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GreedyTop -> RE: Strategies (10/20/2011 10:38:49 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LillyBoPeep yeah but when you meet people, you don't just wear any old outfit, do you? you don't throw on dirty sweats and a stinky yoga tank and show up. =p you take a shower, fix your hair, and wear something flattering -- that's a strategy to represent yourself positively. do you have any push-up bras, or jeans with tummy control panels? you may not, but lots of others do. =p do you wear high heels or any makeup at all? that's not JUST about aesthetics, it's a strategy for looking your best, however you define it, and a strategy for attraction. um.. I dont do any of that stuff for a first meet. of course, that may be why I'm single snort

DomThoughts -> RE: Strategies (10/20/2011 10:39:31 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: littlewonder Eventually we'd meet..although with Master I really had zero interest in him for two years of him sending me emails late at night Then I am really glad that your master didn't have any sort of plan, and spent two years sending you messages on the spur of the moment. quote: ORIGINAL: littlewonder Eventually he asked if we'd like to meet for coffee. and equally glad he didn't have any sort of plan to meet you when he decided on it. quote: ORIGINAL: littlewonder But hey if a strategy works for you then good luck. But it doesn't seem like it has. I'm so glad that your life worked out so well, without the merest whiff of any sort of strategy. It is quite impressive that you found somebody to love so by chance. quote: ORIGINAL: littlewonder It just happened that I found Master really hot when we met which sealed the deal. lol How very fortunate indeed.

kalikshama -> RE: Strategies (10/20/2011 2:16:44 PM)
quote: even if i was going to the library I went to the library in my pjs yesterday. Hell, I used to go to work in pjs after I saw the bookkeeper doing it. (We don't deal with the public, obviously.) I did make an effort for dates, however.

TheFireWithinMe -> RE: Strategies (10/20/2011 2:28:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DomThoughts quote: ORIGINAL: LillyBoPeep no, you don't "owe" anyone a response, but out of common courtesy, is it really that hard? if you say "No thanks," and they're obnoxious in response, okay sure, have a "block" party. but up until then, it's a lot of assuming the worst, and that doesn't make sense to me. Obviously I agree with the top bit, but nobody likes a kiss ass. (actually, in this place, that doesn't seem as true) I think that is actually a point, I can kinda understand a Deleted Unread' thing, I know how women's inboxes get sometimes, its often easy to select all and delete. (I'll often cut / paste the same message again a couple of days later in that case! - it sometimes works) the ones that do slightly rile me, is when a polite, intelligent opening message is sent, referencing aspects of the profile, and it is read and ignored. Is it so difficult to do a 'thanks but...' (and step down from the soap box) (think it would improve my response ratio if I stop sending messages to lesbians? - asking for luke warm cam sex!) Just to let you know, messages can be glanced at by hovering over the name of the sender. If it's polite and ESPECIALLY if it makes me smile, I'll respond - guaranteed! Obnoxious, forget it, the message is deleted "unread". Oh...yes I think your chances will improve if you stop sending messages to lesbians...unless you feel it's working for you. [:D]

SweetCheri -> RE: Strategies (10/20/2011 3:14:30 PM)
quote: think it would improve my response ratio if I stop sending messages to lesbians? Yes. Unless it is a name I know from the boards I almost always delete unread any message from a man. I will usually do the hover thing and if the little I can see doesn't interest me for some reason, either it has to do with something I posted or it is worth a funny reply, I just get rid of it. For the idea of plans and strategies, yes I have always used them, I see somebody I like I try to plan things to my advantage when I speak with them. It isn't unlike saying read a profile first, you look at the person and find an opening. Nice shoes, or perhaps wis that a good book, something to begin the conversation, and from there I still make plans and strategies. I don't have one that I use all the time, I make them up on the wing, every girl is different, so it takes a different approach for each one, but I still have a plan. With Heather it was her piercings I noticed. So I asked about them. I feigned interest in the process and how much it hurt, when what I really wanted to know was what her pierced tongue would feel like. From there we talked, but I was all the time looking for ways to appeal to her more, not making things up, but putting the emphasis on things about myself that I thought would appeal to her the most. I think everybody does this when they are trying to spark something. CG

Endivius -> RE: Strategies (10/20/2011 7:35:13 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SweetCheri I think everybody does this when they are trying to spark something. I've never thought to myself, "Ok, what do I do here to make myself more interesting...?" I just do.

DomThoughts -> RE: Strategies (10/20/2011 10:12:57 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SweetCheri quote: think it would improve my response ratio if I stop sending messages to lesbians? Yes. Unless it is a name I know from the boards I almost always delete unread any message from a man. I will usually do the hover thing and if the little I can see doesn't interest me for some reason, either it has to do with something I posted or it is worth a funny reply, I just get rid of it. CG Just for clarity! this was a joke by the way (kinda hoped the lukewarm cam sex might give it away!!) apart from that I really enjoyed your post :)

SweetCheri -> RE: Strategies (10/21/2011 5:50:19 AM)
Yes I knew it was a joke, but you would be surprised. I thought it was a good chance to remind random male readers what was likely to happen to their messages they sent to lesbians. I get more random messages from men than from women. Including dominant men wanting to submit to me (??hein??). I'm glad you enjoyed the rest of my post. CG

masternoname -> RE: Strategies (10/21/2011 6:16:15 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SpanishMatMaster quote: ORIGINAL: AdorkableAiley Wow, that sounds like a whole lotta work there. I just clicked gender, put in an age range, general area and side of the / I wanted them to be on and tada, a group of men that fit the general idea of what I was looking for appeared. The hide profile button worked wonders for the ones I was not interested in... This was how I found C and I couldn't be happier. Your way may work, but it sure sounds like a whole lotta complicated to me. Ailey This is the reason why I told in the OP that this message is mostly for dominant males. The proportion of male / female here must be around 20 to 1. If I were a submissive girl I would have not searched at all. With a good profile is enough. You get hundreds of messages just being there. You need a strategy to get rid of as many of them as possible, not a strategy to find somebody. Well I am a dominant male and I agree with her. sounds like a lot of work. you also have to understand that a lot of girls are going to look at your forum posts. Why would they want to hook up with a man who get so upset so easily? Why would they want to hook up with a man who can't accecpt advise from others? Sorry dude, but you shoot yourself in the foot every time you post over here.

SpanishMatMaster -> RE: Strategies (10/21/2011 7:15:45 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: masternoname Well I am a dominant male and I agree with her. sounds like a lot of work. you also have to understand that a lot of girls are going to look at your forum posts. Why would they want to hook up with a man who get so upset so easily? Why would they want to hook up with a man who can't accecpt advise from others? Sorry dude, but you shoot yourself in the foot every time you post over here. Hello, masternoname. I also agreed with some things said by females here, that's not a problem. Yes, it is a lot of work. I consider it necessary. No, I disagree that a lot of girls are going to see at my forum posts. Please compare simply the number of introductions per day with the new members per day ~ the first number is about 8. The second is about 500. Even if both metrics are not exact, they give the right impression: the most people using the system never visit the forums. I do not get upset easily :) But hey, some girls actually want aggressive men here, with "bad temper" for example (literal). I accept advice from others. I can give you samples from this thread. I just don't appreciate being insulted. I understand your general opinion about me but I just disagree :) . I may be difficult and sometimes arrogant, but nothing compared to the bunch of bored parrots which has accumulated here. Thank you for your interest and your answer. Best regards.

JanahX -> RE: Strategies (10/21/2011 7:30:19 AM)
quote: Awareness has a buddy now, Doh! A & SM sitting in a tree .. K-I-S-S-I-N-G good god~ the wit and humour that some of these DOMS (cough-cough) display is OVERWHELMING ... I mean they really sound like a good time! Lots of smiles and laughter for all !!

GreedyTop -> RE: Strategies (10/21/2011 8:38:05 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SpanishMatMaster quote: ORIGINAL: masternoname Well I am a dominant male and I agree with her. sounds like a lot of work. you also have to understand that a lot of girls are going to look at your forum posts. Why would they want to hook up with a man who get so upset so easily? Why would they want to hook up with a man who can't accecpt advise from others? Sorry dude, but you shoot yourself in the foot every time you post over here. Hello, masternoname. I also agreed with some things said by females here, that's not a problem. Yes, it is a lot of work. I consider it necessary. No, I disagree that a lot of girls are going to see at my forum posts. Please compare simply the number of introductions per day with the new members per day ~ the first number is about 8. The second is about 500. Even if both metrics are not exact, they give the right impression: the most people using the system never visit the forums. I do not get upset easily :) But hey, some girls actually want aggressive men here, with "bad temper" for example (literal). I accept advice from others. I can give you samples from this thread. I just don't appreciate being insulted. I understand your general opinion about me but I just disagree :) . I may be difficult and sometimes arrogant, but nothing compared to the bunch of bored parrots which has accumulated here. Thank you for your interest and your answer. Best regards. you DO realize that of those random numbers you post.. MANY of them will be guys posing as women? and if they ARE actual women, many will have no interest in you, given that this is a US based website and you are geographically undesirable? OR.. that many of those women will be drive-bys? (as in sign up and never return?

myotherself -> RE: Strategies (10/21/2011 11:37:19 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JanahX A & SM sitting in a tree .. K-I-S-S-I-N-G Thanks a fucking bunch for that mental picture...not! [:'(]

HannahLynn -> RE: Strategies (10/21/2011 11:51:09 AM)
quote: No, I disagree that a lot of girls are going to see at my forum posts. Please compare simply the number of introductions per day with the new members per day ~ the first number is about 8. The second is about 500. Even if both metrics are not exact, they give the right impression: the most people using the system never visit the forums. yea, yet at the bottom of the page it says. quote: Active Users: There are 363 members and 19392 guests. do you think somebody should let stumpy there know, or do we just let him carry on in blissful fucking ignorance?

tj444 -> RE: Strategies (10/21/2011 12:08:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: HannahLynn quote: No, I disagree that a lot of girls are going to see at my forum posts. Please compare simply the number of introductions per day with the new members per day ~ the first number is about 8. The second is about 500. Even if both metrics are not exact, they give the right impression: the most people using the system never visit the forums. yea, yet at the bottom of the page it says. quote: Active Users: There are 363 members and 19392 guests. do you think somebody should let stumpy there know, or do we just let him carry on in blissful fucking ignorance? no,. no, no, he is a computer expert (so says his profile) so he knows more than any and all of us combined.. after all, he has apparently been on sites and searching for 10 years now (in which time he apparently found a wife for a short time, i guess) so he knows all about this... even tho it recently took him 3 weeks to figure out that women from Africa & Ghana were scammers (& not women at all?)... No, he knows what he is doing, its all worked so well for him, after all.. Interesting that his one and only friend is NS...

SpanishMatMaster -> RE: Strategies (10/21/2011 12:42:20 PM)
tj, if I would consider that you have something real to say, I would not hide you, but as it is... goodbye, ok? I mean, for God's fucking sake, you start saying that I am not what I am professionally? Call www.eureka.de and find out. Ask the the head of software development. And the rest is just stupid attempts to attack me... yes, a lot of guests, and what? How many registered members in the site? I compared more or less comparable numbers, you just try to attack with no sense. This is absurd, it makes no sense to read you. Go troll someone else.

littlewonder -> RE: Strategies (10/21/2011 12:45:33 PM)
how many do you think that brings him up to now that he has on hide? Maybe 95% of c.com? LOL

tj444 -> RE: Strategies (10/21/2011 12:59:03 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SpanishMatMaster tj, if I would consider that you have something real to say, I would not hide you, but as it is... goodbye, ok? I mean, for God's fucking sake, you start saying that I am not what I am professionally? Call www.eureka.de and find out. Ask the the head of software development. And the rest is just stupid attempts to attack me... yes, a lot of guests, and what? How many registered members in the site? I compared more or less comparable numbers, you just try to attack with no sense. This is absurd, it makes no sense to read you. Go troll someone else. Thank you for giving me my being hidden announcement. I was feeling sooooo left out. [:D] I never said you werent a computer expert, i simply repeated what your profile said. I dont care if you actually are or not! lol Its nothing personal against you so dont take it too bad. Anything i said in my post are things you have said about yourself in previous ones. I simply put them all together in one post.. [:D]

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