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RE: Beginners advice of long term use of Buttplugs - 1/16/2012 6:20:52 PM

Soyokaze

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Lock?

I'm not sure what you're talking about, I would say that he shouldn't leave you unattended wearing anything that you can't remove from your own ass.

I think I've seen what he's talking about. Basically this: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Choke_pear_(torture) but made to be more comfortable and with a locking mechanism. I'd be worried about being unattended too. If you had cramps with something like that in I could see it doing a lot of damage on the way out.

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RE: Beginners advice of long term use of Buttplugs - 8/10/2012 1:38:30 AM

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hope you like wearing diapers. Long term butt plug usage = diapers when you're older. Sometimes what's fun and exciting in the NOW is not necessarily good for your BODY.
You're stretching muscles and keeping them stretched for long periods of time. As you age, those muscles like anything else will stop going back to their original form.

I must admit that this is somewhart true in regards to continuous wear (i.e. removing only when necessary for biological functioning), and can speak from personal experience. Mistress Taryn keeps me permanently plugged. I've been required to wear a butt plug harness 24/7 for the last three years. On the rare occasions in which I'm unplugged for longer than 10-15 minutes at a time, I have not had any leakage issues to date and my anus still does its job although credit is due to a few precautions:
-Mistress has me wear a medium-sized silicone plug most of the time and a vented comfy plug while at work. She occasionally replaces my medium plug with a large (and unvented one) for disciplinary reasons, but my punishment plug is usually only inserted for a day or so at most. Wearing a smaller plug that allows my sphincter to close almost all of the way has definitely been helpful.
-KEGELS! It is important for long-term butt plug wearers to keep the muscles in that region exercised on a regular basis. I am essentially always doing kegels periodically throughout the day
-Lube, lube, and more lube: there really isn't such a thing as too much lube! (At least if you've got a means of ensuring your plug will not slip out, i.e. snug fitting harness) If you're going to be having an object invading your anal cavity for long periods of time then it goes without saying that you wanna keep that part of the body happy and comfortable.

Anyway... wouldn't recommend 24/7 wear for just anyone as it is very true that you may end up needing diapers no matter how many preventative steps one may take. While I was a little hesistant in the beginning, my body has gotten very used to having a plug inserted that I feel empty without one. Mistress Taryn decided that I am to remain plugged forever as a permanent reminder of Her ownership of me

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RE: Beginners advice of long term use of Buttplugs - 8/12/2012 4:55:41 PM

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Basically this: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Choke_pear_(torture) but made to be more comfortable and with a locking mechanism.

Very cool device! I would never use it for unattended wear but now I totally want one as a fun torture device! Thanks for the info!!!

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RE: Beginners advice of long term use of Buttplugs - 8/12/2012 5:23:58 PM

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To each his own .But I thought the collar was suppose to be the symbol of ownership.

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RE: Beginners advice of long term use of Buttplugs - 8/12/2012 6:01:14 PM

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Here is an actual locking butt plug. http://www.meo.de/catalog/product_info.php?products_id=8748 It is similar to the pear that is refernced above in a wikipedia link. But this one is not designed to do damage. Unless of course you decide to lock it in your slave's ass and leave them alone wearing it when they need to eliminate. It is amazing what the sphincter muscles can handle, but "blow out" is a definite possibility.

As to the original question about long term wear. Get a copy of Anal Pleasure and Health by Jack Morin, PH.D. You can easily find it on Amazon for a reasonable price. And as I recall, it is available in Kindle format too.

And I agree, the Collar is the symbol of ownership.

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RE: Beginners advice of long term use of Buttplugs - 8/13/2012 8:42:39 PM

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Something I would like to say is that I have actually done the whole long term but plug thing. I also happen to know alot about the human anatomy. Here is what I would like to say. Although wearing long term is a great way to stretch out the muscles down there..... its just that stretching. When you stretch your biceps do you think they stay stretched forever? If that where the case I wouldn't be able to bend my arm all the way back up when it flexes. The point being is that it makes the muscle more flexible not perma-bigger. When you take out the but plug, after a few hours you anus muscles will return to the proper placement.... but now it doesn't hurt as much when you place something back in. So yes it is safe and no you wont be needing diapers. I wish I still had the links but there are M.D. Documentation out there on the internet about medical studies done dealing with long term effects of anal dilation.

Just be for warned, it does take a couple hours for the anal muscles to constrict back to proper portions so stay close to a toilet for an hr our two after removing it if your in the larger sizes.

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RE: Beginners advice of long term use of Buttplugs - 1/18/2013 4:11:13 PM

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First of all, the consensus of the medical profession (yes, the information CAN be found online) is that there is "no proof that wearing a butt plug for extended periods of time will lead to the necessity for diapers over time."
So hopefully that question has now been put to rest once and for all!!

HOWEVER...

It is NOT advised that people wear them for extended periods of time...like THREE YEARS or a LIFETIME!!
Ten to twelve hours is ok, however 24 hours is highly NOT recommended as it can cause internal problems you will not be aware of.

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ORIGINAL: stoni23
hope you like wearing diapers. Long term butt plug usage = diapers when you're older. Sometimes what's fun and exciting in the NOW is not necessarily good for your BODY.
You're stretching muscles and keeping them stretched for long periods of time. As you age, those muscles like anything else will stop going back to their original form.

I must admit that this is somewhart true in regards to continuous wear (i.e. removing only when necessary for biological functioning), and can speak from personal experience. Mistress Taryn keeps me permanently plugged. I've been required to wear a butt plug harness 24/7 for the last three years. On the rare occasions in which I'm unplugged for longer than 10-15 minutes at a time, I have not had any leakage issues to date and my anus still does its job although credit is due to a few precautions:
-Mistress has me wear a medium-sized silicone plug most of the time and a vented comfy plug while at work. She occasionally replaces my medium plug with a large (and unvented one) for disciplinary reasons, but my punishment plug is usually only inserted for a day or so at most. Wearing a smaller plug that allows my sphincter to close almost all of the way has definitely been helpful.
-KEGELS! It is important for long-term butt plug wearers to keep the muscles in that region exercised on a regular basis. I am essentially always doing kegels periodically throughout the day
-Lube, lube, and more lube: there really isn't such a thing as too much lube! (At least if you've got a means of ensuring your plug will not slip out, i.e. snug fitting harness) If you're going to be having an object invading your anal cavity for long periods of time then it goes without saying that you wanna keep that part of the body happy and comfortable.

Anyway... wouldn't recommend 24/7 wear for just anyone as it is very true that you may end up needing diapers no matter how many preventative steps one may take. While I was a little hesistant in the beginning, my body has gotten very used to having a plug inserted that I feel empty without one. Mistress Taryn decided that I am to remain plugged forever as a permanent reminder of Her ownership of me

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RE: Beginners advice of long term use of Buttplugs - 1/18/2013 4:13:40 PM

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I cannot remotely fathom someone wearing a butt plug for three years....little alone a lifetime!
It goes beyond any kind of reasoning.

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To each his own .But I thought the collar was suppose to be the symbol of ownership.

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RE: Beginners advice of long term use of Buttplugs - 1/5/2014 10:12:56 PM

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I actually own a locking butt plug..it's extremely hard to actually lock it though..even with a second person. But it's no more uncomfortable than a regular plug.

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RE: Beginners advice of long term use of Buttplugs - 1/9/2014 9:29:33 AM

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since we are on the subject I cant keep my plug in no matter what size I use as soon as I get it in and let go of it it pops out ,is there a trick to getting them to stay in???I even had a inflatable one ad it would come out even when umped up

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RE: Beginners advice of long term use of Buttplugs - 1/9/2014 3:37:24 PM

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They should just stay in by themselves..some plugs come out but ones like the world's most comfortable butt plug http://www.mr-s-leather.com/D259/world-s-most-comfortable-butt-plug.html should stay in easily..

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RE: Beginners advice of long term use of Buttplugs - 1/18/2014 7:07:44 AM

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Houdini asked "Anyone have any experience with those plugs that lock in the butt? A prospective MASTER told it, he would like his slave to be locked in one as long as possible every day. "

I have purchased and worn one , it is comfortable.
If you were to wear it long term then, my guess is you would ALWAYS need to be standing or lying on your stomach.
You see the "handle" protruding outside of the but is quite cumbersome.
If you were to sit down it would certainly knock you and probably push the device ( handle included) further up your hole. i imagine if you sat down abruptly , it may well cause you damage.
i imagine it is useful if a Dom were sending his subject out alone to a bar , swingers party , sex club etc... and want the sub to remain chastised. The subject would be standing.
If however the sub needed to sit in a car , bus , restaurant etc... i can't see it working to be honest.

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