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N73VDK -> How to get there ... (10/11/2011 12:49:44 AM)

Okay, I know chances are this has been asked before, and I'm being lame by asking, but either way here goes...

I've always thought myself submissive, I mean, I have always enjoyed and fantasized a lot with roles as a puppyboy in RP and collaborative writing.. However, I have never not once had the chance to go try it out in real life, that is why I can't write me being certain, despite how convinced I am in my mind.

The question is the following,

How on Earth do I get to meet people IRL and try it out? I am currently 23, single, in Madrid.. The situation is the following, I have been unemployed for over 2 years (due to the economy crisis, oover 45% unnemployment here for under 25's) So I have literally no money to travel, and even tho going to a professional Dom is clearly way out of bounds for me, it still isn't an option as I have no money...

I am also rather shy and introverted, I hardly go out or meet with people lately due to both my economy (or lack of thereof) and the fact I find it very hard around large groups of people...


What would you do? Have any experiences you could tell that could help me? Please, I'd greatly appreciate it, thanks in advance. :)




DarkSteven -> RE: How to get there ... (10/11/2011 4:58:51 AM)

I'm still kinda gobsmacked by that over 45% unemployment.  Here in the US, they'd be rioting every day.

Anyhow, Google.  Try "BDSM Madrid" for a start.  Try to find local groups and munches.

Suerte!




LillyBoPeep -> RE: How to get there ... (10/11/2011 6:19:13 AM)

munches are a good option because they don't require an entrance fee. the only money you need is for food or drinks, and they aren't required. you can just come and hang out with others. so definitely look for munches. also, try fetlife -- i think fetlife is a little more international that collarme, and you can find groups specifically oriented to your location. just searching "spain" on FL brought up 10 groups (they dont have the highest membership, but still, they exist) and 5560 people.




SimplyMichael -> RE: How to get there ... (10/11/2011 7:33:45 AM)

If you look for groups and dont find ones start.one both on fetlife and at home.

Remember good sex is.free




SoulAlloy -> RE: How to get there ... (10/11/2011 10:19:10 AM)

Look up the MALL on fetlife (Munch and local link directory) - has munches all over the world listed on it.




N73VDK -> RE: How to get there ... (10/12/2011 1:42:32 AM)

Thank you so much for your prompt replies, I'm checking out FetLife now, and will see how it goes, searching in Google too.

And yeah DarkSteven, it sucks right now... And it's only getting worse... We did have a few riots tho, of which I did take part hehe, but yeah... No changes so far.




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