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HeatherMcLeather -> RE: "Good Boy" (9/28/2011 6:48:38 AM)
I like hearing "good girl", but I suppose at my age that's not really very surprising. [:)]

experiment2 -> RE: "Good Boy" (9/28/2011 7:43:18 AM)
i suspect the term "good boy" is used and accepted by many submissives is because it is somewhat condesending and implies the sub is under the control of the Domme and accepts its status. i can't speak for others, but it does define my position and responsibility to obey and follow the Dommes instructions as best able to. hearing a "good boy" implies i am behaving properly and pleasing my Domme as i should be. i don't get offended in the least.

myotherself -> RE: "Good Boy" (9/28/2011 8:30:52 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus See, bunny, that's what makes you happy to be subly! To me, unless it's very clearly jokey, "good girl" has me winding up a headpunch. I'd like to clarify a little - the 'good girl' thing can ONLY be said by the man I have accepted as my Dominant. Anyone else, unless it's said as a joke, is likely to wake up in the ER [:D]

LadyHibiscus -> RE: "Good Boy" (9/28/2011 8:42:10 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: myotherself quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus See, bunny, that's what makes you happy to be subly! To me, unless it's very clearly jokey, "good girl" has me winding up a headpunch. I'd like to clarify a little - the 'good girl' thing can ONLY be said by the man I have accepted as my Dominant. Anyone else, unless it's said as a joke, is likely to wake up in the ER [:D] Well yes, of course!! There is ONE person who gets a free pass on that, because he's my buddy, a Leatherman, and almost as old as my dad. He calls me "good girl", I go pinch his cheeks and kiss him and tell him how cute he is. It works. [:D]

myotherself -> RE: "Good Boy" (9/28/2011 12:17:31 PM)
I find the word "fluffy" has to be reserved for a select few Dominants. [:D] I tried it once with Master. Stoopid stoopid stoopid...sighs sadly

LadyHibiscus -> RE: "Good Boy" (9/28/2011 12:47:17 PM)
I confess that "fluffy" in combination with "service top" is not a good mix for me. Just saying.

myotherself -> RE: "Good Boy" (9/28/2011 1:11:32 PM)
makes note giggles

MissHalle -> RE: "Good Boy" (9/29/2011 3:36:20 AM)
All I can say is "good boy" is music to my ears :)

subrob1967 -> RE: "Good Boy" (9/29/2011 6:47:01 AM)
I've been "the boy" from day one, even though I'm 11 years older than Karen and 12 years older than Holly.

Genobee -> RE: "Good Boy" (10/6/2011 10:04:59 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus Gender superiority isn't terribly popular. Why would I want something inferior serving me? As I said, I'm not sure why it isn't as it's obvious to me why females are superior. x3 Obviously, one needs the right frame of mind in concordance with someone else for the relationship to work. This is true for all kinds of relationships though. :3 What works for one paring, might not work for another.

gowesty -> RE: "Good Boy" (10/6/2011 8:34:10 PM)
i just love hearing that phrase at the right time. It really helps establish who is dominant and who is the submissive, imho. thanks for asking!

MistressLilliana -> RE: "Good Boy" (10/6/2011 9:20:36 PM)
When I have one, I call them "My pet" but of course I do 24/7 slave/pet and not part time subs. If I call them by name then they know they've done wrong and might end up punished. Many times after some time together, just calling them by name is punishment enough.

mons -> RE: "Good Boy" (10/10/2011 9:01:00 PM)
if you say that a good boy it sound it is for a dog "that was very good, i am proud of you, you did a good jo:" something like that is okay

FriendlyMuppet -> RE: "Good Boy" (10/11/2011 6:12:05 PM)
A dominant girlfriend of mine used to call me "boy" all of the time, as in "good boy" and such. I never took it to feel like she was treating me as a lesser than her, and she never meant it that way either. For her, it was a token of friendship and respect. She didn't call other guys that but did so to me because I was special in her life. She still talks to me from time to time on the phone (we live far from each other these days), and she still calls me that, and it's always meant as friendly and respectful.

DesFIP -> RE: "Good Boy" (10/12/2011 7:37:23 AM)
And of course, for those of us in a paternalistic type of relationship, then being referred to in childlike terms is appropriate. It's called D/lg for a reason.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: "Good Boy" (10/12/2011 8:13:37 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DesFIP And of course, for those of us in a paternalistic type of relationship, then being referred to in childlike terms is appropriate. It's called D/lg for a reason. And Auntie doesn't go there [:)]

Suikerklontje -> RE: "Good Boy" (10/12/2011 2:41:17 PM)
If the right person says good boy, it sounds cute, and I like it. If the wrong person says it, it annoys me. Calling someone a good boy or girl is just a tease, for fun, and a cute way of fun but not everyone can make fun of me so it really depends on who I am with. Naming someone just girl or boy is not a crime if you ask me? When in a relation my girl might be my dominant.. but she is still my girl too.. just.. feels right, I guess o.o?

seekingOwnertoo -> RE: "Good Boy" (10/12/2011 10:10:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus Insomnia, I has it. So I was thinking yesterday about the things we say to each other, and how differently wired my female submissive friends are from me. Likely True! You are Unique! Things get them wet that make me... well, you wouldn't like me when I'm angry. I say "good boy" a lot. Why? Because my parrot LOVES it. He responds much better to it than "good brrrdie", though I say that too. Never ever have I said "good boy" to an adult male. i believe, this ... I offer lots of praise and thank you when it's merited, I am big on acknowledgement and appreciation. Indeed You do .. You are always thoughtful and considerate. I am also very deeply rooted in the notion that I am an adult that works with other adults, and while the other adults might be serving me, they are not "lesser", and not to be patronized or condescended to (unless it's a scene thing, and temporary). What do you mens think? Do you groove on the "good boy"? I think .. mens think ... well with our head! LOL Truthfully, i myself groove on a bright, intelligent Lady. One whom is educated, classy, outgoing, intelligent .. and sometimes enjoys man things, like hockey games ... LOL Or the new in thing around here ... NFL Games .... [;)] That said, LH ... You are a great Lady .. no one could ever say otherwise! A man can look far and wide, and never find a better Lady than You! But i suspect, You are really asking about love, too ... and that one ... i can't answer ... it just is what it is ... [;)] ... when ever it happens ... Do i groove on being called a good boy? Well i guess it depends on who is doing the calling, as well as the time and place ....... just like that love thingy i mentioned earlier ... So clearly, i have no clue! [:D]

LadyHibiscus -> RE: "Good Boy" (10/13/2011 6:12:16 AM)
~parade wave to Seeking!~

sissyslave2serve -> RE: "Good Boy" (10/14/2011 8:50:25 AM)
Being told that I'm a Good boy/girl is my ultimate reward :)

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