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Why do some men get off on serving women financially?

Degradation

24% (9)

Knowing she has all she needs/wants

13% (5)

To Feel utterly helpless

29% (11)

Other

32% (12)

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Why do some men get off on serving women financially? - 10/20/2004 6:12:35 PM

GoddessRhiannon

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Just want to know everyone's opinions...

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RE: Why do some men get off on serving women financially? - 10/21/2004 11:50:02 AM

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I chose other - my feeling - he has more money than brains - but I am against the idea of financial domination or money slavery or whatever you want to call it - I think it is just a way for a woman to make some money without really doing anything to earn it - especially those that state 'you will send me money before I even agree to talk with you' - I feel its a scam, and an affront to those of us in the lifetstyle who actually take the time to learn the skills associated with it - whereas these 'Domanas' only have to let their pms take control and spew forth whatever filth comes to mind - oh, maybe if a guy gives them enough money they may flash him their tits or pussy, but he is never going to actually be allowed to touch her, nor will she touch him - not even by proxy with a flogger or whip - I find it insulting to my intelligence, as well as to my chosen lifestyle - "Look at me, I have a pretty face and a fair body, send me money so that I can call you a worthless piggy" pfffftt <spitting on floor in disgust>

Just my tuppence.

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RE: Why do some men get off on serving women financially? - 10/21/2004 12:40:44 PM

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LOL, I agree with you Thanatosian.
I put up as a joke on my profile that I was going to say that I was a financial Domme so that I could pay my bills because I can't find a job. Boy was that a mistake, within minutes I got Dommes insulting me about it. Saying that being a financial Domme was not just so that they could be lazy, I asked them what it was about and never got a response. Kind of makes you think.

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RE: Why do some men get off on serving women financially? - 10/25/2004 1:07:19 PM

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There's been a ton of commentary on this topic, for and against. I can only offer that, while money slavery is not my thing, I am, when I have any, quite gallant with my money, and will freely spend it on my friends, loved ones, and partners.

Hmmmm... come to think of it, I don't have a bank account. I just sign all my checks over to my wife, who is also the only person I sub for any more. Maybe there are other so-called money slaves who, like me, can not be trusted to handle their own finances?

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RE: Why do some men get off on serving women financially? - 10/26/2004 5:18:11 AM

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quote:

Maybe there are other so-called money slaves who, like me, can not be trusted to handle their own finances?

The only problem with that argument is I have never seen a 'financial dominatrix' saying 'give me your money so I can pay your bills with it' it has always been ' gimme your money so I can pay MY bills with it - or buy myself whatever I want with it'

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RE: Why do some men get off on serving women financially? - 10/26/2004 5:59:28 AM

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Very good point, as usual, Thanatosian. I could understand if a Domme or a Master wanted to do financial domination but made sure the bills were paid. I have that situation myself. I am terrible with my own bank account so I put bill money in a separate account that he controls. I trust him totally and have access to the account in order to see what is going on with it. It works great for us.

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RE: Why do some men get off on serving women financially? - 10/26/2004 8:59:35 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Thanatosian
I chose other - my feeling - he has more money than brains...

Goodness, If I wanted to do that, I'd just get married!
Wait a minute! That's what happened!

Honestly, I don't think that was her intention, but that's kind of how it worked out.

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RE: Why do some men get off on serving women financially? - 10/27/2004 6:13:55 PM

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Which brings to mind the question "Who STARTED Financial Slavery in the first place?! The subs or the Dommes?" because, as I have noticed, the ratio of Dommes to subs is *exactly* the *opposite* of every other area of BDSM!

There are hundred yowling Dommes out there demanding and carrying on for every financial "piggy slave"!

Yes, I would *love* to get into Financial Domination, but I'm NOT an "Insta-Domme" or a newbie. FD would be a sideline to My susal interests, mainstream BDSM.

But where does one *find* these elusive "money slaves"?! For once the tablers are turned and I can see how male submissives must feel when there is one mistress to every 100 subbies!

IMNSHO, the whole Financial Domination thing may have been started by a clever Domme and she created a 'market' of sorts.

I want to be "the Different Domme" in the financial Slavery scene, not a spoilt child whining and snapping for things, but one who trains and *appreciates* the hard work Her slaves put in to keep Her in luxury... one who gives BACK something for the dough!

Any financial submissive reading this, contact Me! You will NOT be treated like a thing, but like what you are, a man who has laid at a Woman's feet, his entire self, his soul, his power and dignity. You will be APPRECIATED and trained, Dominated and given PROOF that what you have to give is worthy of Me.

And if I do not find a Financial Slave? I still love BDSM and I still love what I do! I just won't have tonnes of cabbage lying around to roll in, that's all.

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RE: Why do some men get off on serving women financially? - 11/4/2004 1:18:38 PM

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I honestly do not under stand a money slave. if they wanted a women to make fun of them and take their money there are phone chats for that. and they may be a little cheaper. or maybe they figure they have enough or to much money and want to get rid of some but then again i never known anyone to say that.while i have seen many subs i have never known one to cough up money for a dom he barly knows. and you find alot on finacial doms in chat rooms who will only talk to you if you give a "donation" to them. then again maybe they have a fetish for money though i have no idea what it would be called.

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RE: Why do some men get off on serving women financially? - 11/4/2004 5:43:57 PM

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This is a simple and easy question and answer.

Men thru out time have controled politics and finance.
Woman thru out time have controled the Men whom control the politics and finance.
When a man seeks out a Woman to dominant his finance he is looking for the other
half to complete him. It doesent matter if the man is seeking the woman to marry
and give up his paycheck to her to pay the bills, it doesent matter if the man seeks a
woman to live with him and feel in control of the womans attention by giving her money
to control of his, or simply to have or hire a Dominant or Dominantrix to exentuate the
exchange of money and power for degredation and humiliation and the release of such
a power to one whom holds more. This can also be totally changed around and a Master
holds onto the finance and care of its slave totally controlling what it gives the slave in
order to control and use this tool to their advantage as well. Different Position and gender
but same principles of power Domination. JMO

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RE: Why do some men get off on serving women financially? - 11/5/2004 3:52:33 AM

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Money Slavery! That is nothing to do with true relity slavery and ownrship of a male slave creatur but mor to do with another form of prostitution where a slefish,semi educated,moronic bitch,thinks sh can get equally moronic men to pay from out of their own pocket to fund the expensive tastes of a tart. They also get a rarther inferior below mediocre standard of domination from th said lazy,idle,semi educated bitch tarts.

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RE: Why do some men get off on serving women financially? - 11/5/2004 6:16:37 AM

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No offense powerechange,

But using profanity, ad hominem attacks in conjuction with HORRIBLE spelling and grammar does nothing to prove that you are any less of a moron than the people you directed the attacks.

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RE: Why do some men get off on serving women financially? - 11/5/2004 7:16:52 AM

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quote:

Money Slavery! That is nothing to do with true relity slavery and ownrship of a male slave creatur but mor to do with another form of prostitution where a slefish,semi educated,moronic bitch,thinks sh can get equally moronic men to pay from out of their own pocket to fund the expensive tastes of a tart. They also get a rarther inferior below mediocre standard of domination from th said lazy,idle,semi educated bitch tarts.

I am going to jump into this one, you obviously have no idea what you are talking about.

Why do some people think that just because one kink or another is not of their choice it is wrong?

FYI- many many men, yes powerful wealthy men feel the need for a power exchange. And the only thing they can give up is money. They actually do desire it, crave it and practice it. I know it is hard for some to wrap their minds around, but it happens.. it is a true fetish. I have found that the ones that do not understand this have no serious money. So therefore cannot imagine "giving" it away.

I have practiced financial Domination, and in no way consider myself a tart, uneducated or any of the various things that have been said. I have never "raped" a bank account or "broke" someone. I have however recently recieved a car, gifts and money. All from men who could clearly afford to give it! It made them feel good to give it to me, made them feel as though they were giving something up.

Are there women that simply place an ad in hopes of obtaining money, of course there are. But it is wrong to sterotype everyone that practices this fetish into a mass catagory.

I am personally offended by those that claim to be more open minded than the masses.

Mod3

who by the way, is not a prostitute!

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RE: Why do some men get off on serving women financially? - 11/5/2004 8:01:45 AM

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Just to add my two cents...

I had a gentleman who would not leave me alone to let him be my slave, wanted to give me everything. I am naturally sub so this was not normal for me. But I let him convince me to give it a try for a week or two. He was constantly wanting to give me money. I was slightly uncomfortable with that. I asked him what he did for a living, teacher, hmm... Can't make that much, mortgage, credit card, car loan... How much surplus do you have after bills and food and other necessities? Next to nothing he says. Then why on earth give me anything? I don't want to take from you so that you are impoverished at my expense. He said he wanted to make my life as comfortable as he possibly could. And was prepared to make that sacrifice. He was going to quit his job and get a better job... Stufflike that... Was strange to me. He couldn't understand why I would want to make sure his bills were covered before he ever gave me a dime. So I guess there are men who want to do this, for their own humiliation, sense of duty and honor, or whatever... It's not just evil women who want to take everything from them.

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RE: Why do some men get off on serving women financially? - 11/5/2004 10:47:53 AM

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DAMN JULES!!!

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points at JULES and lets HER do all the quipin for a change....cause she is such a SMART COOKIE IN THE JAR.... I just LUV bringing out the BEST of every sum bodys..........LOLs an Laughs My freaken head off Imagining both PE and J goin at it while I sit looking at the FEMA [[[[[MAN]]]] with a totally blank and yes Im dumber then dumb BITCH face.......ummm duhh what da ya mean can I tell Ya which hurricane got My clothes an personal belongings wet? Charlie took off My roof and well I suppose the other three hurricanes got together and pointed down at My Open roof and said hey theres sum dumb persons personal belongings that havent been covered,,,, lets fuck em up sum more!!!! still looking with My totally blank and dumber then dumb face while I say which part of I left befor Charlie hit here to My Home in Jamaica to try and prepare it and save it there where My Family was at from the Hurricane which was WAYYYY STRONGER when it hit THERE I might add LONGGGGGG BEFOR it hit the US and took off MY DAMN ROOF of My House here in the US! now making My dumb face smirk and goes back to thinking bout J with PE over Her knee while the FEMA [[[[[[[[[MAN]]]]]] scoots back his chair abit and says.........OOOOOk Nowwww I understand... Ohhh how I do just love days like this!

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RE: Why do some men get off on serving women financially? - 11/5/2004 10:45:15 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Thanatosian

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Maybe there are other so-called money slaves who, like me, can not be trusted to handle their own finances?

The only problem with that argument is I have never seen a 'financial dominatrix' saying 'give me your money so I can pay your bills with it' it has always been ' gimme your money so I can pay MY bills with it - or buy myself whatever I want with it'

Such a generalization, Thanatosian! I absolutely make sure the slave's bills are paid. It is one of the hardest things as these boys want to come into My household and have nothing left over or can't even meet their own bills. So they are living hand to mouth and it sure would be easier for them to move in with Me and have Me take over their bills. I think you might be surprised at how many there are like that out there.
Should I accept them, then, even though they can barely support themselves? Now who's the money slave?
Mod 3...thanks for making your statement. It is true...there are males out there who want to give. Why shouldn't I offer to take? I am not forcing anyone. Just offering to satisfy this particular kink.

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RE: Why do some men get off on serving women financially? - 3/20/2010 12:07:38 PM

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A guy I know does this. He pays her a ton of money so that if she wants to leave, she can not.
Its an odd relationship though.
He has told me I should get into it because I look like a little girl half the time (im 21, btw), and older guys like this becuase of daddy needs.

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RE: Why do some men get off on serving women financially? - 3/20/2010 2:15:50 PM

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Dude, do you go out of your way to dredge up 5 year old threads?

The mods have told you not to revive threads that are older than six months, so knock it off already. Start a new thread and link to the old one if you reallly have to post.

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