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The One - 10/18/2004 11:51:15 AM

RiotGirl

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I'm not very good at sharing, but I would like to. So here's a try = )

I have been interested in the life for about 7 to 8 years. I have looked and looked for the "right" one. I have given up and left and come back and looked again. I have met wannabee's, fakes, subs posing as Doms, and just plain assholes. Oh and I met a few real ones too, just none right for me. Being very picky and after 8 years of looking, I new excatly what I wanted. I wasnt sure if I'd ever meet this Dom that I knew would be perfect *for me* At one time I thought he was a mythical and majikcal creation only residing in my fantasies. Eventually I decided to just look for a good one, not the perfect one, but one that'll do. I was getting oh so damn frustrated, among other things. (anyone heard of things come when you least expect it?) And one day, just one day as I was talking to the many supposed Doms I talk to, He IM's me. Just out of the blue that little IM box appearing. Being a skeptic, dealing with alot of jokers, and not actually looking for the one, i obviously didnt know it was Him knocking on my door.

He had found my profile on collarme. He is perfect and fabulous and fantastic and just down and out the best man I have ever met.. did i say wondeful and extrondairy, amaziong awesome and God's gift to the world? Of course those are just a few puny descriptive words that dont even come close to describing Him, but it gives you an idea!

My message to those who havent found there "one" yet. Keep looking, perserve, dont give up. Dont turn back keep traveling forward because there is a light at the end of the tunnel. If its possible for me, then its possible for you. Sometimes it may seem too long and it seems impossible, but the faster you walk it the faster you'll get there. If i can walk it (and turn back a few times) for 8 years until i found my first and most Perfect (perfect for me) Master, then you can do it too.

And after reading the guidlines, i guess it should be be said that I met him in person about a couple of months. Although it feels as if i've known him for ages.

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RE: The One - 10/20/2004 8:54:06 AM

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thats great to hear !!

Congrats on finding your one true Master, i wish you both the best in life.

Nice to know i still have hope *LOL*

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RE: The One - 10/20/2004 10:34:31 AM

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I am very hapy for you riotgirl. Hope it works out for long term.

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RE: The One - 10/21/2004 5:18:09 AM

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Congrats!
I too had almost given up, but I found the perfect sub here as well.
I wish you great luck in the future

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RE: The One - 10/21/2004 6:12:05 AM

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Congratulations on finding someone!!! I'm so happy for you.

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RE: The One - 10/21/2004 10:10:56 AM

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Congrats, I'm soooooo jealous.....

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RE: The One - 12/12/2004 6:47:17 PM

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Some search a life time without finding the true one. Best of luck to you both

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RE: The One - 12/23/2004 10:44:08 AM

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Congratulations and hope it all goes beautiful. I used to think the "one" was myth but Im convinced otherwise nowadays.

I think a lot of it involves knowing yourself and what you honestly want and need. Then separating want from need. Im not saying throw away your wants.

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RE: The One - 12/23/2004 8:29:12 PM

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Well it's good hear that this site is intorducing ppl and making good couples. I"ve been making friends but as far as a relationship I'm still out on the prowl.

Best of luck

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RE: The One - 1/2/2005 10:38:06 AM

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How very encouraging to hear such a great experience. maybe there is someone out there perfect for everyone. i wish you both lots of happiness together

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RE: The One - 1/3/2005 9:50:09 PM

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Dear Riotgirl,
I'm very happy for you, Congratulations! I love knowing that people are in love.
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RE: The One - 1/5/2005 6:09:42 PM

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