishes. I don't know what sort of dress code is. I guess I can find out easy enough.

Thanks again for you assistance.





Endivius -> RE: Introduction (9/21/2011 7:22:58 PM)

casual dress, if the munch you have found is not to your likeing, you can allways go to a different one. There's not law that says you have to do x y z. Just go and attend one to get some perspective and meet some people. If you don't click with any of them move on. Good Luck.




OohAahMrs -> RE: Introduction (9/23/2011 6:32:45 AM)

Welcome will, hope it works out for you, you never know you may just get lucky!




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