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amoretta -> RE: Angelina Jolie looking for a Dom (8/5/2006 11:39:29 AM)
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ORIGINAL: Mercnbeth
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not one person mentioned that they'd like to submit to her or dominate her because they liked who she was (not that they'd know) or because they were *interested* in learning who she was, but just because she was hot or famous (seemed implied to me) or both
interesting perspective, ShadeDiva. how many of us feel any sort of compassion for the "beautiful" ones? it has been this slave's experience that women are the worst about this. they assume that if one is "beautiful" on the outside, they have more opportunities---not so true---they have to weed through the creeps who are only interested in looking at them, not who or what they are where it really counts= on the inside.
this slave believes the ones who really have the advantage are the ones who are not considered beautiful by society's standards----they don't have to wonder if someone is only interested in them for their physical appearance, regardless of what they say. as far as Ms. Jolie is concerned, she chose to market her looks for $$$$$ and fame, it is no suprise that folks respond to that and this slave is sure that her bank accounts reflect it. don't feel too sorry for her, she got what she bargained for.
Thank you.. thank you thank you thank you.
First of all yes.. her prior relationship with Billy Bob Thorton always seemed kinky to me.. the blood necklaces and all? Uh huh and yay! :)
But yes, I am not trying to be pompous here.. really truly.. I am not gorgeous but I do believe I am attractive (why do I even feel guilty for saying that?) and was even more so when I was 18 and entering the local public community and it is actually very very hard. Mostly I would get 40+ old men who wanted me to be their little girl fantasy slave, trophy prize, or something else along these lines. It was automatically assumed that I was not smart, of real quality or worth being treated with respect. People wanted constantly to pigon hole me and not pay attention to anything beneath the surface.. while it seemed the men of quality that were single would think I am too high maintainance because of the attention and go for the more accessible girls. I am very happy for those girls, really I am.. I am not saying how dare they.. I just kinda got sick of the whole the pretty girl doesn't get asked to dance by the good ones issue... Hell I have some friends that won't go to many events because they possess beauty, money, notariety etc. and are fondled, groped, and otherwise mobbed and people assume they must like it and have a right to it because it pleases the groper..
I also notice that the slaves I know who are financially successful are approached often.. very often.. by doms who are not so financially secure. This makes it hard for them on similar issues.. are they really wanted for them or for the financial happiness they would bring an owner? This is true in and out of lifestyle, but it is a sad reality..
Is there a solution beyond those who are pretty/well off/etc. to be aware?
I think I will probably regret even posting this but I feel the need to see myself speak apparently.. perhaps for the sake of all the other attractive women and men out there that wade through muck. (Not saying those who are not pinup girls and boys don't have to wade through muck.. many do.. I really am not trying to sound self indulgent here..)
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