LillyBoPeep
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Joined: 12/29/2010 Status: offline
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Are you interested in participating in group events? That's a good way to meet blatantly kinky people and be face to face with them and have conversations. If not, then you have other options -- if you rely on the internet; the best impressions of you will be either your profile, or forum posts. Right now, your profile says very little about who you are. Chicks usually like to get an idea of who you are beyond your sex/kink interests. You can also try joining Fetlife -- Fetlife has more specialized groups for regions; you can search the name of your city and probably find people living there, or groups that are nearby. Fetlife also has more designators besides Dom/sub/switch -- so maybe you can find something that's more fitting for who you are. Alternatively, you could get into the business of trying to "sniff out" kinky women hiding in plain sight, but that can get a little tricky... Your profile says you're a switch which will honestly probably knock you down a few pegs for a lot of submissive women. Not all of them, of course, but a lot of them. Your profile statement -- "My mind and body are available." -- sounds like something a submissive man would say; if you've read a lot of msub profiles, it sounds like the stuff you see in them. Your profile says you're interested in meeting both sub and Dom women -- a statement like that without much clarification makes it seem like you aren't terribly interested in who you get, you just want anything. That may not be how you intend it, obviously, but it's kinda how it reads. Give some insight into what you offer as a Dominant (or a submissive) -- go into a little more detail so that people reading your profile get a better understanding of who you are. Do you realize how many men 45 and up there are with profiles flashing their bums, and basically saying "Hey, I'm here,let's get busy?" -- there are a lot of them, and unless you flesh out your profile, add some vanilla interests, and show yourself as a well-rounded individual, you'll just get lost in the fog.
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