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RE: ♥submission is giving him the POWER to destroy yo... - 10/15/2011 12:23:30 PM

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I'd be terrible at explaining it except to say it's when a new sub is very excited about the idea of submission and wants to do everything and anything...NOW! *lol*

A search here on the boards will give you a lot more wisdom on the subject.

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RE: ♥submission is giving him the POWER to destroy yo... - 10/15/2011 12:39:12 PM

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@Christina ... ah yes I understand.. completely... Submission as been there ever since I can remember despite all of the bad sexual experiences I've had.. I have extrem limits and I've very picky.. The words in my statement that stand out to me is "trust him not to" not the destroying aspect.. the destroying statement to me is not destroying but to "give him the power" to keep me safe.. I'm sure that makes no sense at all.. I tend to look at things under a different light and sometimes it gets me into trouble..

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RE: ♥submission is giving him the POWER to destroy yo... - 10/15/2011 12:45:04 PM

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I sincerely hope it doesn't. There are predators everywhere, but I suspect even more in a place like this. My rule was to only talk about vanilla things until I was very comfortable with someone. Kind of like you do in the real world.

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RE: ♥submission is giving him the POWER to destroy yo... - 10/15/2011 12:53:31 PM

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yeah.. thanks hun i appreciate your advise an i will use it an be way more cautious

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RE: ♥submission is giving him the POWER to destroy yo... - 10/15/2011 2:54:40 PM

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Sometimes when you give someone the power to destroy you, they do.

Not to rain on any parades, I do welcome you here :)

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RE: ♥submission is giving him the POWER to destroy yo... - 10/16/2011 12:00:53 PM

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I feel very unwelcome and judged here.. Nd just because I live in Utah does not mean that I am confined to a organized religion.. I practice WitchCraft Nd have 19 years of experience.. nor is it a organized religion to me.. It's a label.. I am a Very Spiritual person that listens to the rhythm and whispers of the Earth..

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RE: ♥submission is giving him the POWER to destroy yo... - 10/16/2011 12:05:55 PM

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NM..

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RE: ♥submission is giving him the POWER to destroy yo... - 10/16/2011 12:08:45 PM

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The guy can't even type in proper English. Who or what is this supposed to be helping?
Most of us here saw what you meant by the phrase you chose to use, but also saw the danger in this type of advertisement.

You're over 18 and old enough to make your own choices.
No one is judging you...in fact we were trying to help you.

I hope you listen to the whispers and rythyms of your own intuition because if you don't, you may find yourself in a difficult situation.

As far as being judged and/or not being accepted, why not participate in the forums and have some fun? It doesn't all have to be about hardcore domination especially in the beginning when you should take a step back and watch and listen. Things (and people) aren't always as they seem.

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RE: ♥submission is giving him the POWER to destroy yo... - 10/16/2011 12:15:49 PM

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WoW.. your just not a nice person.. all i did was introduce myself Nd if you dont like it the Plz get off my post.. your a very negative person in your so called 'help' .. I was not asking for any help.. I'm a very intelligent person.. you dont know me.. and I think you just need to get off your fucking cross..

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RE: ♥submission is giving him the POWER to destroy yo... - 10/16/2011 12:23:20 PM

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wow.. way to prove your maturity.

*I dont like you.. I'm taking my toy and going home!!!*

(just so ya know.. THAT is what you sound like)

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RE: ♥submission is giving him the POWER to destroy yo... - 10/16/2011 12:26:07 PM

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quote:

if you dont like it the Plz get off my post.

OMG look Chrissie, you've been ordered out of HER thread, too fucking funny.

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RE: ♥submission is giving him the POWER to destroy yo... - 10/16/2011 12:27:34 PM

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No good deed goes unpunished.

But I will take her kind invitation to exit.

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RE: ♥submission is giving him the POWER to destroy yo... - 10/16/2011 12:28:29 PM

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Hey are you hungry? Let's go get something to eat.

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RE: ♥submission is giving him the POWER to destroy yo... - 10/17/2011 7:26:47 AM

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Sounds like a Craigslist ad, OP.

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RE: ♥submission is giving him the POWER to destroy yo... - 10/17/2011 7:33:43 AM

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OP - you just 'ordered off' possibly the one person on this thread who was giving you advice to keep you safe and happy. She is also a very warm, friendly and caring person.

AND you sounded like a little kid sulking cos mama said you couldn't have the last candy in the box.

Way to go

Welcome and all that. Good luck in finding what you need.

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RE: ♥submission is giving him the POWER to destroy yo... - 10/17/2011 8:22:59 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: pyxie7

WoW.. your just not a nice person.. all i did was introduce myself Nd if you dont like it the Plz get off my post.. your a very negative person in your so called 'help' .. I was not asking for any help.. I'm a very intelligent person.. you dont know me.. and I think you just need to get off your fucking cross..

*gasps* Christina! You evil evil wench! You have destroyed her chance of ever getting
that warm fuzzy welcome she was hoping for. Stop being so darned nice and helpful!

......and this little pyxie cried wahh wahh wahh...all the way home.

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RE: ♥submission is giving him the POWER to destroy yo... - 10/17/2011 9:57:04 AM

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ok 19 years experience...whatever that means. I guess all I'll give you is a "good luck" then cause well...what else do you need from us if you have all that experience.

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RE: ♥submission is giving him the POWER to destroy yo... - 10/17/2011 9:59:58 AM

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Well Christina I hope you learned your lesson. That is what you get for being a decent person! For shame!

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