IservBlkKingPaPa -> Distrusting Your slave (10/19/2004 3:13:09 PM)
this slave is curious. During training of Your slave or sub, how many developed a distrust of the sub or slave so that He would feel the need to micromanage every move, even though she, in the end, became more than adequately obedient.
@}PaPa's}slave}-- Every Rose has her Thorns...
Estring -> RE: Distrusting Your slave (10/19/2004 3:19:48 PM)
If I couldn't trust a sub, the relationship would end. I'm not interested in being a babysitter.
BeachMystress -> RE: Distrusting Your slave (10/20/2004 11:21:34 PM)
Why do you think it is distrust? It may be that the Dominant in question wants control over every aspect of the slave. That is often why someone keeps a slave rather than a sub...
INSIDEYOURMIND -> RE: Distrusting Your slave (10/21/2004 5:14:58 AM)
Trust is all you have, if a Dom seeks to micromanage, it may be because he feels it is warranted. I would communicate your thoughts, do not let this fester, it will not result in a good situation. If I could not trust my sub, I wouldn't want her as my sub anyway.
GoddessDustyGold -> RE: Distrusting Your slave (10/23/2004 6:42:12 PM)
I tried to micro-manage...once. It lasted about a week. To much work for Me. Yes, the slave was not trustworthy. he never got it, so he was out the door.