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LadyAlexa -> RE: Sensitive Breasts and Play (5/24/2006 5:18:43 PM)
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Depending on your age, the breasts will become less tender for some females at certain times of our lives. If you've had children, have lumpy [fibrocystic] breasts, get very tender around your cycle, then possibly you just have to see how your breasts become. Caffiene intake can make some breast types more tender. There is no true way to 'toughen up' the breasts.
Onward to the other part of you question: You should state to anyone that you play with how your breasts and yourself reacts to breast play. You might even guide them in playing with your breasts a couple of times so they will know just how much is too much. We aren't mind readers, although after a time of playing with one person we can pretty well judge how they are doing [:)] If the person likes/loves you, wants to keep playing with you, respects your limits, then they will listen to you. What fun is it to ruin or break a toy or have someone go home with their toys? You and your breasts should get use to regular lite play then possibly more can be added to the playlist i.e. duration, instruments.
I had a friend who could barely take one clothespin on her nipples, now I don't know how many pins she takes to her entire breast area!! Go slow, tell your limits, have your limits respected, and relax. Once you feel more comfortable with the person who is playing with you..and you know they respect your limits...then in time you might be able to do more.
Alexa
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ORIGINAL: SweetSarijane
I have a problem and am hoping to hear from others with a similar problem who may be able to give advice. My breasts are very very sensitive and always have been. That said, I love having them clamped, or clothespins used at times. My problem is that unless my breasts and nipples are slowly, gently and carefully worked on it's a mood killer for me. If someone grabs them abruptly and squeezes or sucks or pinches the nipple hard without carefully working up to it, I lose the mood, it's like a blast of cold water and any desire is gone. If there's not a work up before clamps or clothespins are used then it's the same. If work up is done then as it gets rougher it feels good but only to a certain point. I can only take it so rough and my tolerance there is not very high. So what I'm wondering is if anyone has had this problem were you able to overcome it? Is there a way or ways to toughen up the breasts? Make them less sore and sensitive to withstand and enjoy more without losing most or all sensitivity? Thanks in advance for any feedback and/or advice.
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